I'd be more confused, that anything, because my parents wouldn't and haven't ever been rude to my girlfriend. But, just to play along, if they where, I'd have my girlfriend's back.
didn't like mama boys and deal with some of them were previous ex boyfriend and aswell being a complaint. My mum always like to limted my dating to a learning disabled guys , I would to stay up if i did have a partner.
Yep I'd confront them about it. Although I know they'd not do something like that, they're super chill. If they were fine with me being openly atheist while thehre religious Hindu, they'd be fine with a partner I choose
Yes, my mother did not like my wife. She thought I should have married my former girlfriend. She was very rude to my wife and at first I just let it go but finally I had to tell her she had to stop.
Is there a reason why she didn't like your wife? Sadly when parents (esp a mother) doesn't like your partner, it's a dislike forever. If they get along eventually it's hypocrisy on their part; they'll never sincerely like them.
@Vesuvius87 I don't know. She just disliked her from the start. My wife is one of the kindest people in the world. She has been a great wife and a wonderful mother. It was my wife that ended up taking are of her when she was in the nursing home.
Sorry to hear that. As long as both of you are happy that's all that counts. I'm currently adored/liked by my boyfriend's mother. I hope things stay that way. I wouldn't know how to deal if I were not liked. When parents dislike you, that's their mindset, their permanent views on you. It's nearly impossible to change their minds.
If there was a conflict, I would absolutely stick up for my SO. Luckily my mom and I share enough major morals that she usually approves whoever I date.
You bet your ass I would. Bluntly. Thankfully that will never happen. My mom has no interest in who I hang out with, and my dad has no interest in me period.
I was living on my own on and off since 15yrs old so my parents aren't rude because they let go of that a long time ago. I also don't bring around girls that would be disrespectful.
When younger my parents only wanted to take me out to dinner... as a couple obviously she would come along... parents had a shit fit right in the driveway... didn't speak to them for 5 years...
They would never because I would uno reverse them and say I have someone else in mind for them too, then literally try to being home an adult at school to set them up with said parent to split them apart.
Yes.. and I can say this with my head heals high because I'm already doing it... I feel parents should allow there kids to grow and learn from there mistakes even if its a relationship
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I'd be more confused, that anything, because my parents wouldn't and haven't ever been rude to my girlfriend. But, just to play along, if they where, I'd have my girlfriend's back.
I hope you would :)
didn't like mama boys and deal with some of them were previous ex boyfriend and aswell being a complaint. My mum always like to limted my dating to a learning disabled guys , I would to stay up if i did have a partner.
Stand up mean
Yea mama’s boys need to learn to standup
Yep I'd confront them about it.
Although I know they'd not do something like that, they're super chill.
If they were fine with me being openly atheist while thehre religious Hindu, they'd be fine with a partner I choose
Haha i bet
Yes, my mother did not like my wife. She thought I should have married my former girlfriend. She was very rude to my wife and at first I just let it go but finally I had to tell her she had to stop.
Is there a reason why she didn't like your wife? Sadly when parents (esp a mother) doesn't like your partner, it's a dislike forever. If they get along eventually it's hypocrisy on their part; they'll never sincerely like them.
@Vesuvius87 I don't know. She just disliked her from the start. My wife is one of the kindest people in the world. She has been a great wife and a wonderful mother. It was my wife that ended up taking are of her when she was in the nursing home.
Sorry to hear that. As long as both of you are happy that's all that counts. I'm currently adored/liked by my boyfriend's mother. I hope things stay that way. I wouldn't know how to deal if I were not liked. When parents dislike you, that's their mindset, their permanent views on you. It's nearly impossible to change their minds.
@Vesuvius87 yes, I am glad it worked out for you.
She was probably jealous that the wife would get more attention (as she should)
it was complicated,
If there was a conflict, I would absolutely stick up for my SO. Luckily my mom and I share enough major morals that she usually approves whoever I date.
Thats good
You bet your ass I would. Bluntly.
Thankfully that will never happen. My mom has no interest in who I hang out with, and my dad has no interest in me period.
Damn
I was living on my own on and off since 15yrs old so my parents aren't rude because they let go of that a long time ago. I also don't bring around girls that would be disrespectful.
But in this scenario, the girl wasn't disrespectful or anything. Your parents just simply didn't feel she was good enough for you
I'd stand up for her 100%
I lose my temper fast when it comes to how significant others are treated.
Ok good, well not the temper part 🤣
It's pretty much the only time I have a temper 🙃
simple if they dont want her to be with me they won't see me again
Nice
if my SO wasn't rude to them first, then i'd totally confront them.
Good
Oh hell yeah, especially when there is no reasoning for them to be rude.
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Yeap. Last time it happened though I didn't need to, she tried to attack them lol
Holy smokes haha
Yeah, like I had to hold her back from beating the shit out of my grandparents and aunt
As in literally hold her back
Lol i wouldve fought her once we got home like look, i know theyre disrespectful, bt you let me handle it 😂
Lol yeah that would have ended very badly xD put it this way, needless to say I have an anger problem. But my god she is volatile.
Yes I confronted my parents over my first girlfriend which was difficult to do. They weren't fans of my sexuality.
Hell yeah, I won't let them talk down on my man. My choice, not theirs.
Right Right
Yes, absolutely. There's no call for that. The person I am with is my choice.
I agree
I wouldn't even bother dealing with them, if they don't like my S. O. then they shouldn't even bother talking to me
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Yes, I would. Absolutely. Everyone who knows me knows that I've never had any problem speaking my mind.
Lol you sure dont
When younger my parents only wanted to take me out to dinner... as a couple obviously she would come along... parents had a shit fit right in the driveway... didn't speak to them for 5 years...
Wow well at least i put them
In they place
*u put them
They would never because I would uno reverse them and say I have someone else in mind for them too, then literally try to being home an adult at school to set them up with said parent to split them apart.
Uno reverse 😂😂😂
Yes.. and I can say this with my head heals high because I'm already doing it... I feel parents should allow there kids to grow and learn from there mistakes even if its a relationship
Right on
Confronting then will only create problems. It is a very difficult balancing act that you have to play.