Do you treat your sons and daughters differently?

[JessieBellll]

If so how?

[Anpu23]

I treat all of my kids as individuals. Each one has individual strengths and weaknesses so yes.

[Anpu23]

Thanks for MHO

[BeachLuvR97]

I would treat each one according to their needs, so that they may grow up and be successful.

[wingattebaby16]

i only have daughters.

one of my daughter's bfs i babysat from 13to 15yo.. for his mom my doctor.

i treated Jeff different that my girls. He is a boy, likes boy things.. video games, action movies, hates chick flicks, gets very uncomfie with crying, and omg, dont talk about romance and dating in front of him.

he is however a gentleman, thanks to me... his mom is a single mom that works 50-60 hrs a week..

My husband also modeled good Male image to Jeff.

[Twalli]

If I had any, I would. Fact is, women are far more likely to be sexually assaulted than men. Therefore the way 5hey approach such instances will be different. If a girl if a girl can choose between sexual assault or physical and sexual assault, she should pick the former. Guys usually don't have a situation in which they can choose either one.

[JessieBellll]

What the Heck are you talking about?

[JessieBellll]

Why would they choose any assault is beyond me

[Twalli]

If they will be assaulted. Obviously people would choose to not be assaulted over being assaulted, but if you will be assaulted you can maybe control what kind. Plan for the worst

[JessieBellll]

And why would boys not have the option to choose?

[Twalli]

Because assault for boys is generally violent. The intent is humiliation in assault and beating the shit out of a guy is generally the way to humiliate him the most. Treating a girl like a cum dump is usually the way to humiliate her the most. Yet she can choose fight and get beaten or not fight and not get beaten. My sister has experienced both, she says not fighting is far better.

[JessieBellll]

Many men don't tell about sex assault

[JessieBellll]

Doesn't mean they are not assaulted

[Twalli]

I know, but the assaults we hear about and know about are generally violent.

[JessieBellll]

But it shows girls are not far more assaulted

[Twalli]

They are. Most girls don't report assault either.

[JessieBellll]

They do

[Twalli]

Most don't. They report a lot more than men, but most still don't.

[JessieBellll]

You have no evidence

[Twalli]

I have the only evidence anyone has.

[JessieBellll]

I could say the same

[Twalli]

The only evidence provided shows that girls are assaulted more than boys and while both underreport, boys underreport more.

[JessieBellll]

Exactly, so there are way more assaultd on boys than you think

[Twalli]

I never said that guys aren't assaulted.

[JessieBellll]

You said girls are way more which I disagreed with

[Twalli]

Which I still say, because all the evidence we hff as ve says that

[JessieBellll]

The stats are not accurate

[Twalli]

Wny?

[JessieBellll]

Because they don't include unreported assaults which are far more for men

[Twalli]

So because they're incomplete? That would imply that we know next to nothing about anything because our knowledge is incomplete. We can't have an accurate knowledge of prime numbers, because we don't know every single one. Our knowledge is incomplete.

[JessieBellll]

Then your statement that girls are far more assaulted is innacurate

[Twalli]

No, the numbers are incomplete, but that doesn't make them useless. We can get a fairly accurate understanding of what we don't know from what we do.

[JessieBellll]

If the numbers are incomplete you cannot make any statement on who's more assaulted

[Twalli]

Then why do you take medicine. We don't know everything about how medicines work. The knowledge is incomplete. Also you might as well not see a doctor, they don't know everything there is to know about your body. They're trying to treat you based on incomplete evidence. Also why study anything, we don't know everything about any subject. If the knowledge is incomplete, then it doesn't matter.

[JessieBellll]

This has nothing to do with this topic, we have to work with what we have, but that doesn't mean you are right or wrong in what you are saying.

It's just your opinion

[Twalli]

It's not really an opinion it's what the statistics we have say.

[Exterminatore]

Yes. I treat the boy like a boy and the girl like a girl. Mostly the same standards for both.

[DaveToo]

I have no sons, but even if I did, they get the same treatment from me.

[AndrésC64]

Well, I don't have kids. But if I did I would hope that I would treat them the same.

[Joshua0213]

I dont have kids but definitely would. Cause both need different things to succeed:)

[whosnumber1]

no I don't, they are still pretty young. I don't intend to treat them differently either

[imbeingmyself]

no as it's bad for their relationship as siblings and also bad for parent and child relationships.

[serious]

I don't have kids. I cannot comment.

[Kelly6]

Nope