Girls, are you comfortable with talking to your mom and dad about personal topics or asking them personal questions ?

[SaMaNtHa-hhh]

[Smoke-n-Growls]

No.

My parents are both products of their time. They know little about life, are the "pray the gay/anxiety/problems" away type without being religious, and they are unable to view me as an indepedent adult.

They are childlike in their innocence, and woefully unequipped to answer real-world questions.

I go to my older friends for this kind of thing. I've got my found family whom I ask.

[laurieluvsit]

Totally, about anything, since I was younger than you are.

[SaMaNtHa-hhh]

how much younger than me?

[laurieluvsit]

Really any age, if I asked they knew how to give me an appropriate answer.

[SaMaNtHa-hhh]

your parents sound really nice and open minded

[SaMaNtHa-hhh]

must have been really helpful while growing up

[SaMaNtHa-hhh]

can you follow me?

[MayeMay]

Hell no.

She has always been strick and judges very easily. Not only that, but when you tri to event to her she either gets mad and or dismisses it.

When I was younger and dried yo tell her about the homicidal and suicidal thoughts I way having, she ignored me. She acted all surprised not even a month after when she was told to take me to a mental hospital by court once police were called to breakup a fight between me and my assailed of an uncle.

She yelled at me the whole time she was driving me there, saying things like "you should have told me." "You put him in the hospital, I hope your happy" "I bet this is all because of devices"

She threw my phone out of the window after that lol.

Even when I got out she wouldn't let me talk about how I feel or vent, but I get called a bitch when she tries to do the same and vent to me, but I'm not paying full attention or taking her side on the situation.

[idonotexist]

No they were super strict with me growing up, I couldn't tell them anything personal going on in my life because I'd just get in trouble with them. I can tell them casual things or about my feelings on something more surface level. But they never made me feel comfortable going to them and confiding in them.

[Emilyis]

OMG yes with I have no problem with talking with my mom and sister even with most sensitive things and I have had a few talks with my dad if I need infomation for my husband. I had no brothers growing up.

[erin_ireland]

I avoid to discuss girls' stuff with my dad, but I like to discuss about everything with my mom. She understands. Even walked on me once and was super cool about it

[Aerissa_Jade]

I am with my mother, not so much my dad. She'll answer any question honestly and I had to learn to not ask questions I didn't really want to know the answer to.

[Leshen]

I am, but at the same time I keep some stuff to myself. At least the details of certain things. Not everything is meant to be shared. I try to be as honest as possible tho.

[elizamichale1]

Yup absolutely i m most closer with my dad though n i always shared everything with him n mum

[EmmaMary]

Totally, both my parents have always been completely approachable, open and honest on any subject I have needed to talk or discuss about.

[dustybiker]

My mum was good with everything but personal topics. She shut down and made it awkward. It hurt. Nobody is perfect though. Found my own way.

[Changiis07]

No I am not comfortable talking to them about anything personal. Maybe more my mom if anything but I pick and choose what I want to share.

[Chiarac2003]

Yes sometimes…. But it’s much easier to discuss everything with my nonno or nonna

[sheikalana]

I’m very comfortable with my mom but never managed to have this type of connection with my dad.

[HannisH]

Perfectly comfortable with it. That doesn't mean I always talk or talked with them about certain things. But I always know I can.

[swettannie]

nope. but i'm always ready to help my little sis for any question she have

[Anonymous]

My daughters are comfortable with talking to me about them.

[Selene_94]

With my mom yes dad no especially about women things.

[Agape93]

Nope. That's backfired several times.

[aided_]

yeah usually

[Clairvear69]

Yes but more with mother

[Preeti161101]

Yes with mom but not sexual stuff

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

no because i'm not good with them

[JoyGirl]

Absolutely not…lol

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Nope

[thedaffodils]

nOooO