Have you parent ever told you that you were the least favorite?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever been told you were the least favorite child? How do you feel about it?

[Guy13]

Oh my, that would be horrific... Please tell me to MYOB if you want. That ever happen to anyone in your family?

[Asker]

Yes to me. I already known this since I was a child. Just happy to hear it from my supposed to be mom. My dad never treated me differently. He treated me like a baby although I’m 30 I was his youngest child. He passed August of last year. I’m the middle child of the woman that gave birth to me. But I been in therapy since March for grieving of my dad but we went so much deeper.

So it doesn’t bother me because I got treated differently as a child because I was darker skin complexion but in public I got all the love in the world or when I was sick.

[Guy13]

Okay, i do not know what to say except it looks like you tackle things head-on that come into your life. That's an admirable trait..

[Asker]

Lol that’s honesty. I like it and it’s true.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Ye I'm the leftist. 💃 Least my sis is "naive" n tricked to be left. They cain't pretend I don't know what I do anymore tho

[FictionalCharacter]

No. They just told me I was adopted and found me in a shoebox.

[Mynameisbobby]

Yup all the time! My sister was my mother's favorite. It sucked

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that. I felt it as a child and it was confirmed at the age of 29. I felt like my dad’s favorite child. Unfortunately, he passed away 8 months ago. So I’m left with a egg incubator. That most people call a mom.

[Mynameisbobby]

Sorry about your dad.

[Asker]

Thank you. Therapy helped me better deal with grief and also past trauma. I’m learning how to have boundaries and reverse past trauma. I miss him dearly. But I have to move on like he did when my granddad passed away.