Would you associate with this person?

[Anonymous]

This person claims to be my best friend but they haven’t spoken to me for months and they’ve been really hostile towards me in indirect ways. For example I told them this person was abusive towards me and when the abusive person sent them a friend request on social media = they readily accepted it. When my team won the Super Bowl they were out drinking and they told me to go out by myself to drink and I said I didn’t want to and they were pleading with me to do it when I didn’t want to do it. They’ve laughed at me a few times and when I talk and mispronounced a few words they correct me on the pronunciation

When I tell them about my problems they start saying their opinion of what’s going on instead of listening to what I say. What do you think? Should I stop associating with them? Would you?

Yes

No

[Guy13]

I would be backing out of that slowly. You are there though so you know. Do it slowly and you might be surprised. It all may come together again. It is your call...

[Asker]

That’s what I’m doing. I haven’t spoken to them in a while and I haven’t made the effort at all

[Asker]

They could write to me at any time but they don’t bother at all so I don’t bother with them

[Guy13]

That makes sense. Sorry to hear it because it is still like somebody dying... a loss. Take care.