I came clean but is this enough punishment already?

[Anonymous]

I'm going to turn 18 in a couple months from now and decided to come clean about framing someone when I was 13.

I was a stupid, insecure kid that didn't want to be caught making-out at a school food feast dance nor bullied further. I had a horrible time in middle school until I made up that lie. It haunted me for years to the point my deceased aunt kept appearing in my dreaming this year, telling me to do the right thing.

I came clean but now I'm hated by several classmates and this went viral. I currently have a terrible reputation as of now. A few people that don't even go to my school already know it too. One of them thinks I should be shamed for 5 years, the same time as the kid I framed. I know they're upset but do I deserved all that hatred for that long? I already apologized, came clean and cleared the kid's name. What more can I do?

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I went from a cool girl with friends to one of the most hated one with a bad reputation. I'm called names by now (someone called me ''future Amber'' or ''There is Amber is the making''). I'm trying to make things right and people are being this harsh.

[Light909090]

You’ve felt Guilty for 5 years
Bruh when I was 13 if I felt Guilty all I would do is Take a Nap and I wake up feeling not a damn thing anymore. Now as an Adult I lack empathy because I am a Realist A pessimist and agnostic I’m also A Nihilist. Never had much empathy when I was a Kid I had some anxiety but it wasn’t that much anxiety
I Dreaded things more than I felt Guilty as a Kid but when I did feel guilty it bothered me A ton so much that as I got older as a Dude I learned how to Turn off my emotions and to keep them off.
If you’ve ever watched Vampire diaries Stefan says that his humanity kept Trying to come back it’s the same thing with Real life.
Ounce you Turn off your Emotions they try to come back and keep trying it Took me awhile to shut that part out the part where emotions try to come back when emotions are Turned off.
I’m not going to tell you how I did it because You Won’t Turn off your emotions until you realize That feeling guilty is a bad feeling that you never wanna feel ever again and when you feel that way if you decide Feeling Guilt and anxiety is no longer worth it. Then you can Research the brain 🧠 on your phone 📱 read upon psychopaths get real interested in psychopaths and how They think and Why they don’t feel Guilt and it will take you awhile but eventually You’ll learn how to shut your emotions off for good and you’ll have Logic only you won’t have emotions anymore but still have desires wants things you care about and eventually the anger will go away for good because you will of eventually Shut your emotions completely off.

[Mynameisbobby]

No I don't think you deserve to be treated like that from something that you did when you were 13. I mean you shouldn't have lied about the other kid but I can understand why you did because of the bullying. So now it sounds like you're being bullied all over again? Are you a senior? If you are then you only have one year left of these people. I'm really sorry you're going through this, I know what it's like to be bullied and hated by everyone. Maybe you can try and make them understand why you did what you did. Either way I wish you the best.

[Asker]

Yes I'm a senior and back to bullying all over again. I haven't had that for years. Nothing is working out. I'm getting called Amber. I know who she is but that's not my name so I totally hate that.

[Mynameisbobby]

Sorry 😞

[Anonymous]

I have no sympathy for you. 5 years for you to tell the truth is disgusting. Shame on you for ruining an innocent person's life. And Shame on you for thinking you don't deserve the names you are being called. Imagine the hell that innocent person went through for 5 years because of you. Have you even apologised to the person whose life you ruined?

[Asker]

Yes I did and it wasn't accepted. He'll never forgive me.

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't have to forgive you. You ruined his life, you could have even made him want to kill himself because of what you did. I seriously cannot believe you expect people to have sympathy for you and that you expect people not to give you shit. Your lucky the guy isn't going to the police and having you charged for what you did or even suing you for millions of dollars.

[Koalamate]

I honestly wouldn't care much as you were 13.

Dont let it bother you your gonna be done with it all soon.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it's a good thing. You don't just go ruining someone's life.

[Asker]

I never met things to go that far. I wasn't thinking too much at the time.

[Wise4myage]

Live, learn and move on. And consider moving to a new town and starting over.

[Asker]

yeah I guess. This is my last year of HS. I can't wait to finish it.

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

It happens , just try not to abuse.

[Asker]

Hopefully it comes to a stop eventually. It's my last year of HS and I'm having a terrible time again.

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

Life is endless abuses and sufferings. We can make it with less abuses and sufferings by not abusing. It will not only benefit us , but our neighbours as well , which in turn will benefit us.

[UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT]

Just remember to love and respect yourself , if someone demands or asks you of something that will cause discomfort and unpleasantnessess towards you or others , then deny them. You should not be in unpleasant and uncomfortable situations , and if they insist understanding that there will be unpleasant and uncomfortable situations and experiences , then you should not be around them , for they are ill , and you are most likely not the person to heal them of their sadistic illnessess , because that is a powerful and great evil only a few amongst the trillions and endless amounts of people whom can even communicate with without being abused in the process. Be careful around the ill , those who have abusive tendancies.