Is your love for your mother unconditional?

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So over the weekend, I saw a movie called  Who's Watching Oliver.  In the film, a gentleman named Oliver would facetime with his mama from thousands of miles away and do whatever she asked him to do. It seemed he was always trying to please her because she saved him from an abusive father. She knew this and took advantage of the situation by pressuring him to perform for her, mainly by live-streaming his encounters with females, usually prostitutes. Mama LOVED these encounters but Oliver didn't. He started feeling remorse, mainly because it usually ended tragically for the poor girls. Is your love for your mama so unconditional that you would literally do  anything  for her?  VOTE!

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

I haven't spoken to my mother for over 5 years.

Her love was never unconditional. I had to basically raise myself AND her, to boot.

She couldn't grow up, couldn't work past her own trauma, and wouldn't accept therapy or help. It ruined our whole family, not just her and my relationship.

I was emotionally done with and separating from my mother by 16.

The last 5 years have been my happiest, healthiest, wealthiest, and most free. I'll never speak to her again (probably), and I'm more than happy with that.

Going no contact with her was just the consequence of her abuse and neglect. She should've thought about her future more if she really wanted to keep a relationship with me.

Blackcosmo · Accepted Answer

Not exactly. As long as she remains a good person then yes. Also to love someone is to also prevent them from doing bad and doing bad for them.

Stoner710 · Accepted Answer

Depends which one you were talking about biological fuck her she can go die in a hole she unlocked me in a car at 105° weather to go have sex for six hours she fed me banana pills saying “ oh he’s hungry he’ll eat the banana peel“ or locking me outside in 32°- weather In which I had to sleep with dogs or biting me for crying because I was hungry.

my adopted mother is awesome, I love her she is the best mom anyone could ask for she’s been through her shit but compared to my bio mom she’s amazing

TDDMS · Accepted Answer

My mother was a raging narcissist when she was alive. On the day she died, there was a sense of relief. . . . sense of freedom when I told the funeral director to just toss her body in the oven. I believe I was about 14 years old when I realized that she is incapable of loving and not deserving of being loved.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Well, I don't know what limits I could place on my love for her. She has dementia now. And I will do anything I can to make her feel good. Even when it comes to her calling like on occasion at night. She will talk for hours. And I just listen and say. . ."mmmm. . ."

I hope someone is around to do that for me when I get close to kicking the bucket.

Kerrim23 · Answer

My stepsister's mom used to steal her brothers Adderall, then she was fucked with by her stepdad, then she got married to another guy 4 months later. Then told her she should have gotten an abortion, said she wasn't allowed to her funeral, and tried to kill herself in front of my sister when she was little. Last but not least she was bipolar and instead of taking her meds she drank like crazy. Needless to say, they haven't talked in a while. She still loves her though.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have no love for my mother. The last time I saw her was 15 years ago. I don't even know where she lives now.

Paris13 · Answer

It was... She is Gone Now...:(xxoo

YoHoeRose · Answer

Wouldn't even be in contact with my mother if she didn't still have my siblings

Aerolyn · Answer

I currently believe all forms of love are conditional so yes. I feel like if my mother wronged me enough it would be enough for me to not love her anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

Hell no I can't wait for that evil rotten witch to kick the bucket. It took almost 100 fucking years 96 1/3 to be exact for my evil rotten grandfather to die and even then 2 nurses and my mother had to euthanize the bastard to get him to croak. My family is so evil I can't wait till they're all gone

Lynx122 · Answer

No it has limits but since my mom is a exemplary mom I can just love her and the limits haven't come into play ^^

genericname85 · Answer

of course not. but she is a good mom, so all the conditions are met. the only beings you should love unconditionally are your baby and your pet.

Agape93 · Answer

I have no love for her, fuck her

TrillXHippy · Answer

My biological mother who raised me the day that I was till like the age of 2? No. My father’s mother who raised me my entire life and my biological mom’s 2 other kids? Yes

Guardian45 · Answer

She brought me into this world; she can just as easily take me out of it.  NO ONE puts Mama in the corner! NOOOBODY!!! SHE. WILL. TAKE. YOU. OUT. LIKE. YOU. NEVER. EXISTED!!!

Jackblue · Answer

You can still love your mother and not participate in sick things like that.

AsaKyo · Answer

I think maybe it is, but I'm not exactly sure

TroyDT · Answer

I do not remember mine. She died less than a year after I was born.

AngryCarl · Answer

My love is the tough variety. I might love her but that doesn't mean I indulge her.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Of course. And I know her well enough that I have complete confidence in her

msc545 · Answer

My mother was a complete nightmare.

douride2 · Answer

I never really got along with my mother.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Has to be since I take care of her now

Debbie14217 · Answer

yes ofc it is

goodgirlsteven · Answer

yes it was!

LavLavLuv · Answer

ehhhhh... eh

Fuentes · Answer

No not at all

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