How to deal girlfriend's strict family?

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we're neighbours and family friends and in relationship for last 3 years. she's a university student and her family is too conservative and narrow minded. They say girls can only love someone when they reach marriage age. They'll scold and shout at her for this.

They have doubt if we're in relationship because they've caught us talking, smiling, flirting secretly.

Today both of our families went out for lunch and she came to sit near me. Then her sister moved her away and sat between us. I got mad and whispered "grow up". She heard that and aggressively started asking why did you tell that now.. why why why.. and i got more mad and asked "who the hell you to shout at me". Then she behaved like nothing happened.

Now they reached home and her sister is creating huge problem regarding this. Her parents and her sister is behaving rudely to her now. We can never tell them we're in love in current situation. And i just wanna smash the fucking asshole sister's face. What should i do? What should I tell my girlfriend to tell them?

How to deal girlfriend's strict family?
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