How’s it going?

[Anonymous]

Long time no talk. How’s life?

My mental health hasn’t been great recently so I’ve been ghost.

It’s not the worst it’s ever been, but I’ve been burying myself in loads of tasks to dodge any negative thoughts and isolating myself from everyone.

Not that I need to share this on the internet but some recent events have triggered some low self esteem thoughts I have and those are a product of my childhood unfortunately. But it’s ok I’m trying to focus on the future.

I’m going on a girls trip in a few days though so hopefully it’ll get better then.

Updates

+1 y

Hey guys thanks so much for your kind words!! I’m alright, sometimes these phases happen so I have to take a step back and focus on getting back on my feet again. You guys have put a smile on my face this morning!!! Hope you have a lovely day!

[SnowedIn]

Sorry to hear your mental health hasn't been where you've wanted it.

Things are good for the most part.

I've had some emotional ups and downs over the past two weeks but yesterday got some good news so maybe the roller coaster will chill.

I hope you're okay!

[Asker]

That’s awesome!! I’m happy for you!!

And thanks I’m good!

[RealMarek]

I’ve not been on here for several days because I’ve had so much work to keep up with. Be sure to treat yourself well while you are struggling. Take a relaxing bath now and then, go for walks, eat and sleep well. I hope you enjoy the trip. Hopefully that will help.

[Asker]

Thanks!!

[TonyMetal___86]

Enjoy your trip with the girls, be happy just by realizing what you got, the things that you have that others don't...

Look what happened in turkey and in syria, dozens have died in a blink of an eye, ruins, injuries, people who losy everything that they had... etc

We must thank god for every second in our lives, it's true we have our ups and downs, we always wish for the better but we must never forget what we already have...

[Asker]

Very true. That was so tragic I honestly still can’t fathom what happened. I saw some very frightening videos of families and children in fear :( what’s worse is they didn’t even expect it! They went to bed that night not knowing that a catastrophe was going to happen and many people lost their lives and their homes and their businesses. Apparently they also still expect the death toll to keep doubling in the next few days!! Praying for everyone…

[TonyMetal___86]

That's true...☹

[MrCommodore]

All good after a few stressful crazy weeks, life is starting to settle again thankfully.

The power of positivity is an exceptional thing.

[Asker]

Wonderful

[MrCommodore]

Good luck on your journey, you seem to be getting to grips with problems in your early life.

[Asker]

Thanks! I guess so

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for reaching out, Alyssa! I see I'm a day late here, so I won't bore you with a duplicative statement. But I'm glad you're okay, and it's nice to hear from you again! :)

[Asker]

It’s nice to hear from you too!

[Jamie05rhs]

Thank you!

[exitseven]

I was sick over the weekend but I am better today. I'm looking forward to spring.

[Asker]

Oh no! I’m glad you’re feeling better.

I’m excited for the spring time too!!

[exitseven]

Thankd it was some kind of stomach bug. I thought it might be covid but it was not.

[Asker]

Oh I’m glad it’s not Covid!

[exitseven]

yes, I never had it, so far so good. So what the heck is going on with you?

[Asker]

A lot to be honest! Trying to get a job is my main priority right now. My employment contract ended last week!

[exitseven]

Well, it took me a long tome to find a job but I finally did 6 months ago. It is a good job and I was lucky to get it. You will find one too,

[Asker]

I’m happy for you!!! 6 months sound like you had a lot of patience.

I guess with the recession right now it’s quite tough but gotta keep on pushing! I have an interview today :)

[exitseven]

Dress responsibly, be friendly, don't lie about stuff, if you don;t know the answer to something just say you do not know. Show up with a couple of good questions about the company. Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[KostasKouvalis]

Damn. That sucks. That happens. I'm sorry to hear that. Trips always help 😊

[Asker]

Thanks! I’m excited for the trip for sure :)

[KostasKouvalis]

Where you going?

[Asker]

Spain

[KostasKouvalis]

Which part?

[Asker]

I would tell you but I’m not sure how I feel about airing it for everyone to see lol

[Asker]

Just for security reasons

[KostasKouvalis]

Why? For geographic purposes. Is it like some small village where you'd be easy to find?😂
If you'd tell me then tell me. Tell me in private message. One travelman to another 😉

[KostasKouvalis]

I think you can at least tell me the province and still be okay

[Asker]

Haha it’s cause I know a few weird people on this app but we will be by the beach :)

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm not one of them and I won't say nothing and you don't wanna make me start guessing because there's a good chance I will😂
Which coast?

[Asker]

Haha why are you so curious

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm a geographer/travelman. I might suggest you some cool places to see😉

[Asker]

Haha really? I mean if you’re curious my friends are single too and we’re going away for a good time

[KostasKouvalis]

That is indeed useful information. Are they Muslims too?
Isn't it kind of chilly on the coast anyways?

This region that you're visiting, do the people there possess RH- Blood?

[Asker]

Yeah my friends are Muslim but it’s not forbidden for us to have fun 😂 or travel alone lol (unless you’re an extremist I think, which we’re not).

What’s RH blood?

[KostasKouvalis]

No, of course not. I was just curious for dating purposes😂
Rhesus factor, as in Rhesus monkeys. RH- blood is extremely rare, but is found in an abnormally large percentage of a particular ethnic group who live in a particular region of Spain and France😂

[Asker]

I had no idea about that 😂

What do you mean by dating purposes? :)

[KostasKouvalis]

Maybe I wanna go on a date with them :p

[Asker]

Haha could do who knows

[KostasKouvalis]

Muslim girls DO like me for some reason 😂

[Asker]

Lol I think Arab girls are good for you tbh :)

[KostasKouvalis]

Why do you say that?😂

[Asker]

I’m teasing you back 😂

[KostasKouvalis]

Oh😂 But maybe I have experience with Arab Muslim girls that you don't know about 😂

[Asker]

Omg do you actually? I’d be curious to know about it lol

[KostasKouvalis]

What do you wanna know? :p

[Asker]

Everything :)

[KostasKouvalis]

I'll tell you in PM :)

[Asker]

Sounds good haha

[Z1pTD]

Hey I can relate to that. Been there a ton. Lmk if you ever want to get it off your chest.

Umm it's good. Just normal life yk?

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[Z1pTD]

Ofc!

[Jerre]

Everything is great and do hope you improve over the coming weeks.

[Asker]

Glad to hear and thank you

[Rangers]

Just as hopeless and meaningless as every other day