If my friend only contact me when she needs something from me or is bored, should I be worried about the direction of this friendship?

[Anonymous]

[razelove]

Not at all, you know the direction of the friendship, you're being used. Worry would be if you're unsure, like your girlfriend has trauma from being in human trafficking with concrete proof and can't seem to enjoy sex well or something. Whether that can get better or not is a legit worry.

I mean, there's no variance to the pattern that you're talking about, she's a cat, you're the food bowl and sometimes the yarn that she might play with until anything better comes along.

[midnightmoon05]

glad you are asking now and not 5 years later…

It’s call one way or friend zoned.

You like it?

[Asker]

What does call one way or friendzone mean? Not English, some expression go over my mind

[midnightmoon05]

One way friendship.
You are important when she needs something otherwise she is too busy for you.
Fried zoned - she is not interested in him, but happy to use you.
Because you let her walk all over you.

[Asker]

Oh, I get it now. Well, she isn't walking over me anymore. I cut her off from my life the week after I asked that.

[Guy13]

Bad news.

[Asker]

Yeah... I found out later I was just a convenience for her to use if she needed. Then she got mad when I pointed it out. I was tired of her bs so I cut her off