Am I wrong to ask for an increase in Child Support?

[Anonymous]

I have a 14 year old daughter. Her dad and I were never in a relationship we had a quick fling. So in order to get support for her I had to sue him for child support when she was an infant. He was ordered to pay $50 per month since he lost his job right before I gave birth to her. He has been paying that amount for the past 13 years of her life. I never took him back to court for an increase because I hate court and was busy working and taking care of my other 2 kids. I am having some health issues. I am unable to work. Mind you my child's dad went years without paying the $50 he was ordered to pay and his arrears accrued to over $7000. Am I wrong to take him to court and ask for an increase. I have a mortgage, utilities, and other bills to make sure we have a roof over our heads. Serious answers please

[Anonymous]

It is not wrong to ask for an increase in child support if you believe that it is necessary to provide for the needs of your child. Child support is intended to help cover the costs of raising a child, including expenses related to housing, food, clothing, education, and healthcare.

If your financial situation has changed and you are having difficulty making ends meet, it may be appropriate to seek an increase in child support to ensure that your child's needs are being met. It is important to consult with a family law attorney or other legal professional who can provide guidance and support throughout the process.

Remember, child support is intended to benefit the child, and it is important to prioritize their well-being and needs. It may be helpful to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, and to seek out resources and support to help facilitate a constructive and respectful dialogue with your child's father.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Not at all, the most important thing is to cover the care of your child, which includes a roof over your heads. However, try to make it fair and equitable, so he at least is able to pay his own bills, otherwise you'll end up with no child support as he'll be unable to work.

[DryGermanGuy]

In this case you’re neither legally nor morally wrong! Let us know how it got resolved.

[Anonymous]

He went 12 years without paying?

Does he have visitation rights?

Yes, you should request he pay what he owes from the past and additional support going forward.

[Asker]

Yes, he went over half her life without paying, it was only $50 MONTHLY. He does not have visitation rights. I never knew where he was. I rented one place for 7 years and bought a house 6 years ago. So I was stable. He could have found me if he wanted to if he wanted to see his daughter.

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough, but if he is interested in spending time with his child, you must let him if you are going t expect him to pay more child support.

[Stevefiveo]

You are not wrong. It depends on the state you live in, if you will get it.

[boggboss]

Legally no you are not wrong

[Anonymous]

How much does she live with him?

[Asker]

She have not seen him since she was 18 months old... she is 14 now.

[Asker]

She don't live with him. She is 14 and haven't seen him since she was 18 months old.