I have a friend who wants to meet up all day whenever we hang out but I don’t want to?

[Anonymous]

Whenever we meet up, he likes to drag the meeting on for all day. If we go on a walk it has to last for hours and hours. I’m happy with at most a 3 or 4 hour meeting. We’ve arranged to meet tommorow and he suggested meeting in the city centre for a meal then taking me to a good place to walk and I know if I don’t do anything it will last a good 7 hours and I’ll be exhausted by the end. How can I get away sooner? Need ideas, thank you!!

[tesniolite]

Set a time limit: Tell him that you can only hang out for a certain amount of time. That way, you can still catch up without feeling overwhelmed.

Suggest an alternative plan: If your friend suggests an all-day activity, suggest something that fits within your schedule instead. It's all about finding a compromise that works for both of you.

Be clear about your needs: If you need some downtime, let your friend know! It's important to prioritize your mental health, and a true friend will understand and respect your boundaries.

Those are just some things i doo

[Paris13]

You control the Day. It appears He really Enjoys You. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag, And for the Crown. xxoo

[slatyb]

You just tell him -- I have to leave at. Then do it.

[Asker]

That’s a good idea, I told him exactly this🤣

[Anonymous]

you tell him! "hey i can only hang out for 3-4 hours at a time as i have something at (time)"

[In_Trance]

Why do you bother doing this at all?