Do you ever wonder why you were born for?

[Anonymous]

Nobody wants me around, and I know this because I have received messages telling me this. I have even been accused by certain family members of doing things I have never done, and I can prove I have never done the things they have accused me of, but other family members don't care; instead, they defend the family member accusing me of doing things I haven't done at all. I have even almost been kicked out of the place I am living because when I try and defend myself against the lies they are telling and when they are there telling me to kill myself, I am seen as the bad guy, and everyone turns against me, even when they show up to the house yelling and screaming and making threats against me. I am seen as the bad guy, and I am accused of bringing the drama to the house. It's like how I am the bad guy here when they are the ones who showed up to the house yelling, screaming, and throwing things. If I showed up to their house and started yelling and screaming and making threats, they would be calling the cops on me, but I'm not allowed to call the cops on them for threatening me or for turning up here yelling and screaming.

I also almost had my baby taken from me because people wanted to lie, but thankfully I was able to prove my baby has never been in danger and that I have never harmed her in any way and that I do take care of her. The same people, the moment they know of anyone who I talk to, they will find out who that person is, contact them, and cause problems. My uncle is really the only family member who I talk to and who I get along with, but a certain family member called that uncle and was there bossing him around, telling him, "Don't let anyone use your Facebook and when he told her to not tell him what to do she got pissed off at him before she threatened to contact the police because she believes I am using my uncle's fb account and posting things about her when I have not even accessed his fb account let alone posted anything about her or anyone

[StormChaser838]

Hey, little woman, I feel your pain. Just be happy that you have a CHILD, and that you are a mother. That's a beautiful start. Next just stay away from all those farts. Then, try and meet some nice guy or keep meeting your current guy if u really like him. But u must get a guy who will be good for ur kid and u. Beyond that , just fuck them all. God bless you,,,, and remember, God sees all and he loves you.

[Asker]

I have put forward an application for possible housing to get my own place so fingers crossed something comes about

I have no interest in being in any type of relationship. I already know if I did my sister would be doing everything to cause problems because she did it to me years ago when I met a guy she did everything she could to track down the Guy number and she called him telling him I needed to come home and all of these other things. I was 18 at the time. It was so embarrassing. My sister is someone who believes she can do no wrong and she believes it's OK to lie. She was sleeping around when she was 15 and getting drunk and sneaking guys into the granny flat she even believed she was pregnant when she was 17. She lied to her in kids about who the father of her eldest child is this also on top of what she done to me when I was pregnant and when I was i was giving birth but to everyone she can do no wrong but I defend myself and people turn on mev

I think also I worry if I do get involved and my baby becomes attached to him and if things don't work out she will be hurt.

[Asker]

Thank you

[StormChaser838]

Ma'am, in that case do you have any girl friend you can get some support with, since I think you need to get some kind of support that is away from your family. I think you need a little break from them. Try an somehow keep a low profile with everyone at your place, so they will leave you alone. Take care , best of luck.

[Asker]

I don't have any friends. The only person I have as support is my uncle but the very moment my sister knew he and I was in contact she tried to cause drama there. Although my uncle told her off and my sister didn't like it so she called our brother to get him involved in the drama.

I've been hiding away in my room with my baby not saying a word to anyone in the house. I had planned on going out for the day but it's raining and storming outside

[StormChaser838]

I am sure you can find a friend of your choice, why don't you try something like internet friends on Reddit or other places on Reddit. Even if you get someone to share online would be good for you. But the best thing you have is your baby. Just shower it with all your love and you will be fine.

[Asker]

I found out my sister went and contacted my other uncle who is fighting stage 4 cancer and who I don't really see or talk to and was basically demanding he tell his brother what to do.

I did join reddit and I tried multiple times to post on there but my post kept being rejected. I'm gonna try and search online for social groups where mums possibly meet up and hang out

[StormChaser838]

why did they reject you, are you sure you tried at the appropriate group? since there is no reason you should get rejected, there are millions of sub edits there, and I am sure you will get many that fit you, like I just checked and saw, many like , single Moms and single parent etc. try them when you feel a little better, I am sure you will like some, make that wee little effort, I am routing for u, best of luck

[Asker]

It kept saying something about I wasn't providing enough details in my podt to there being too many characters. It wad very confusing.

[StormChaser838]

yes , some have rules, so you should say one point at a time. But you can keep posting one by one. But you should put a post for a texting friend, to them you can post whatever you want.

[slatyb]

Almost none of were born for anything except maybe our parents wanted a child.

[Asker]

My parents didn't want another child when they had me because they already had 4 kids and they were struggling with not having much money.

[Christoff92]

To have it all 🤗

[Asker]

Nice 😃