What steps would you take if you were all that your baby had, but you had this feeling that you won't get to see them grow up?

[Anonymous]

My baby is only a few months old, but I have had this feeling since I was pregnant that I won't get to see her grow up. Since I am all that she has, as her biological father wants nothing to do with her, and I personally don't want her around my toxic, and selfish heartless sisters. What steps would take to try and make sure that she goes to a loving home, if anything were to happen to you?

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Like do you create a will stating that if anything were to happen to you, you want your baby to not be around certain people, and you want them to go to a good home.

[Anonymous]

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We went through this with our first too! My wife just had this feeling of we would not be around for much longer.

Go to a lawyer and have them draw up a trust or will for you give it out to your friends and make plans. Be active don't just sit in fear!

We are now on our 2nd and while still pregnant she is getting those feelings so we will be updating things.

If you need advice or to talk she will be happy to chat with younl on here!

[Asker]

Thank you. I really appreciate this heaps. I never thought for a moment to speak with a lawyer. I know it sounds crazy, but the feelings I have been having are the exact same feelings I had prior to other things that happened in my life. Like I remember having dreams where I saw myself pregnant with a little girl, and in those dreams I kept seeing the dad abandoning her. I also remember having dreams of seeing us being kicked out of my childhood home because the owners wanted the home back. Everything I saw in those dreams is exactly what went on to happened months or weeks prior to them happening. It was almost like my dreams were warnings for me as well. I remember even dreaming of my ex buying a new car and it turned out the car I saw him driving in my dream was the exact car he brought around the time I was having the dreams.

[Akam93]

Put her up for adoption

[Asker]

I'm not giving her up for adoption while I alive. I just want to put plans into place in case anything were to happen to me.