How can you spot envious insecure people early on?

[DermalPunch]

Weak boundaries, people pleasing and letting things slide were absolutely how I would operate before.

Even though I filter out people more I still keep getting betrayed. Also, people show their envy.

I want to make female friends but they are not as they seem most of the time or just act very envious. How to choose wisely?

[Anonymous]

Insecure people are very insecure and they often crave attention.

[DermalPunch]

Yes, that is a good one!

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[EaterPeter]

Look for red flags early on and don't grow immune to them

[DermalPunch]

Yes, i know. The question asks what they are.

[EaterPeter]

Unfortunately this people try to hide this behavior. If someone is super nice that should be one red flag. Agrees with everything you have to say red flag 2.

[EaterPeter]

Ask then how possessive they are?

[EaterPeter]

Do they like someone else being possessive over them

[EaterPeter]

Ask them *

[Anonymous]

If they are a family member. hahaha

[DermalPunch]

Oh man, yeah that's complicated.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure is!!! xxoo