I someone like this. Had two jobs, and to me that's a big "Red" flag. It's one thing if you're in your 20's and you are seriously trying to get ahead and working super hard to save or make money... and if its really building into some type of future possibility in productive way then you just got to figure that out.
In my case she had serious finical problems, and she had to have two jobs just to make ends meet, and even then, she was rotating what bills she would pay every other month just to make it through to the end of every month.
Now days whenever I start talking to woman, one of my first questions is how much time to you have in live to dedicate to dating, weekly, monthly and so on... if they can give a direct answer or says things like it depends... well that will influence what type of relationship I have with them.
At my age I got no time for someone that has to work two jobs, at the age of 40 years old. So, I do not even let it get started.
I am so sorry you have it so hard. If only he didn't he could spend time with you.
I would say set him up a surprise, doesn’t have to be much but do a little picnic on his lunch break with some other friends or if you can, hang out and talk to him while he’s working. It’s sounds like he needs a break and considering you’re having a hard time talking to him then I bet he’s struggling with a lot of people and probably lonely. Another small thing you could do is help him relax, you could take a day to just call him and talk to him since you two have distance between each other, or visit him whenever he is off of work to help him relax, or sending him a candle or tea or something that he enjoys, or you could just have a small group of friends come over and have everyone hang out and catch up. You could also take him to one of his favorite places and have him enjoy himself. I hope this helps you and your hardworking friend, and I wish the best of luck for your friendship!
s So what are you asking?
Can you live without your friend?
Yet there is not much to talk about?
This sounds like your his girlfriend not just a friend. Go to his job and hang out with him or bring him food.
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Why don't you work? Find something to occupy your time.
My best friend managed a restaurant and worked long hours and every weekend. We never saw each other and then he got married and we saw each other even less. I sort of found other people to hang out with for a few years. Eventually we sort of patched things up
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