So I have been dating this guy for 5 months and it’s pretty serious. We are literally inseparable, texting all day long and meeting up every single day. Traveling together visiting parents together… He just changed the job and it’s pretty unpredictable whether he will have to travel a lot, hoe busy he will be and how is it going to affect our communication and time together.
I WFH and I like pretty stable, predictable schedule. So I don’t see myself being in any set up other than this one. The way things function between us now fits me perfectly but changes this job might bring stress me out. And I have no idea how to approach it. Any advices?
I WFH and I like pretty stable, predictable schedule. So I don’t see myself being in any set up other than this one. The way things function between us now fits me perfectly but changes this job might bring stress me out. And I have no idea how to approach it. Any advices?
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Indeed... open communication up ahead BEFORE things escalate is always the best option.
You can have 3 outcomes.
1. You communicate and he says that this job is more important than u. Then YOU gotta choose if you accept that or not.
2. He understands the situation and opts for some other kind of job. This would mean he's choosing for YOU.
3. You don't talk about it, and then after stress becomes high enough (and it WILL happen if you don't talk about it), then it comes out harshly in an argument and then in the heat of argument things will likely not end well.
Since the third option is a no-go... I guess you're stuck with the first two situations.
Either way, communicate up front.
You need to make a list of the things that bother you and discuss them with him.
You need to chill