Should I Eventually Go Back with my Sister I Finally Blocked from My Cell and My Life?

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**I Had Had IT WITH HER!!! Finally Again----Blocked Her from my Phone and My Life... But Should I Someday Return? xxoo

Mansearching · Accepted Answer

I have no room to talk. I don't get 100% along with my brothers and sister. Do we talk constantly? No. Often? No. Holidays and birthdays? Yes and try. A lot of history and hurt. But we haven't blocked each other.

Don't be like us. You got to work it out.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

You only have one family so id try to keep it but maybe at a distance. Some people need only be dealt with logically. If not at all its a decision you make. All the end of life transition stuff… is forthcoming…

OfMiceandMen · Answer

It all depends, if it's going to be a sh^t show every time you talk to her, then sometimes its best to part and go your separate ways.

She may be family, but, you have to consider your well being over time, especially if it tends to be a toxic kind of relationship.

The only way you can make it work is if you both bury the hatchet and truly start fresh.

DarkLegacy · Answer

The worst thing is to fall out with family, it has happened in my family, and with my Mums family, the whole lot of them fell out. My Mum only making it up with one of her sisters on her death bed. Now both my parents are dead i think it is even more important for us siblings to get along and have contact.

thegreenyogi · Answer

You only know the answer to that question. I had to do the same with my brother and I can tell you I am that much happier without him in my life. Just because we are siblings doesn't mean we are forced to take nonsense from them. But I guess every situation is different. Xx

chrissykerdock · Answer

that's a personal call... if your sister is amazingly toxic and upsetting you you may want to keep her blocked... but if you have ups and downs with her and feel it's time to get back then do so.

menina · Answer

It depends. How important is your relationship with her to you? How important is she to you? Do you miss her? Are you willing to forgive her and move on?

I guess you should ask yourself these questions and then make a decision.

StarWarGirl · Answer

It depends on what is problem and how serious it is, how is it affecting you , your life, your peace and your happiness.

I don't believe on family means family. Sometimes even our own closest family members could be like poison for us.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

You will someday return, if god forbid sumthin happens to one of you, and the other gets word about it, i'm sure will both Run for Each Other. Xxx

FellowTraveler · Answer

Paris, give it awhile. I also saw your update. Take a 'time out'. Possibly one will reach out to the other. We all change over the years. It's just possible that the both of you will change for the better and grow closer latter on in life.

Anpu23 · Answer

Eh, my brother and I are on the outs. I send him a Christmas and birthday message and thats about it. I would just do something like that, she's still family and you may have to be in the same room together someday

overthinkergirl · Answer

i don’t know. it’s nice to have good connection and bond eith family but if she has done something really bad to you than maybe it’s probably the best if you stay out of each other’s life:)

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Do you continue to encounter the same problems with her? If so, do you have any reason to expect those problems to resolve?

AviatorTom · Answer

She is family, and family is a strong bond. You will probably eventually let her back into your life. When and how that happens is up to you. Hopefully before your death bed.

RoseySarah · Answer

Nope your 39 why have drama you blocked her for a reason. Some people just are not healthy to have in your life

Nikki1989 · Answer

You should if you can. Be thankful you have a sister you can still call family.

Lynx122 · Answer

It's up to you but usually people don't change that much.

Christoff92 · Answer

If you want to. I don't get along with my sister due to her thinking that she's smarter and more equipped then me in everything. She thinks that am a moron.

msc545 · Answer

Without knowing the problems between the two of you, how can you possibly expect a reasonable answer to this question?

Lovesoad1 · Answer

She is your sister. You should see her only once a year. She is family. My Grandma hasn't seen her sister since she was 20 now they are both nearly ninety and sometimes she gets worried that she might get a phone call saying she is dead.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

If she fucked you over the way both f mine did me, I'd sooner see her dead!!

exitseven · Answer

I gave not spoken to my twin brother for 14 years. I am used to it.

OddBeMe · Answer

Why bother? I blocked my parents six months ago and never felt better. Toxic people are poison and we only have so little time on this earth.

Bloopbloopbloop · Answer

Yes. Sisters are supposed to be dumb and annoying. But still family.

Likes2drive · Answer

Only to check up on her because she will never change

Sparkie460 · Answer

I stopped talking with my brother for the last time 13 years ago. You can only take so much.

Masterodd · Answer

Hum... sounds like a story is about to happen... What has she done to you?

cocoblah · Answer

If both you are willing to make it work yes. Hope you get back with her someday, she’s your sibling after all.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't. I hate my aunt and cousins to the point I would kill them.

WhitneySnow · Answer

My answer is no. She sounds really toxic.

collie22 · Answer

I hope she knows what's annoying you

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

Its entielly up to you

Alex8736 · Answer

History always repeats itself

Pterodon · Answer

You’ll just return to the same thing

TheAfrikan · Answer

Yeep you should return

Sabretooth · Answer

if it can be fixed.

YAsQuen · Answer

Have u considered u might be the problem?

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes Paris xx

Jeitbrbdh · Answer

Nope

Sheye26 · Answer

That’s your sister you should be able to forgive one another no matter what.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

What

pandaking2p12 · Answer

If she's toxic no

Jbrow850028 · Answer

Give it some space

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