My mother is making me travel with her and my little brother for 3 weeks?

[Anonymous]

So my mom called me about two hours ago telling me that she bought 3 plane tickets for me, her, and my little brother to go see family for 3 weeks out of the country next month. Originally, she was supposed to travel by herself and I watch my little brother for two weeks and suddenly the plans changed. The issue here is that, I don’t really wanna travel just yet. I mean that on a mental health level (I have BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder) and have been struggling with it way worse now for the past 3 months. I’m currently in school and will soon be over with classes to start summer break. Am I wrong for not wanting to go with my family?

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note: i’m 22 years old.

[rosemilk]

it was kinda rude for your mom to just buy the tickets before asking or telling you. but honestly, i'd say just go with her and your brother. get out in the world.

[slatyb]

Really? How? You are and adult. She can't make you do anything. Just say no.

[Asker]

I’ve tried to tell her that but she’s the type of person to disregard what you say if it’s against her opinion.

[slatyb]

So? When the day comes, don't go. She can't kidnap you. Are you living with her? Time to move out.

[jahaims]

You're an adult, your mom can't make you do anything

[Sam12348]

Go out and enjoy