A little girl I use to nanny years ago in cali died. They're in California I'm in New York. Mom sent me an invitation should I fly out?

[Anonymous]

I hate funerals and it's a month and 30 days away

No, just send flowers and a card

Yes fly out

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1 y

I'm with @docster, cause it doesn't make sense for me to fly from NY to Cali for a half an hour funeral. Its just too much. Card and flowers will do.

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1 y

I misread the email. She was letting me know her daughter passed and said if I'd like an invitation to the funeral she can send it to me. I told her to send the invite. I just want her address so I can send her some gifts. I don't think I'll fly out. If I can drive I would go but an airport is just too much

[rosemilk]

i'd definitely fly out, if you can. that's so sad.

[53669]

Do you know why she died?
Why is the funeral so far long away? They’re usually close to the death date.
Unless investigations are needed or something else..

I believe if you are able to go, you should.

May she rest in peace. 😞 🙏

[Asker]

-I know why she died.
-It's far away because that's where I lived before NY

[docster]

I would go with the flowers and a card. If it were within a two hour drive, I'd consider it. Flying across the country to attend a half-hour funeral of a non-relative? No way.

[Asker]

I didn't want to sound rude but that was my thoughts.

[Uptowngirl88]

If you can and it doesn't put a financial strain on you then yes

[Asker]

@gawkvoidarisen no fuck off weirdo

[GawkVoidArisen]

nomnom

[GawkVoidArisen]

I did, she said to ask you

[GawkVoidArisen]

HOW DID YOU KNOW I WAS A BALD HEADED GRANDMA?

[GawkVoidArisen]

a cliff at traffic?
that seems dangerous?
wouldn't the cars drive over the edge?

seems some sort of construction error
you should check that out?

[GawkVoidArisen]

Oh wow!
still sleeping with your mom?

[Asker]

@gawkvoidarisen the fact that u keep trying to talk to someone that sees no value in u and goes as low as telling u to basically cease ur existence shows ur self esteem is low. Get help u need sad u don't have people that care about u

[Uptowngirl88]

@asker right, 🤣 I could never let someone talk to me like that but hey he's used to being abused by people so his self esteem is low

[jennifer_bloom]

If you can’t go to the funeral, tell them you have to drive somebody to a medical appointment or attend a best friend’s wedding.

[legalboxers]

yes you should

[Asker]

For a half an hour funeral? That's what's conflicting

[Anonymous]

It would be the decent thing to do.