People say I have a great personality but still ghost me, I don’t get it?

[Anonymous]

I’m starting to get confused. Guys tell me I’m their dream girl, then ghost! Girls I think I’m starting to be friends with, they’re like “I love your energy!” Then ghost me, I’m like WTF. And no I don’t talk about myself, I just focus on them, I literally spoil them, I had one friend, we were only friends for like 3 months and her birthday was coming up and I spent $1000 bucks on her and then she became distant. Like I’m trying here

[CuriousHubby]

People don't like people being nice and trying these days. It's so weird but true!

Trying to keep friendships alive kinda kills them strangely. Remember back in the day your friends were happy to meet and hang out after ages.

Now it's like yeah you stay there we lie about wanting to meet and keep things separate.

[Asker]

I really value friendships, like they’re everything to me. It’s so strange how everyone likes being distant and fake, I just want a genuine connection, I hate being lonely

[CuriousHubby]

So agree! There is more connection online and texting but less real friends!
a lot of women have guy friends cause we are easier not manipulative unless wanting to date and girls just play games with other girls especially at work!

[Anonymous]