My uncle keeps calling me entitled, am I really entitled?

[AmeeliahLeh]

Long story short, there was a few times where I've been called entitled by my uncle, the first time was because my mom bought me food and I forgot it in the car and it spilled over, so she gave me a call and basically screamed my ear off which I did apologize. She then called My uncle and he started calling me entitled, my mom was getting mad at me earlier cause I was joking asking my sister for 200 dollars cause she didn't have any and I wanted to playfully mess with her. Then the other time, I was sitting in the garage (which is basically a hangout spot) my uncle came in and told us that we're staying for the weekend cause his car had no gas and he was broke, I told him I don't think it's a good idea cause my Auntie, who is basically always mad at us (and if you didn't know the reason, it's cause my 12 year old cousin would tell lies on us etc and she'll believe them, not only that but my auntie hates kids which I guess is fair) wouldn't like it if we even shown our faces in the house, cause of course I'd have to use the bathroom eventually, but my uncle response to me with "you're just entitled to human decency" and I'm so confused, I just don't want to be yelled at or glared at when I'm going to the bathroom, not only that but blamed from things I didn't do. And finally, yesterday I was getting ready to go to my friend's birthday party and my uncle wasn't home so I asked my cousin why, she responded with her mom needed a checkup, and out of curiosity I was asking what did she need one for, not to be rude. And my cousin flashed me a extremely rude face and responded with "Cause she needs a checkup" and I asked why again cause she wasn't giving me detail but she responded with the same rude face and words. But later when my uncle picked me up apparently my aunt heard it and got offended cause I was asking (the ring camera was charging in the room and I didn't know) I explained to him the reason I sounded irritated and he just called me entitled.

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Just to make a few things clear, (I ran out of space on my post lol) When I was asking my cousin about the check up she kept flashing me a rude face and continued doing so which I was slowly getting annoyed by but my uncle assumed it was cause I was late for my friend's birthday. Even after I told him the reason, one thing he has a bad habit of doing is covering up my cousin's dirt, there are multiple times where she has done bas things and when brought to his attention he wants to back her up.

[rosemilk]

generally i think your mom and uncle (and cousin) are acting out of stress. food is expensive these days, doctors appointments can be personal. but it's okay you forgot or spill food, or asked about an appointment, there's no reason for them to blow up at you over something so small. it's clear to me that you're being misunderstood and unfairly judged. the way these adults are acting are creating a toxic environment. i hope you're okay. i'd just try to minimize any confrontation or "situation" whenever you're around them. yes, you'll likely have to walk on eggshells, but it'll keep you safer and less getting yelled at

[AmeeliahLeh]

Thanks for this, but I'm not sure if it's stress for my cousin, she's been acting like this since she was a toddler, and I feel like the reason she had never grown out of this is cause she's never really been disciplined about it, that and she doesn't care at all. She talks back to her mom and closes the door in her face and thinks it's funny and her mom never does anything about it. They never put her on punishment anymore and when it does happen which is extremely rare is when her dad does. Or the punishments last for a few minutes and then they decide she doesn't need to be on punishment. And as I mentioned earlier, she's just downright rude. And I can't belive I'm saying this but she used not to be rude to me like this until she got friends at a new school, plus her being friends with someone she has a crush on, when she first became friends with them she's only been rude when she talks to them now it's 24/7 and she's imitating some of the others at school which is all natural but the fact that she's being rude is horrible.
I also mentioned her telling lies and telling on people earlier, she has been doing since since she was a Toddler cause her mom trained her to do it and spoiled her and there's basically no fixing it at all which makes me so mad, my auntie spends thousands of dollars on my cousin, even when she has been disrespectful to my auntie, like slamming the door in her face, saying rude things to her, etc. And to me that isn't right at all, nobody has ever taught her that her actions have consequences. They just give her things and special privilege even when she has been doing rude things.

[rosemilk]

after knowing that from your comment, your cousin is actually acting like the entitled one here. if you need an example, that's pretty much what entitled people act like. which is not you

[AmeeliahLeh]

That's what I'm saying, but they never ever call her entitled, in fact when I call her out they want to butt into the conversation or immediately defend her, knowing that she's a spoiled brat. There's honestly nothing wrong with being spoiled but there's something wrong with being a spoiled brat.

[AmeeliahLeh]

Like even when she ask for something from me or her parents etc, when they say no she ask why? And with her parents she eventually gets it, but with me. She keeps asking why even after I told her why. Then has the nerve to say well I gave you XYZ, the difference is I didn't entirely ask for it. I simply don't like giving her things cause she's a backstabber and is spoiled and horrible.

[rosemilk]

the "well i gave you XYZ" is actually trying to guilt trip you. but i hope your feelings feel more validated now that you have confirmation from outside people/opinions (answers here) that tell you you're not entitled and that everything you are feeling has a point

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[StevenMcGarrett]

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