How do you feel about people putting their kids off on their parents?

[Anonymous]

Why aren't individuals alright with CPS getting involved if they know they don't care about their children?

this is detailed about the situation ^

Well of course the money stop coming in but my family is upset with me that I’m not helping my cousin out. Her mom keeps all 5 kids and basically raises them. My family is upset that I’m not saying anything or standing up for her. She leaves 5 kids on her mom 24/24 while she reap the benefits. I feel it’s not my place to speak on the situation.

[petitedollbabee]

If you can’t raise your kids, you shouldn’t have had them. Stop breeding if you’re irresponsible. Your parents have already raised children. It’s not their job to raise yours too. There’s nothing wrong with getting help here and there, as it takes a village to raise kids, but you should be the primary caregiver to your kids, not your parents or siblings.

[Asker]

Apparently you the enemy if you say this

[ohsheeT]

CPS is one of the worst things and one of the best things in the world it's the worst things because they're going to take the children from their family and in some cases they should have done it faster sooner but if you're talking about kids having kids I don't have an answer for that except for they should have learned how to use protective sex because that's the deal that's where kids they think it's fun and games to f*** but then they have a child and they found that child off on somebody else is sadre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

After seeing the shit my brother and his wife went through just to look after my niece, I don’t blame them at all for having each pair of grandparents taking care of her.