Would you rather lose all your memories of the people you love or have them lose all memory of you?

[Account]

Lose all the memories of people that you love.

Have them lose all memory of you.

[ohsheeT]

Well I hope neither one happens so really I'm not even going to pick one

I just got done taken care of my mom and one of the craziest things in the world is when she looks right at you and ask me where did Steve go..(I'm Steve). And all I can say is I don't know.. she did that a few times but then caught herself.

My brother had come over to my house and he was in my room talking with me and my mom walked in and she said where's your brother go.

my brother just looked at me
And I shook my head like you know don't say anything.

Her sister and Mom and father had passed a long time ago and she would ask me where did they go

and I would just say I don't know they didn't say anything. She says do they have a key to get in the house and I said yes

So I don't know if she could actually see them or she was just remembering them that she had Alzheimer's dementia

But she only did that a couple times to me ask where I was.. but I hope for me I don't forget anything or anybody
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[Lynx122]

I'd rather lose the memories I think. It would be less suffering than having every person in your life suddenly not remember who you are. That would be a huge blow to deal with. If I lost my memory I think I could recover relatively quickly reading some chats online and talking to people again to relearn who they are and what happened in the past but if everybody only lost their memory of me then they might not even notice it and they would think I'm just a crazy overbearing guy.

[Agape93]

Lose memory of me. I'd be forgotten, but at least I could go in peace. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[PeachyPie93]

Lose all memory of them, I probably wouldn't be sad anymore lol.

[DJB72]

My mum has Lewy Body Dementia. She's slowly losing memories of the people she loved. It's a privilege to be able to tell her about her life and how loved she is.

It's terrible having to tell her who I am and that I had a younger brother. Sometimes I leave that bit out because her pain at his loss hits her hard.

But I'd rather be the one who remembers.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

There where times when I wished either happened and go somewhere nobody knew and start fresh but honestly I can't handle anh of the scenarios.

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[NathanDavis]

for them to lose all memory of me... and I know that somehow, in some way... we would reconnect again

but for me to lose the people in my life, is losing myself, so no... I don't want to be there again

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Lose memory of them, and them keeping me and "reeducating" me. I am selfish like that.

[AviatorTom]

Interesting question. Given just these two options, they can forget me, but Id prefer remembering them.

[AlexEfron]

Right now, I wish I lost all my past memories. It's more agonizing remembering the past and all the fun times.

[Guanfei]

If they can forget me, I can leave them without looking back.

[JonesT10Apr]

I have to make new successful memories of me... lots have bad impression of my last decade I wanna change and... so they wanna forget my bad memories

[A_Nihilist]

Lose all the memories of them.

It'd be less painful for me and I would care because I wouldn't know them.

[Anonymous]

lose all their memory of me
They already pretend I don't exist anyways

[Kingofkings1992]

Well, neither is exactly ideal lol. Is a gun to my head? Do I have to pick one?

[Meisdipa]

I don't want any😭😭

[Samster1]

Why not both?

Starting new life

[MicahRaine]

Have them lose memory of me

[Osmaniyeli]

Cok zor soru sevdiğin insanı kaybetmek çok zor.

[Staximus]

Neither, that sounds terrible

[eagle1951]

isn't that the same thing