If you were bullied at School how did you react to it?

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I also want to know how the bullying affected you in terms of insecurities or long term effects? And looking back would you have reacted differently?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I think I was in first grade and for about a month there was three brothers that bullied me but that stoped. When I told them to stop

And in high school I was never bullied but there was a kid that live down the street from me they used to take my same bus and he was a slow kid and

At my high school we had something called the senior benches nobody could sit on them except for the seniors

Well this kid didn't know that. And one day he said on the senior benches and there was three seniors trying to pick him up to put him in a garbage can and I broke that up.. and then I sat on the senior benches to make a poiint . And then there was a fight.

And that got broke up and then there was a full out war because my friends got involved and then the school got involved all

*juniors and sophomores *.

and then
One Saturday the Juniors met up with the seniors but we had over 300 guys they only had like 45 guys. And then the school principal got involved and then there was no more senior benches

I had a lot of new senior friends because they respected what I did and they couldn't believe that myself and like five of my friends had the whole school backing my play and everybody that showed up that day

Santos1984 · Accepted Answer

Not only was i bullied in school, I was also bullied at home. Raised by a single mother who resented the fact her husband left her for a 15 year old after being adopted, and needed someone, a male, to take it out on. Beaten with skillets, 2x4's, car fan belts, aluminum baseball bats. Called every hurtful name in the book that a black woman could come up with.

Attending Detroit Public Schools was a fucking nightmare. I was never accepted for who i was. I was the outcast, the black nerd who went down his own path, and was hated because he wasn't a follower. I was made fun of for my appearance, how I talked, my haircuts, every flaw i had that these N******* could find, i got made fun of for it. I got my ass beat in the neighborhood. I fell into a depression at the age of six years old after being adopted and i never recovered.

I'm now a extremely bitter black man who has an extreme hatred for everyone and everything.

Billlewis · Answer

Yes, attending more than a dozen different schools K-12, I was bullied repeatedly throughout my grade school years, and although it was obviously very unpleasant at the time, I’m exceedingly grateful for it today.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Either try to avoid those assholes when they wanted to fight me or fought back when it couldn't be avoided. Problem is, so many of them wanted to fight me that I'd get mixed up in numerous fights with various people so, if I WAS involved in a fight, even though I DIDN''T START IT, I'M THE ONE that got into the most trouble for it!!
The thing you gotta realize is, bullies only think they're king shit until the guy they bully can take them down!! Then, ALL OF A SUDDEN, they become your good friend!!
I had band class one day in Jr. High. I walked into the classroom and was starting to go up to the back of the riser, where the rest of the drummers go, and this kid started picking on me and preventing me from going up to the drum section! He put his right hand on the metal pipe railing around the upper tier and refused to let me pass as he made fun of me. After a moment or two, I had both of my sticks in my hand and gave the knuckles on his right hand a good shot with both sticks at the same time and he moved his hand in severe pain REAL fast!! After that, he was VERY nice to me!!

phraseology · Answer

I've had thick skin since I was a little kid. Words don't bother me. When people talk shit, I just usually say something like you sure run your mouth a lot... like a girl... and you're not even my girlfriend. Shit like that really pisses guys off and then they start threatening to fight me, and then I say something like you going to nag all day or you going to do something? If they don't take a swing at me, I tell them they're too much of a pussy to do anything. If we happen to be in a clothing store or something like that, I'll tell them the women's clothes section is right over there, why don't you go try on a dress and get dolled up. I just fuck with them until they make a mistake and then once they do I destroy them.

Account · Answer

I bullied them back/I confronted them. No it didn't create insecurities because I was able to act immediately instead of allowing them to step on me and I never considered the possibility that I deserved to be treated like shit. My family taught me that if someone treats me poorly, I have to retribute. If someone treats me kindly, I have to treat them kindly too.
I never snitched on anyone, I simply took matters into my own hands.

molonski2 · Answer

It only happened when I was in primary school , very briefly , my response was pretty aggressive at the time , after that I was never really bothered again , at secondary school , all my friends were older ( mainly though sport ) , so I never had to deal with it..

I would not have done too much differently with regard bullies anyhow..

I always played to the beat of my own drum.

exitseven · Answer

I joined a gym in the next town so nobody would know who I was. I trained with weights 4 or 5 times a week and I lost weight and got in shape. After a year or so the football coach asked me if I would go out for the team. My gym teacher asked me what was going on with me. This was back when weight training was not a mainstream activity. Kids left me alone after that.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I wouldn't... I would wait for them to get bored because of my indifference :D but in real life, I strangely attracted all scums in school... so I never was bullied at school :D

Yannae · Answer

They tried.
Sounds like I beat them up like john wick.

But no, I gave no reaction so they got bored mad quick so it never escalated to more than a few teasing remarks whatever.

I also got along with them individually.

I was a good drawer and people went nuts over dbz drawings.

I was good at sports.

Anonymous · Answer

There are kids who commit suicide from being bullied, either online or in person. I used to be bullied but when 2 girls bullied me in the bathroom once too often it was like Mad Max, 3 girls entered, one girl came out. A fat lip never said anything bad to me again, and a black eye never gave me any dirty looks anymore. ~😂~

NathanDavis · Answer

I wasn't bullied... teasing and banter, as much as many or any other kids... and not that drastic either, just on the "funny/annoying" side...

AnonAndrew · Answer

I was never bullied, nor was I ever a bully. Even as a kid I thought that stuff was messed up, and stayed as far away from it as I could.

Anonymous · Answer

I was overweight and being bullied for it. Thankfully I was bullied and shamed for bring overweight and took steps to lose it. If it hadn't been for my bullies pointing out my immorality I would still be fat.

Unit1 · Answer

If I could retaliate, I retaliated. Post my forced displacement i began to starve, so retaliation wasn't even within my capabilities. My skeleton was visible on my skin! Who cares? NOBODY

JustinTheGreat · Answer

That’s how I learned to be funny lol. If you come up with good come backs, eventually they stop bullying you

dreamstar72 · Answer

Was never picked on, mainly because I had the correct friends

BLP11520 · Answer

I was in my parents started me in school when I was 4 1/2 so I was smaller than everybody else. It was extremely hard specially junior high 6/7 and eighth grade I hated life

Pohjolan · Answer

Not so well initially. Ultimately learning martial arts and violence ended it. It is better to be feared and hated than just hated.

Anonymous · Answer

Be loud and strong. Bullies don't like loud targets.

David5668 · Answer

My dad taught me to bare knuckle fight. That was effective

jahaims · Answer

I'd physically or psychological destroy them depending on the circumstances

SuperZonicGUY1992 · Answer

I was the coolest popular kid back in the day!

Nightmoon23 · Answer

I just sucked it up and had to deal with it

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paledreams · Answer

I just endured it, time got better

Adel50 · Answer

Ignore the bullies.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

HELL YES.. ... DEVASTATED ME EMOTIONALLY

eagle1951 · Answer

i decked the guy

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