Would it be wrong if I didn't tell my therapist that I have a trust fund?

[Anonymous]

I lost my job recently because I was charged with a misdemeanor. I had a very small savings, and im running out of money fast. I didn't know this but my mom just told me that she's paying for my phone bill and i feel bad. I have about 16k in my trust fund but she doesn't want me using it. I was talking to my therapist yesterday, and I told her that I lost my job, and I have a small savings. She mentioned getting a case manager, and she mentioned that I could get help paying my bills. I guess she thinks ill qualify because i have autism. I didn't mention to her that I have 16k in my trust fund. I told my therapist that I was gonna talk to my mom before making a decision. I talked to my mom and she said I should do it. I would just feel bad because I could just use my trust fund money until I get another job. My mom keeps pushing me to call my therapist, but I'm not so sure I should since I have 16k in my trust fund.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tough situation you got there, man. I can understand why you're feeling conflicted about telling your therapist about the trust fund money. On one hand, you want to be open and honest with your therapist, but on the other hand, you don't want your mom to get upset with you for using the trust fund.

Ultimately, I think you gotta do what's best for you in this situation. If you feel like you can get by with the trust fund money until you find a new job, then that might be the way to go. But you also have to consider whether that's the right thing to do ethically.

Your therapist is trying to help you and get you the support you need, so you don't want to withhold important information from them. That could end up backfiring and make things even more complicated down the line. Plus, they're bound by confidentiality, so it's not like they're gonna go blabbing about your trust fund to your mom or anyone else.

At the same time, I get not wanting to disappoint your mom or go against her wishes. That's a tough spot to be in, for sure. Maybe you could try having an honest conversation with her about your situation and see if you can come to a compromise. Explain that the trust fund money could help you get back on your feet, and see if she's willing to be a little more flexible.

Whatever you decide, just remember to do what's right for you, bro. Don't let your mom or anyone else pressure you into a decision you're not comfortable with. You gotta do what's best for your own well-being and long-term success.

If you do end up telling your therapist about the trust fund, just be upfront about it. Don't try to hide it or make excuses. They're there to help you, not judge you. Honesty is always the best policy, even if it's tough.

Either way, don't stress too much, man. You've got this. Just take it one step at a time and do what feels right for you. You got good people in your corner, so don't be afraid to lean on them for support. Stay up, bro!

[David5668]

I’d probably say that if you’re hiding the fact you have funds to pay for a professional service that makes you morally bankrupt in my book. They have to earn a living. The fact that you were sacked/dismissed because of YOUR unprofessionalism isn’t their problem. They s yiu don’t want to pay, then stop seeking your counsellor.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You didn’t do anything ethically wrong, I would use the trust fund as a last resort and your mom is right to tell you as much. Just get a case manager, I’ve done that process it’s easier than you think.

[rosemilk]

nope, no need to tell her. a trust fund is not for touching.

[MoonFace2]

No, it’s your decision to make as to who knows your business. However, if you tell her, she might be able to help advise you in a way that most other people can’t.

[exitseven]

16 K is not a trust fund, its a savings account.

[lorenzomichael]

Why would you tell your therapist? You have a trust fund at all? It’s non of her fucking business?

[Anonymous]

16k really isn't much but you'd do best to switch that into a pension

[In_Trance]

I'm not sure you understand what in trust means

[lifetimefitness]

16k isn’t that much money

[Jmmmfi4]

YOU'RE AN ADULT DO WHAT YOU THINK IS BEST