I don’t like my boyfriends family because they act posh and are always talking about status and money. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

You are probably best to dump your boyfriend and move on , from my experiences and what I have witnessed through the years with families that are like this? Those families are usually trying to cover up who they truly are , by acting like they have their shit together , and acting like they are better than everyone , when really they are nothing , they are just making excuses for their selfish actions by acting like money and status is the most important thing , people like this usually end up in jail , once their true colors shine of who they truly are , and you will eventually find out they were talking out their asses the whole time , They will be locked up for insurance fraud or whatever crooked shit they are trying to cover up. Do yourself a favor and run the other way

[lorenzomichael]

I wouldn’t tell somebody to do or say something that I wouldn’t say or do. So I would say something like, “You guys might not wanna hear what I’m about to say, but get over yourselves you guys are always talking about money and status to each other. who does that? I hope you guys never talk like that in public cause you sound pretty fucking stupid all of you It’s embarrassing.” But you have to have enough balls to do it. Me I’m out spoken and besides, I couldn’t and I wouldn’t have people like that around me let alone be my friends or somebody I’m with. I could tell even the closest person to me, to go fuck themselves if they don’t agree with me especially about something like that.

[Anonymous]

Leave your boyfriend.
If you don’t like his family, just leave him. Especially if they always talking about money and status. You feel uncomfortable with that, it seems because you are from different class and status with him.


Just leave it would hurt you in the future.

[Asker]

They act like they are so important I just cringe so much

[KrakenAttackin]

Women keeping women single. Classic.

[rosemilk]

i'd say ignore it, unless your boyfriend also talks like that

[AI Opinion]

As your love guru here, I’d say it’s time to approach this with a sprinkle of understanding and a dash of communication magic! 💫 Talk openly with your boyfriend about how you feel, focusing on your feelings rather than pointing fingers. It's important that you're both a team on this. Find some common ground or focus on bonding experiences. A bit of compromise and empathy can go a long way in any relationship!

[Zack-Bann]

Assuming your boyfriend isn’t like them and doesn’t like either but puts up with it then you should make the effort to put up with it for him and not for them


We don’t pick our families but for better or worse we are attached to them and loving someone doesn’t mean loving his family but putting up with a couple of snarky remarks a few times a year shouldn’t be a crisis

[ohsheeT]

Yeah that's a hard one right there I always have that feeling of you can't beat them then join them but not on this one I mean if you work hard and you're successful then that's cool but I mean to communicate about that all the time it's just ridiculous you kind of takes away from happiness and around that way

[purplepoppy]

They sound insecure. Perhaps they're trying to prove their son's worth to you.

[midnightmoon05]

Learn from them or leave them?

are they hurting you/your relationship in anyway?

we talk a lot about finances over dinner table and we want the same from our future kids partners.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I wouldn't do anything special.

They don't need to match me, I don't need to match them, as they aren't part of the equation. I'll make use of diplomacy though, just like in a job.

[ProbablyClueless]

Decide whether you want to continue dating someone whose family acts that way.

The reality is that this is a sign that you and your boyfriend come from different tribes, so to speak.

[AviatorTom]

I'd be surprised if your boyfriend is any different, which means you and he are not a good fit. Your decision about what to do...

[Anonymous]

People who actually have money don't talk about it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Either play nice to keep peace or dump your boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

They could be abusive drug addicts. What you have is workable.

[Staximus]

You don't need to do anything. You're dating him, not his family

[Jj1994]

Sounds like stuck up people. They’ll always talk down to you more than likely. I’d move on

[David5668]

Be yourself and don’t let them get to you. You’re better than them.

[Anonymous]

Leave, sounds like you aren't the right fit for the fold

[CarolinaGirl5]

They don't like u either lol

[WowGIrl4ever]

Ignore them braggers have nothing

[Jmmmfi4]

JUST PLAY NICE