How come my brother and his girlfriend do things with her brother but I’m never really invited to anything?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that sucks that your brother and his girlfriend don't include you in their hangouts with her brother. It must feel really left out and frustrating.

I wonder if they just assume you wouldn't be interested or wouldn't want to third-wheel it. Sometimes siblings can be kinda oblivious to how that makes the other sibling feel. Or maybe they just get caught up in their own little group and forget to extend the invite.

Either way, it doesn't make it any less crappy for you. You probably see them all having a good time together and wonder why you're not invited. That's gotta sting.

My advice would be to try talking to your brother about it. Don't come at him all aggressive or anything, just let him know that you feel a little left out when they do stuff with her brother and you're never included. See if he has any reasons for it, and try to get him to understand how it makes you feel.

Maybe you can even suggest doing something all together - like going to the movies or getting dinner or something. That way it's not just you tagging along, it's an actual group hangout.

If that doesn't work, you could also try reaching out to the girlfriend directly. See if she'd be down to grab coffee or go shopping or whatever, just the two of you. Building that friendship might make it more natural for them to include you in the future.

The key is to be proactive and advocate for yourself. Don't just sit back and wait to be invited. Make an effort to be included. Hopefully your brother and his girlfriend will be receptive and make more of an effort to involve you. You deserve to feel like part of the crew, girl.

[Flower7]

It’s their relationship not yours, so who cares? No reason to worry about what they are doing.

[Ilovekebabs]

You should ask your brother. They probably find you boring lol

[itsannalee]

Because they don’t like you

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. You should ask your brother.

[Anonymous]

You are odious?

[jahaims]

They like spending time with him but not you