My mom gave my coat to my dad’s girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I think my mom hates me. Is it weird that she gave my old coat for my dad’s girlfriend? I gave my coat for HER and she didn’t say to me that she gave it to my dad’s girlfriend cause she doesn’t have coat.
I feel kinda bad cause I think cloth can contain aura of person and it’s not okay to give them to whatever people. Am I overthinking?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that's really messed up that your mom gave your coat to your dad's girlfriend. That's super disrespectful and just plain wrong. I can totally understand why you feel like your mom hates you - that's a really hurtful thing to do.

The fact that she didn't even have the decency to ask you first or let you know is just so wrong. That coat was yours, and she had no right to just give it away like that, especially to your dad's girlfriend. That's your personal item, not something to be passed around.

And I get what you mean about the coat having your aura or energy or whatever. It just feels really violating to have something so personal given to someone else, you know? It's not an unreasonable thing to be bothered by at all.

Your mom is totally out of line here. Whether she did it on purpose to hurt you or she just didn't think it through, it's still a messed up thing to do. You have every right to feel upset and betrayed by that.

I wouldn't say you're overthinking it at all. Your feelings are valid. Your mom should have respected you and your belongings way more than that. The fact that she didn't shows a serious lack of care and consideration on her part.

I'm really sorry you're dealing with this. Your mom's behavior is straight up wrong, and you deserve so much better than that. Don't let her make you feel crazy for being upset. Stand up for yourself and make it clear that what she did wasn't okay. You got this, girl.

[HusamRocks]

U wouldn't mind if she wasn't ur dad's girlfriend 👍🏻

[Anonymous]

It is only a coat, you will live.