Do you hate your father?

[foxsquirrell]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

He’s a nice person and a good dad but he also molested me so it’s a bit complicated. I lived a very comfortable life and got everything that I asked for, he never touched me again after high school but I don’t think I can ever have a normal relationship with him. I hate what he did to me, I hate some parts of him but I don’t hate him as a dad.

[foxsquirrell]

So your relationship with him is smudged. I personally hate him. He is ignorant, he is weak, and he was physically abusive when I was young. My earliest memory is of him hitting me with a belt. I will never never NEVER forgive him. And I will make him pay in a way that I cannot be held liable for anything. He is a piece of shit.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you can just cut him off completely so that you can live in peace

[foxsquirrell]

Thank you.

[Flower7]

Opinion owner: I do not see how you can think of him as a nice person after he did such horrible things to you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Flower7 I guess that’s why it’s complicated. He’s a nice person to everyone else, even to my sister. It was also a coping mechanism for me, I think I was just trying to justify his actions.

[Mollylogin]

No, I can't imagine having anyone else but him as a dad. I wish I had his patience, because it could not have been easy raising three girls and having a mean wife on top of it 😂😂😂

[foxsquirrell]

Excuse me, what do you mean having a mean wife? Are you saying you are in a relationship with another woman?

[Mollylogin]

No lol when I said "raising three girls and having a mean wife on top of it", I meant HIS wife. My mother.

[foxsquirrell]

Oh ok you were talking from his perspective.

[Orion84]

I hate my father, yes.

Not in the "teenager" sense, where you yell "I hate you!" and slam the door, but in the literal sense that I've completely banned him from my life, haven't spoken to him in years, and wouldn't even acknowlege him if/when he finally dies.

As far as I'm concerned, I don't have a father.

[foxsquirrell]

If he deserves it - which from what you say he probably does - then you do right to have this stand with respect to that guy.

[Orion84]

Oh, he absolutely deserves it.

[NicholasRedone]

Nah, he's a cool guy 😎 I've learnt a lot from him and from mama over the lifespan thus far 👀👍🏻 like most humans often learn

[foxsquirrell]

I can't say the same unfortunately. He has not much good to say. He speaks garbage all the time. Always watching the channel of his stupid political party. Plus he used to lose his temper on me when I was young. He is garbage. And a weak man. And weak men do not command respect. It is a fact.

[Abbycado]

Lol, no. Quite the opposite. My dad is awesome.

[foxsquirrell]

can't' say the same for mine! Do you still live with your parents?

[Abbycado]

Not when I’m at school. I do when I’m home on breaks and will in the summer.

[foxsquirrell]

Maybe it has to do with the fact that you are still 19. But I just don't like him. He is ignorant, he used to hit me when I was young, and everything that comes out of his mouth is garbage. I loath him actually. And he seems a very needy guy, a pussy at the core, not a masculine man as a man should be. I just look down on him from every angle.

[Beckybooboo]

I love my dad.

[foxsquirrell]

If he deserves to get love from you than it is good that you love your dad.

[MemeSupreme]

yes no

it's complicated lol

[exitseven]

No, he was not perfect but he was a good father.

[Blueeyes81]

No. I respect that man more than any other.