Could men help more rasing their kids?

[Anonymous]

Like I don't understand why you can't a woman who gave you a new life to help her. Get up at night and feed the baby, or do laundry, make a meal for Christ sakes, or help her cope with the post depression phase. Its not hard. Some men will say oh I have to work in the morning or the baby dosen't like me. Well fuck then at least do something though. A woman goes through a lot giving birth and having suicidal thoughts after and having trouble getting up. It pisses me off how men are. Believe me your not entitled.

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the relationship but I know relationships should be equal effort but fathers are important in their children lives regardless. If a man’s working 70 hours a week while the woman stays home. Then…. Okay she should be doing almost all the childcare.

If both parents work full time jobs it’s not fair to make one person do most of the labor. It’s part of the reason I ask for fraternity leave is important I think even women would support ir needing extra help as well as bonding with both parents.

Emotional support is also important as well for both parents. I agree that both men and women have emotional needs men should be supported after a long stressful day so should women. I understand that men are not women and women are not men so it can be hard to understand. But also important not to take things out of someone’s control out on them. Communicate…. Give someone space when they need it and give comfort when they need it.

Not all men are entitled or like that. Some are and some women act that way too.

[Anonymous]

A lot of men do help. It all depends on the man you have a baby with.

[jahaims]

Stop choosing immature partners and this isn't an issue