What would you if you were wrongly accused by an elderly person and you had to stay there in hell because they could no longer stay by themselves?

[Wonderwoman1219]

I am damned if I do damned if I don't. I don't want to live here I have to. Everytime I don't do something fast enough. he hangs it over my head about calling aps. He said aps says all he has to do is say I steal I harm him and they will swoop in. People to think it's fun not sleep getting locks out of the house.

[Abbycado]

I’d explain exactly that. If they don’t treat you with the respect you deserve as a caregiver then you have no choice but to leave.

You are not obligated to care for a person. It may be the right thing to do, but there are other options.

[MannMitAntworten]

Install hidden cameras throughout the house that also record audio. Only other option is to find some place else to live because he cannot prove you stole something unless you actually do.

[DrPepper12]

Is this a relative? Are you a home health aid e?

[Wonderwoman1219]

It's my dad

[Wonderwoman1219]

He keeps screaming you liar you thief you're eating all my food taking all my money I try to isolate to cool off adps was here when I wasn't here and talked to him. I called them. One person sayid there was no case against me another person said that if I am that stressed out over this then I must be lying and maybe I should be investigated. Then they said they couldn't tell me if I was being investigated or not. they were very rude

[Wonderwoman1219]

Basically being worried means I am automatically guilty

[slatyb]

Why do you stay?