Why does my dad treat me badly when I have my own flat and live 4hours away?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

I'm gonna tell you what I told my sisters. Let it go. Put it behind you and get on with your life. I have little context here but assuming you're not a drug addict or serial killer, it's a HIM problem and not a YOU problem. You have no control over his personality. Accept it and go live your life.

[Asker]

I’m nowhere near a druggie or serial killer. I live 4 hours got a degree lived abroad doing marketing but why does he treat me this way

[OneViewpoint]

You can try confronting him. He probably couldn't tell you why. LET IT GO. Not to forgive him. To save yourself. It's probably not anything you've done. It's who he is. Why? He may not be aware how he arrived at who he is. Death by 1,000 cuts. Maybe life just wore him down and he's done. Maybe he's a damaged personality. You don't have control over it. Stop wallowing in sadness and go live your life.

[Asker]

Wow I needed to hear this you are right there is no point trying to figure him out

[OneViewpoint]

Man, I hope like hell I got through to you. I hope you can do it!

[Asker]

Thank you 🤩 you did

[jahaims]

Probably because you are stupid. You asked a vague question to strangers with no context expecting helpful answers. We don't know you or your dad. How would we possibly know?

[leahzrc]

My dad ignores me I see him less than once a year and he doesn't text me or respond😭😂Hell for this guy

[itsannalee]

You know him better than any all of us here.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because that's who he is as a person

[Seangreen]

because you are Muslim