If you were no use to your family, would they still love you?

[red-lipstick-girl]

SIt's 5 in the morning and I can't sleep, my family constantly belittles me, I don't want them anymore even though I do things I should do for them, I'm going to delete them from my life

[ohsheeT]

There is always one in every family. We are the black sheep of the family. They will always talk about you

They will always put you down
They will always blame you

But they will always come to you.

It's because you are different than them you lead and not follow
You have a mind of your own

There's 2 ways to deal with it you can think how dare you even judge me because you really don't even know me.

Or you can just smile and think to your self how sad. But I don't blame them because for people that don't like me very much. it seems like all you do is talk about me lol

[nawtee_me]

My self worth does not depend on anyone else. It is what I say it is not what others say it is. You are worth more than you know…..

[Apulu_backagain]

If that's what it takes for you to live your life in your own terms, then do it.

For me, I'm a minor and depend on my parents for everything and they love me. I'm blessed.

[ilistengood]

Your one of the first young women I've heard that didn't say how they were ruining her life, Bravo

[red-lipstick-girl]

@ilistengood Are you being so cool by saying these? Everyone has problems and troubles, there's no need to make fun of them.

[Apulu_backagain]

@ilistengood whatever problems she's facing is none of my business unless she needs help and wants to talk about it because I'm up to actually 'listen her good'.

People should be less nosy about someone's life and like red lipstick girl said, everyone has their own problems. All I want is people to be happy and that applies to her too, so if she's taking a big and important decision of becoming completely independent and is capable to do that then I'm happy for her and I agree with it.

[Orion84]

Depends on the family. 🤷‍♂️

Some people believe that you should love your family, no matter what, while others are more pragmatic.

Personally, I think some people are honestly just dead weight, and should be cut off, else they'll drag you to the bottom along with them.

[Shiprex]

Mine don't need me but want me though I don't make enough effort to keep in touch except weekly or more calls. Nothing much to say usually so its a hassle.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Have you told them how the make you feel. Im sure they dont mean to make you feel that way. Your a sweetheart and a true friend. I can't see anybody setting out to hurt someone as sweet as you are. Hit me up if you want to talk about it okay

[ilistengood]

Can I ask what they belittle you over? Does it involve your whole family. Im sorry your having such issues. Its 3 am here and I can't sleep either.

[Coden7]

I don’t talk to my parents much anymore. My brothers and sisters are different, but I no longer believe my parents think good of me

[FenixG45]

Sadly, MANY families are dysfunctional, and we STILL try to make it work. At some point, you have to STOP torturing yourself, and find your OWN way to peace!

[TallAnon]

They do, I know for a fact that they love me a ton; Through words and actions

[Cheerfull009]

If you want to delete them , pay the money , they spent on your brought up, medication and education

[Ironco]

I'm everyone's. Go to

[LunarEclipse433]

Family always loves family

[KostasKouvalis]

They DO😂

[chenyu]

My family won't