Is it normal to try for a baby if you are an adult and still living with your parents but aren’t ready for a baby?

[Anonymous]

No one is truly ready for a baby and is it ok and normal to try for a baby because you're an adult before it's too late and because it's better to have kids young then older because it's harder as you get older? They are in a stable relationship and try in their early 20’s when they are still living with their parents and try to make it work the best they can because they want to be parents and no one is ever ready to be ready for a parents. Like financially they get help easily. What do you think? It’s ok to not be settled when trying for a baby? Because think about it by the time they time they can afford their own place they will be in their 30’s and their fertility will decline then. So trying for a baby when they aren’t ready makes sense?

It’s ok to try for a baby when you are in your 20’s and are still living with your parents because no one is truly ready for a baby

They should wait until they are settled and ready even if they are in their late 30’s when fertility declines

[ohsheeT]

There's way more to having a baby than just having a baby you have to be financially secure you have to have lots of money in the bank it takes over $300,000 to raise a child

If you're going to have a baby on your own You should have already own a house Your car speed up You have health insurance you have your life together you have a plan because it gets difficult or it can get difficult and you have to be 100% prepared to raise a child right

It's just not about the girl having a baby It's about raising that child right To make that child 10 times 100 times better than the adult The parent

[jahaims]

No, that is what idiots do. It is irresponsible and unfair to the child

[queenofcardio]

It doesn't make sense why you would even want to in that situation.

[Asker]

Because of age

[Asker]

Other girls want to because of age and no one is truly ready for a baby right? If they wait till they are in their own place it might be too late because apartments are expensive

[Asker]

What are your thoughts?

[NoDecision]

So, in other words you are going to live with your parents and have them foot the bills. Who is going to pay for your kid? You won't be able to work in your latter period of pregnancy, not for a period after it. I can cost $350K, or more, to raise a kid from infancy to age 18. I suggest you wait until you are on better, and more stable, grounds before you do such a thing.

[EmmaMary]

I simply cannot think of anything more immature. 🙂‍↔️

[Anonymous]

You have a very unique style that makes you identifiable even when you go anon

[MasterKS]

Why to give them burden, do when you able alone.

[Agape93]

See? You can post normal shit. Good 👍

[tiredpanda]

Nope.

[Asker]

How come?

[tiredpanda]

I think you should have things sorted out and a stable life before having kids.

[Asker]

What if it’s too late like fertility wise?

[tiredpanda]

Fertility does decline with age obviously but plenty of women still have healthy pregnancies in their late 30s and even 40s. I don't think that alone is a reason to have children before you're ready.

[Abbycado]

Nope