My boyfriend has baby fever and it freaks me out!

[Anonymous]

I've been dating him for 2 months and he keeps bringing up having kids or what our kids would be like, etc. I like him, but I' not crazy in love and I'm certainly not ready to have kids with him! What to do?

[stubbsy]

You need to tell him "Look, we are boyfriend and girl friend... If you don't get that then we need to go our different ways, because I AM NOT...REPEAT...AM NOT... Having a child...UNDERSTAND... If he don't get this, then flog him, get rid of him, because he is a weird one, and you don't need one of them around, for sure,xx

[Asker]

He's a really great guy, just really into having a baby for some reason. If we ever did have kids, he'd be good with them. It's like we're at two different points in the relationship right now :S

[stubbsy]

Thats a fair comment, but you still need to be honest and lay your cards on the table, and say your not ready yet and that you want to wait a while until you start planning for a baby, he should respect your decision and pipe it down a bit, even if its just to make you feel comfortable, so have that chat and see how it goes, its not healthy to dissagree on something without expressing all emotions that surround the subject. good luck,x