Although I am open to moving on to something more than we are, at this time, she isn't. I'm okay with that and I want the ring to symbolize what we are right now. I have also found one with a CZ heart in Aquamarine, her birthstone.
Mostly I'm wondering if this would be appropriate?
A lot has happened in the last few months that drastically changed our friendship. For the better. I'm not necessarily out of the friend zone. But I have told her that I don't intend on going anywhere.And I've shown her that I will be there for her no matter what.
She hasn't had the best relationships in the past and is still recovering from a particularly bad one where her ex would beat her. I told her of my intentions with her and asked her if she ever saw an "us" -
I've been with her a lot lately almost every day for the past few weeks. It's amazing. Today while we were in the car, I noticed a thumb ring she was wearing. I thought it was a Claddagh because of the way the vines on it grasped a heart. So I asked her about it. She showed me it wasn't a Claddagh but she has always wanted one.
I then told her I was going to get -
I asked her if it would be okay, or if it would be weird because of my feelings for her. She assured me that it would be fine and she would love it.
So that's my update. The ring is on order from Amazon, and I'll just so happen to be giving it to her on Valentines day.
I'd like to thank you all for listening to me ramble. Have a good night.
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