However, a month after that she went cold/rude on me when I saw her again?
I never chased her after the first, friendly encounter, and she found out I was out dating (casually) again. I think these two factors may have made her upset. She also told one of our mutual friends that she herself was not dating anyone.
But, should I have chased again considering that she dumped me, said she wanted to remain friends, and never contacted me after dumping me?
Although I would have wanted her back as a girlfriend, it was great that she was at least cordial to after the breakup. I would have taken that over nothing.
But now, everything seems to be in tatters and it makes me sad.
However, perhaps I should not have brought a date to an venue where some of my ex's friends would be. I would never be so crass as to bring a date in front of my ex (although, I can't say she would show me the same consideration, especially now that she is apparently upset).
So, how do I proceed? Continue to be friendly to the ex or ignore her?
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