Polls: Family & Friends

If you were using your gf's pregnancy as a meal ticket so that you can benefit w/o being concerned that shed have to give up school, curse at her, tell her "I'm the father you should listen to what I say" and threaten her friends while she's pregnant cause she's out, continue drinking, and basically push her to find a place while you sat on your ass; would you be shocked/hurt if she decided to have an abortion(behind your back cause she thought you'd kill her) cause she was scared by this treatment?

you know you messed you by acting possessive and crazy while she was stressed ad you never supported her worries enough . you were more concerned with yourself. would this girlfriend deserve to be broken up with?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. Lately however, things have been changing between him and I, like he has made plans with me twice this week just to "forget" all about them and hangout with his friend. We make the plans DAYS in advance so I think it's impossible to just 'forget' all about spending time with your GIRLFRIEND. When I call him out on what he's doing, he just says I'm being 'childish and things happen.' I don't know what to do anymore, I do love him and I want to spend my life with him, but at the rate he's going, I don't know if that's possible. Any opinions?

Say you and your best friend have a little extra to your friendship. You're not sleepin with or seein anyone else and neither is she.

Oops.

You find out she's (oh no) pregnant.

Now you both are adults. (He's 26) but you aren't quite in the best position to have a family yet.

What do you do?

Do you leave? Do you stay friends and help with the kid? Do you try to tell her to abort the baby or put it up for adoption?

GIRLS: How would you tell him? What would you do?

What if you were thinking about moving (due to financial strain) back across the country to your parents (just to get on your feet)? Would you go anyway or would you stay and struggle?

How upset would you be? Would you end the friendship with her? (she was on birth control, but messed up on her days)

Any and all answers appreciated. Thanks!

Say if you were at a club with your girlfriend and friends. VIP section got closed for NHL hockey players and your girlfriend got invited. Personally I thought it was pretty f***ed up. Would you tell your girlfriend to "Do whatever you got to do to get me inside too. Even if you have to make out with one of them, do it!" And girls. would you do that for your boyfriend?

Hey y'all.

This guy friend of mine and I (work together) were intoxicated one night after hanging out and we messed around...nothing major, but afterwards, and for the next week or so, we ate together, hung out, talked on the phone alot, went to stay at a hotel for the weekend (no sex...just relaxing) but we slept in the same bed and I laid my head on his chest as we talked..while I rubbed his belly....sounds innocent, but I thought we were moving toward a relationship. I don't do THAT with FRIENDS.

I made him a custom CD of the same cool rock songs we both like, so he could have it on his vacation this weekend, and wrote a nice note on it. He probably thought it was a "girlfriend" thing to do. He sent me an email saying not to "take this the wrong way" but he really values the friendship we have, and apologizes if my impression was that he wanted more than just friends. He went on to say that making good friends is not easy, and once the friendship is damaged, it is hard to repair.and doesn't want to lose my friendship. I talked to him after that, and he said that he dated a girl he worked with once before and [when it went bad] it made going to work difficult. He was focused on work when he left yesterday for vacation, and didn't say goodbye as he usually does.

Was he full of crap and wasn't attracted to me? Or really does like me, but is really afraid of ruining a good friendship? He is a bit immature for 35 yo, has had drug/alcohol addiction issues, so there are other factors which come into play. Just thought some insight would help. FOR THE POLL: "I don't want to ruin the friendship" means.....