Why aren't girls ever direct?

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And yes I know, guys can be guilty of this too. Honestly though it's the worst feeling in the world when you feel like a girl is sugar coating something, or saying something to be polite.

It especially annoys me when I list reasons why, and they pick one of those reasons. And then I wonder, so what if I didn't list that reason? What would they have said? And sometimes I press for more that's NOT my reason, and they say something, and even then it still seems like they're being polite.

Is it just me or anyone else like this?

MADE UP EXAMPLES:

#1: Guy: Do you wanna go see a movie some time?

Girl: I have a boyfriend, sorry

Guy: OK so what if you didn't have a boyfriend?

Girl: I don't know then

(Seriously, why can't a girl just say No I'm not interested?"

#2:friend zoned Guy: So why didn't you wanna date me back then?

Girl: Cause I was seeing someone long distance back then, I told you that

Guy: OK, so what if you werent seeing someone back then?

Girl: Well I was also working things out with another guy who was long distance

(As you can see, she's NOT saying no, but she's not saying yes. So wtf!)

Is it leading on, if after you narrow it down to the last bitter point, they say yes? is that why they sometimes still answer indirect? Cause then it makes you think you had a chance if those other obstacles werent in the way?
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Another good example I thought of, a guy who doesn't like a girl but she suspects it:


#3: Guy: So why do you like being friends with me?

Girl: (Lists reason he said in past of why he thinks she does)

Guy: That's what I said in the past, so what's the real reason?

Girl: We've been through a lot together



^^ like wtf. Why can't they just be honest and blunt? I'm not fishing for compliments, I'm not expecting her to say something that'll give me the wrong idea, I just wanted a genuine answer
Why aren't girls ever direct?
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