Questions: Family & Friends

I read somewhere that guys only want to be friends with a girl if they find them attractive. I really hope this isn’t true since my boyfriend has made a few new female friends since I’ve been with him. I’d like to believe that some guys out there just want to be friends simply because they are nice people.

I’m 15. My dad is kinda famous (regionally but might be nationally soon). I’m not gonna say who he is. But he’s coming out with an album soon and he mentions my brother and my step mom on it but not me. Like my step mom has two songs about her on it and my baby brother has one. My dad also named my baby brother after his grandpa (I’m not named after anyone), and the song is like a generation song so he could play it to his kids (he’s only 3 years old). My dad talks about not wanting to mess up the kid and telling him about his life expirences when he gets older in interviews. He also says my baby brother was the greatest gift he ever got. He always talks about my brother and rarely me. He also says he wants more kids. I do get along with my dad and step mom but feel left out. When they go out for date nights I have to watch my brother if the nanny isn’t available. I also hate how he takes my step mom and brother to nyc for interviews/ promo and I have to stay in LA with my mom. I live with my dad and sometimes see my mom like once or twice a month or whenever my dad goes on a trip and I have to stay behind because of school. When I was little my dad got full custody of me because my mom had mental breakdowns and he met my step mom when I was 4. My mom and dads breakup was very messy and bad and I was only like 3 months old. My dads always been overprotective of me but ever since my brother came into the picture it’s all about him and I feel like I’m just a walking shadow watching them create a new little family and a burden. I don’t fight with anyone in my house so I don’t know what the problem is. I feel like my dad secretly doesn’t like me.

I'm a straight female... perhaps this was a phase I've been through a few months ago- but I began having an interest in the idea of other girls for some reason. I suppose I was a little bi-curious and wanted to see what it would be like to experiment with or engage in a relationship with a woman. I've never physically done anything of that nature however, but I do remember having girl crushes around this time. Is this phase normal? Have you ever felt connected romantically or platonically to the same gender at any time as well?

I have 3 nieces - Amelia (13), Veronica (16) and Dana (17). Amelia and Veronica are my husbands nieces and Dana is my biological niece. Dana lives out of state and I haven’t seen her since summer. Amelia and Veronica live about a half hour away and I’m no longer on speaking terms with either because of a huge fight a few weeks ago. So there’s been multiple fake accounts on various social media using our pics and badmouthing my family and saying very mean harsh things for the past few days. Dana is the one who finds a lot of them but some of them do show up in search. Dana and Veronica have made fake accounts in the past and it was Veronica’s fault. However, when Veronica was in surgery yesterday one of the accounts was posting. I immediately blamed Dana because she’s the one whose been reporting accounts to my sister and Amelia was at school. My sister said Dana made a few but not all and Veronica posted on Facebook (blocked my entire family from seeing the post) that she made the accounts a few days ago but now the post isn’t up. I don’t know what to believe or why any of them would do it. I’m not allowed over at any of their houses and I don’t want my kids around them. I’m kinda over this entire situation. I don’t know whose doing what but this has to stop. I banned all of my nieces from coming over, not friends with any of my nieces or their parents on Facebook anymore and I haven’t spoke to any of them in about two days. All my nieces like to lie. It’s not really a huge deal it’s just I want it to stop because it’s mean girl bullying. My friend whose a cop just said to report all the accounts and if you make a police report it will likely be discarded since they haven’t done anything that bad worth looking into. So they won’t trace the IP addresses. I don’t know why Dana would do it, I haven’t done anything to piss her off lately, Veronica and I got into a huge blowout a few weeks ago and my husband and I got into with her parents. I have no idea.