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Skinny vs. Curvy: Quit Shaming Women Because of Their Build! >:( >:( (Page 2)
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Sorry, but I have preferences in shape and size. Apart from my preferences, I don't give a toss what size or shape a person is. Any health issue that arises is THEIR problem to deal with.
I have a reasonable working knowledge of serious weight loss, NOT by dieting, but by simple CHANGES in EATING HABITS. You say body shape is dependent on
*Genetics
*Diet
*Lifestyle
*Whether they're on the pill or not
This all equates to how much you consume relative to what your body needs. Yes, there are different body shapes but the visual difference is minimal when a suitable eating and exercise regime is followed. As my great grandad says, "There were never any overweight people in Belsen!"
Actually, I hope I've never been critical, on GAG, of people's size. I'm only concerned about overweight people storing up health problems for later in life. I only pass comment when I find someone that is my ideal. That is MY ideal, and mine alone.
the pic you have for a curvy girl IS curvy. I just don't like the fat girls who call themselves curvy just so they can lie to themselves. They're taking a word that's supposed to be sexy and turning it into a word that people are now associating with fat girls. Fat girls are not curvy.
i hear what you said here... but still some people would call that girl in the pic "fat"... how messed up is that?
That would be other girls who are jealous that they're getting all of the attention and praise.
Yet women shame and reject men because of their height, ability to attract women, and being born ugly. However, we never hear women championing those causes.
Also how much he makes. Men have to be the total package. With women, they just have to maintain a healthy weight.
not all women are picky af
I agree. Women need to stop judging men on height and men need to stop judging women on her curvitude
I don't think there's curvy shaming... I think you're confusing that with fat shaming.
I've never seen a REAL curvy woman being shamed for how her body looks.
some are being shamed
Exactly. Maybe in some cases but I never saw a curvy women shamed. Skinny ass chicks like me get shamed though. I never met a guy that liked twigs. I am trying to gain weight even though i am in the middle of my weight zone. its been a few months of my weight simply fluctuating between 112 and 117... I don't know but my body doesn't seen to realize its a woman. All the 2,000 calories + whAtever I burn with lots of exercise goes to my waist, makimg me bloated and then falls right off. Fuck my life
@Grungenoreos Hahah don't be so hard on yourself, I already told you there's plenty of guys that like skinny girls, you simply have a fast metabolism, as you grow older, you'll start losing weight more slowly. Sure, you'll have to wait, but that's how it works, unfortunately, but at least you're not fat.
Yeah but I am in the middle of getting over a rejection. I always thought science was lying when it taught that the ideal body type is curvy and how its known as more attractive or whatever shit lmao but its true. I always end up getting compared to a curvy but not fat chick
Wait? When will I stop losing weight? Wtf. Losing weight more slowly? I dont lose weight. My weight just fluctuates between 112 and 116 due to water rention and etc. I dont lose weight. I actually maintain my weight and I eat good. I just have a hard time putting on fat so i could be more voluptuous
@Grungenoreos That's what I meant, you don't gain weight because of your fast metabolism. You eat, but all what you eat, you burn it, that's why you don't gain weight.
Oh nevermind. Its just you typed that when I get older I would lose weight slower and I was like what? I dont lose weight
@Grungenoreos Yeah, my bad, I meant to say that you won't burn calories as fast as you do now. So as you get older, you'll start noticing how you can gain weight easier.
I know this may be odd but I am one of the odd few that actually looks forward to that. The plus side is that if I keep a healthy lifetsyle, I will just get the right kind of heavier weight since I am very thin as it is.
@Grungenoreos Be careful what you wish for... it may not be as good as you think.
No i mean just naturally gaining weight due to age like you said. I am committed to fitness and hope to stay so
An ex once told me “you should never compare girls," and I think that's good advice.
Also, I don't think a lot of people actually know what shaming is.
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Agree with OO here.
Someone being informed that they're overweight and need to lose a few pounds (in some cases a lot of pounds) by getting active and healthy is hardly shaming.
Just the same for a sickly thin person being told they should be building themselves up a bit for health.
This should unequivocally and inarguably be a physician's mandatory responsibility to review with every patient at every physical examination.
Many confuse not liking what they've heard as having been "shamed". However, someone feeling ashamed of a situation hardly means they've been a victim of shaming. Two entirely different things.
This is entirely a "tea-cup generation" issue.
@GuysGuy well, hold the phone here buddy, no one said anything about its wrong for someone, especially a physician, to inform someone of a need to gain it lose weight. That's a far cry different from what this my take us about. Shaming is a task thing, it's done publicly and it's fine with the purpose of humiliating a person. That's a different thing.
Yes exactly. Point is, it's being confused and many people don't know what shaming actually is.
FYI, most physicians won't dare say jack shit when they should. And it's largely due to how the patient may react and what they'll rant on about on social media streams
There go the guys listing what they prefer again. 🙄
It's not about that! It's about women putting their women down for their bodies in order to lift their body type up! It's not a war, it's not a battle, it's about being comfortable in your own skin enough to not give a crap which body type they have! Nobody case which body type you like.
Anyway I enjoyed this take!
am glad you did
It's a brutal war with women trying to make other women feel shamed. Since they feel like if they do that then more men for them. Don't ask me how that logic works, that's just how mouth-breathers think.
i hate that
I think if once you got with someone and knew 100% they wouldn't cheat or leave you for someone else. Then the petty competitiveness of it would probably go away.
Stop judgning men based on height then.
Any girl who hurts a guy by telling him he doesn't meet her height requirement needs to get emotionally hurt at the hands of a guy telling her she doesn't meet his boob/butt size requirement.
both words hurt
But we have to judge by height ( or big hands) it's the only way we can tell if he has a big penis, without asking him to remove his pants. Hehe ( just joking) 😉
I agree. If women want equality then it must be equality for all. The comparison of women will stop when the comparison of men stops.
I actually don't think there's too much shaming going on. I think what's happening more often is people are celebrating bodies of a certain type (for example, slim and stacked) and others are taking offense.
Separately, the girl you have illustrating "curvy women". . . good GOD! WOW!
Actually body shaming does go on. I have been shamed for how thin I am. Been constantly told by some people how I have no ass and one person even said that I look like an anorexic person with boobs. The guy I liked went for a girl that was curvy and well that made me feel like even more shit. I have family members that have called me a twig. A cousin of mine told me I should gain weight cuz guys dont like that shit. He was like "I bet you dieted all your life thinking skinny was beautiful?" when I visited in the first time in ages last year. But thing is I never dieted in my life. Its my build. Aside from my C cup boobs I have very little curves. I am healthy though. I lift weights, squat, lunge, dumbell squat, dumbell lunge, push up, sit up, sprint, run uphills, do handstands, cartwheels, the splits, and all kinds of booty exercises on all fours. My 5'2 self been following a dietary plan of consuming 2,000 calories daily along with anything I approximately burn ( I overestimate)
But yeah its not like I have nothing. I like the handful of boobs that aren't too big on me but enough to be a handful. But ya i have no ass or hips. Its my build though. I have been made fun of by guys and girls multiple times
@Grungenoreos DEFINITLEY don't sweat it grunge! That sounds like a spectacular body type! Plus if you do all that work at the gym, you're bound to be in great shape! Keep it up! And don't let people's comments get you down. For starters, some of them probably mean them as compliments. Not all of them--I'm sure some are trying to be jackasses, but you can ignore them too!
am glad you like that build :)
Hey, OP! Great take! Are you rocking a similar build? :D
close enough
Haha how is having no ass a compliment? Or looking like an anorexic person with boobs? Since when is being a twig considered a good thing? Lol I may be in great shape (I try) and eat decently (2,000 calories a day + whatever I burn) following this plan but all the food does it go to my waist and make me bloated and then drop off within a day or two. Its like my body wants to stay this shape. It doesn't realize its a woman I guess.
That's not bad thing! lol!
@Grungenoreos It's not necessarily that "no ass" is a complement, but remarking on how thin you are but that you're still rocking nice boobs could well be. Work what you've got! It's a very popular favorite body type
I suppose so. I mean I dont really know how to work what I got. I feel hella weird if I'd step out showing my cleavage in a low cut top. But thats cuz I never really show much skin ever and am used to dressing for comfort as in baggy tees, sweats, hoodies, leggings, etc.
@Grungenoreos Fair enough. Well, you most certainly don't need to do that. Nothing wrong with dressing modestly. It shows class. Save the skin for a worthy guy!
If there ever will be a worthy guy lol I kind of lost hope to be honest
@Grungenoreos Hang in there--you'll find one!
Exactly, curvy is too fat, but skinny is too thin. There's no pleasing people
ikr >:( >:( :')
People saying "okay but what about.."
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no worries i have brains ;)
I don't think anyone shames curvy.. but yeah it does depend mostly on genes... we don't have a right to put anyone down.. and as long as one's healthy.. eats right... that's all that matters..
by the way I LOVE the last gif.. omg... 😍❤❤❤❤❤❤
lols dat minion
Skinny, curvy, whatever; health and happiness is the most desirable.
EXACTLY!
( Standing ovation ) Bravo! Bravo! ( Tossing a rose on the stage ) Bravo! Bravo!
*picks up rose
thanks
I was relentlessly bullied in high school for being too skinny. Girls were the worst, but guys were also mean. Unless you're "normal" it seems, there is no escaping body shaming.
yeah i know :(
lol at the guys who don't think that woman in that picture is curvy. That is curvy and she's not fat at all.
guys are hard to understand
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Fat people are fat because they're lazy and have shit diets, it isn't genetic. You wouldn't tell someone not to shame a lazy, jobless person would you? Same goes for fatties.
I agree people should shut up, apart from fat people. (Meaning obese.) That's just unhealthy.
hmmm yah
this take gives me life.
Props to you ZombieBabe!! :)
*highfive* ;)
**DOUBLE High-Five*** :)
Why do people body shame? Don't they realize the damage it can do to someone?
i guess they are f****d in the head that's y
Fucked in the head and have nothing else to do...
agreed