Skinny vs. Curvy: Quit Shaming Women Because of Their Build! >:( >:(

[zombiebabe]

A myTake I read a few minutes ago inspired me to write this myTake.

So...I wanna write this take about why people should quit trying to judge a person or shame a person because of the way their body is!!!

Where do I start?

Well....the way a person's body is depends on a few factors like:

*Genetics

*Diet

*Lifestyle

*Whether they're on the pill or not

And others.....

I would like to start with that whole "skinny shaming" or "curvy shaming" or "fat shaming" thing.....what the hell is with that??

Why do people waste their time trying to put down people according to the way their body looks?? It's their life....yes...THEIRS!!

What are those different body types mostly known for?

I know that there are a few exception to that but generally it's how it is!!!

Curvy women ;)

*With our voluptuous built we are mostly known for having tits and ass

*we are known for having thick thighs

*Known for being soft

*and yet...we're called FAT -_-'' >:(

Skinny women ;)

*the thigh gap

*nice legs

*slim build

*and still they're called too thin -_-'' >:(

No matter what a person's build is...skinny or curvy..there will always be some people who will always have something to say about it? >:( >:(

#Justbeyourself

[lumos]

Lol at the guys who try to make this take about them and their penis/height/looks issues. Make your own damn takes and stop taking up space on takes that have nothing to do with you.
Other than that, great mytake and I agree. We can all celebrate our different looks and sizes without having to bring anyone else down. If you have to bring someone else down in order to elevate yourself and your looks, then it's clear that you're not as confident as you're trying to claim. Confident people can acknowledge their confidence and looks without feeling the need to put someone else down in the process. Only those who lack self-esteem will feel the need to prove that they're somehow "better" than others. And that's unhealthy, both to the person who's doing it and those they're attacking.

[zombiebabe]

true dat
*high five*

[Nothanks700]

I agree, but this isn't women specific. Everyone gets shamed for thier build. I'm a tall guy with a lanky frame; I'm defined, but I'll never look like tanning Chatum no matter how much I work out. People make comments all the time to me: "you gotta eat more," "you could use some meat on that belly" etc etc. oddly enough, it would be socially unacceptable to comment on a bigger persons weight, but apparantly you can make all the comments you want to skinny dudes. I think physical fitness should be encouraged for health reasons, but leave the rest out.

[zombiebabe]

not all people are judgmental

[lovestruckangel]

I completely agree with this my take so bravo! But what I do find funny is how it's only now body shaming 'skinny' girls has come into it, that people are getting so anti about it. I grew up slender... long skinny legs, collar bones and hip bones sticking out. But once puberty hit... boom thunder thighs and fat ass kicked in. So I became pear shaped. I got picked on. I was practically invisible until I developed. I began to wear oversized tops to even out my body shape... even wore my coat through summer... I refused to take it off. I never once heard body shaming of the smaller girls... if anything they were idolized and what society thought all women should look like... what I aspired to be again. I admittedly lost myself and got content and stopped putting myself first when I got into a serious relationship that then turned emotional abuse and controlling that I piled on weight because he was threatened by every male that looked my way. He controlled what I ate, stopped me exercising etc. I doubled in size. I hated myself even more. Loved finally having bigger boobs though ;P. We broke up I started loosing weight. Not quite back to the NZ size 10/12 I was but I'm greatful now that I'm curvy and more in proportion. Super greatful that big booties are accepted now. I wouldn't have the body issues I have now if we had Beyonce, Kim K etc back then. In my clubbing days I loved the sir mix a lot song 'baby got back'... I was one of few that could rock that shit and loved watching the girls that used to pick on me for having a 'fat ass' look at me with anger because they had no booty.

[zombiebabe]

thanks :)
i was skinny before but am glad am more curvy now ;)
#teamthickthighs

[Grungenoreos]

Fuck my life. No matter what i do my body doesn't seem to realize its a woman that needs curves. I am team thick thighs without thick thighs. No guy has ever found my body type hot because apparently I look like a 12 year old boy with boobs. People think I diet like a model apparently. But thing id I never once dieted my whole life. People always pick on how skinny I am and that its gross. I get told by guys themselves that guys dont like this shit and that curvy is a lot hotter and beautiful. But I am mf healthy. I am in the middle of my weight zone with a healthy fat percentage. All the excess calories from my dietary plan goes to my waist and then comez off.

[Grungenoreos]

Everyone acts like curvy is better and I am just tired of it. I know I am very skinny. I know I will never be sexually appealing to a gut but do people always have to act like someone its bad for me to be the way I AM. BECAUSE I AM HEALTHY. MAYBE ILL NEVER GET A GUY (I dont want a guy that doesn't find me beautiful and sexy and so far all i am is cute or okay) but thats OKAY.

[Grungenoreos]

At least i am healthy and fjt

[lovestruckangel]

@Grungenoreos Excuse me... but read my opinion again. Where is it that I'm stating that curvy is better? Nobody is better or worse. I'm purely sharing my opinion that nobody gave a hit about body shaming until people started shaming 'skinny'. Through my teens I dreamed of being skinny again, even though back then, I was still skinny just extremely pear shaped. I was bullied and suddenly became known to everyone but not by my name but by "fat ass" and "thunder thighs". Yes I know kids are cruel blah, blah, blah. But those names stuck for a very long time and did a lot of damage. I'm marely stating that I'm glad the it's socially accepted now to have a bigger butt, wider hips etc so not that it's better, but so girls of today don't have to go through what I went through. Who said you weren't sexually appealing... I didn't. So don't come onto my post saying "people always have to act like it's bad for me to be the way I AM" where did I say that?

[lovestruckangel]

@Grungenoreos Also are you taking a dig by saying "At least I am healthy and fit" because news flash. You don't have to be skinny to be healthy and you also don't have to be fat to be unhealthy. As big as I got I was still in perfect health. I had the blood tests done and everything came back perfect. Also I'm only fit now because I have finally out grown asthma so I can now for the first time in my life able to run for long periods. Because although I was a skinny kid I wasn't fit because I was born with asthma I was limited to how fast or how far I could jog let alone run. Swimming and riding my bike was my way of getting my daily exercise then I discovered dancing too. But yes I do agree as long as everybody is happy, healthy then that is the main thing. There are a lot more important things in life to worry about. There will be plenty of guys that will find you sexually attractive but your only 17, So you shouldn't even be worrying about that anyway. Focus on your studies/career.

[Grungenoreos]

I am healthy. I have never been in better shape. And no guy finds me hot. Two of my past crushes didn't like me back cuz apparently I dont appeal to them. After all real women have curves. Im just a twig like everyone says that looks anorexic. News flash. I been gaining weight. But i still am not curvy at all

[Grungenoreos]

I am focusing on my studies. I currently have a 91 point something gpa

[Grungenoreos]

And no every guy I know when I ask them what they think is sexy and they say women that actually have curves and aren't sticks like models are. One of my cousins told me that guys dont like that shit cuz skinny has no boobs or butt or hips. And thats me.

[Grungenoreos]

And no. No guy I know likes skinny girls. Maybe the skinny girls with njce boobs and butt. But not my kind of ugly skinny that looks like a stick. Lots of guys have told me I look like a 12 year old boy

[Grungenoreos]

By me saying I am healthy I mean that its the kbly thing I can be. I have been trying to get curvier with butt and hip exercises and eating a calorie intake of 2,000 calories plus an addition of approximately whatever I burn and I practically eat 6 times a day, full of good things to eat. But where are my womanly curves? No guys I know like that. Science has proven time and time again why hourglass and curvy shaped is ideal and why the media will always be wrong in thinking skinny is hoy

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

@Grungenoreos i feel you girl!

[Bandit74]

People judge everything. We judge faces, voices, height, body types, hair, intelligence, humor, how exciting a person is, trustworthiness etc..
And we make those judgments within moments of meeting someone. Even the people who incessantly whine about how unfair it is to judge people are also guilty of judging people. They just want to pretend they aren't. That they are better than everyone else.

"No matter what a person's build is... there will always be some people who will always have something to say about it"

No shit. It just comes down to the fact different people have different preferences and no matter how much you want it to be so, you will NEVER appeal to everyone.

As far as "shaming" what actually constitutes as shaming?

Being publicly humiliated would be shamining but it seems like that word gets thrown around waay too often and applied to anyone who expresses anything other than a positive opinion about something. Like I would calmly say I find women who have slept around unnatractive and boom Im a slut shamer. I have shamed them 😱

God forbid I express anything other than a positive opinion about something or someone 😑

[lumos]

There's a difference between judging and shaming. Judging would be something along the line of "I'm not really attracted to thin women, I've always preferred somewhat larger women myself". You're making your own personal judgment regarding your preferences. Shaming would be something along the lines of "I fucking hate skinny bitches because they look anorexic, and as if their bones will break any minute" or "I fucking hate women who are fatasses because they look absolutely disgusting, shove another burger in your face will you" etc. Shaming is pretty much bullying. You're shaming someone for what they look like. There's a difference between basically saying "meh, no thanks" and "FUCKING JESUS CHRIST NO THAT'S SO DISGUSTING WHAT A LOSER" you know?

[Bandit74]

@lumos
But where is the line drawn?

You gave examples of opposite extremes. The first was really polite while the others were really agressive and insulting.

[lumos]

The line is drawn when you intend on actually hurting the other person. Either by being unnecessarily aggressive with your opinion or by literally choosing the most insulting words you can to get the reaction you want out of the people who read/listen to your opinion.

[Bluemax]

"As far as "shaming" what actually constitutes as shaming"

A very good question indeed. Are you familiar with Maria Kang?

[Bluemax]

"The line is drawn when you intend on actually hurting the other person."

Sadly not everyone sees it that way.

@lumos

[Bandit74]

@Bluemax
No, I have never heard of her.

[Bluemax]

Google her and see what many found to be a case of fat shaming.

[zombiebabe]

why so damn bitter?

[Swedgirl]

Curves are really trendy right now, just look at the Kardashians/Jenners. But fat shaming is still a thing though, I think people look down on obese people because there are lots of really over weight people who blame the way they are built, genetics and so on instead of dealing with the problems that they have in their lifestyle. I think that's kind of provoking for people who do have a healthy way of living. In my opinion everyone should just stick to their own business and don't point fingers at others who don't share their priorities.

[zombiebabe]

true dat... but her... the world doesn't revolves around the kardashians... those chicks are fake af

[Swedgirl]

They are really fake and annoying, but we can't ignore the fact that they've got like billions of followers and media loves them 😌

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

i agree! shaming is dumb! lol at the guys thinking this is totally directed at each of them individually. defending themselves and saying women are just as bad with shaming as though this couldn't possibly be directed at women, or anyone other than them! also if they're gonna make this about themselves they should just make their own take about male body shaming!

i agree, i hate that in order to compliment one body type, people put down another! or saying stuff like "REAL women have curves" like no REAL women can be anything. it drives me crazy! lol

[zombiebabe]

ikr !! :)

[popsickle]

You nailed it with your hashtag. Just be yourself. Shaming reflects more on the hater than it does on the woman at the receiving end. The world is vastly full of decent people who will respect you for being a good person, for being talented, for being influential. While we all lose our heads over meticulous modern beauty standards, who really respects it that much? What does it really mean as we grow older? I find that people who spread hate are really nothing special. Let them make a fool outta themselves I guess.

[zombiebabe]

some people judge others on looks :'(

[popsickle]

yeah and i'd rather not give them the attention they want, ya know? I know easier said than done but confidence is a process people reach at their own pace and when you reach there, it's nicer. haters dont stop until they catch their own wrong or hypocrisy.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Am I shaming women if I tend to aim for women who are 19 and weigh about 110lbs?

Incidentally I'd say the "curvy" woman in that pic isn't a great example of what one might consider "curvy", as she still looks very well proportioned. I mean honestly I'd take a million girls who look like her, but how often do women who weigh a lot have bodies that act so generous towards them? Not much, in my experience. Though that isn't to say I'd find you unattractive.

Though ya know, if you manage to build a machine one day that gives chicks an Ashley Graham-esque bodytype across the world, I wouldn't be complaining.

[helloitsmethere]

You aren't shaming anyone. That is just a preference.
Shaming however, is when you make fun of someone's weight.

[zombiebabe]

okay

[Blonde401]

I do agree with your take, completely! Women should stop competeing with each other! We should help and respect one another and love each other for our differences but sadly, I can't see that ever happening, especially with the media and things like that. And as much as I love this take, the only problem I have is that all of the women pictured are flawless beauties, I never see anyone with my skin or body type anywhere. It's like you're curvy - but you're still hot or you're skinny - you're still hot. If you're just average or you have scars or you're fatter in places that aren't considered beautiful (like you have more belly than butt) it's like we're even more gross. Just makes me so sad.

[zombiebabe]

glad you like the take :)
and yes i agree

[XOXOME16]

Thats girl you put is actually not fat at all or what most people would call curvy. she's actually pretty skinny. And boobs and butts have nothing to do with whether your fat or skinny. Both can have big boobs and butts. Just look and kylie jenner or kim kardashian. Kylie jenner is skinny but she's curvy. Curvy has nothing to do with not being skinny. Look at kim kardashian. She has a thigh gap and ways only 130 lb. But she's known for her ass and boobs. Beyonce is in her same EXACT situation. If a girl is curvy and not fat she wouldn't be called fat. This should've been title skinny vs. Fat. Dont make fat seem like an insult. Bc most of the girls claiming to be curvy are really just fat and there's nothing wrong with it but dont use the sugarcoated word that is completely misused. Curvy is body shape. Not how much fat someone has.

[zombiebabe]

calm down bruh

[Anonymous]

As long as a woman has a pretty face, it shouldn't matter how her body looks. I hate when guys will pick a butterface over a pretty chubby girl. The body should never be judged. I shouldn't have to work out at a gym to please a guy, but a girl shouldn't have to gain weight to please a guy either. I've been fat and skinny, and I've been shamed for both. I shouldn't be though because my face is pretty. People tell me all the time I am pretty. So I feel that since I am pretty, I shouldn't be judged unless I was a bitch or something.

A girl I know has a really ugly face, but because she works out at the gym and she participates in sports and yoga, guys like her. We used to be friends, but she told me she was concerned because I gained a lot of weight. So I stopped hanging out with her because she was body-shaming me. Her 'concern' was actually judgment.

[zombiebabe]

i get your point here :)
a pretty face is nice cause... the first thing you'll see while looking at a person will be her face... you'll see her facial traits

[Anonymous]

Okay curvy and skinny is both fine but if you want me to say that being fat or overly obese is also fine then you're having a problem.
We have our own opinion on everyone, shaming is something else but if i think you're fat, then you are fat to me.
I wouldn't tell you but it's still my opinion on your body, if i am asked for an opinion I'll be honest though and give you the answer you have to hear not that one you want to.
"Nonsense you're perfectly fine! You're not fat at all"
I'd rather die then to use one of these ridiculous lines.
This is actually making people who are obese not aware of their situation and make them think they're fine being a huge sack of fat, there are people who can't lose weight but that's about 10% the rest just doesn't have any will power.
I wish that everyone should at least have a healthy body.

[zombiebabe]

man.. i said curvy not morbid obese :/

[somebodysaycheese]

women are taught to compete with eachother the moment we come out the womb. We have new body standards every 10 to 20 years. Its hard to love yourself when our entire society is built off what women should change and not like. Women are basically taught to have body dysphora. Its sad but true.

[zombiebabe]

:( :( dat sad fact

[Luci92]

Awesome MyTake! A lot of this is what I want to say on the matter but couldn't translate my thoughts into words :P

Just interested, was this inspired by my take?
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28190-practicing-self-love-body-positivity

[zombiebabe]

yup ;)

[Luci92]

Hahaha good on you!!
Your Take made my Take shit itself lol

[thewanderingme]

I love how the top photo claims it's not a war, then segregates the women. it would have been much more effective if 1) it had referred to the larger women as fat instead of curvy, which has nothing to do with but shape. and 2) if it had mixed the women together, fat and skinny women side by side instead of putting the fatter women on the bottom.

[zombiebabe]

i tried looking for that type of pic you said... but it was either... all skinny women together or all fat/curvy women together :/

[Anonymous]

People are going to voice their opinion whether you agree with it or not.
It's better to grow a tougher skin and accept that not everyone will like you, (which is fine because they don't have to), instead of trying to control other people's opinions & preferences.

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[zombiebabe]

great

[xobrowneyedbeauty]

haha love the meme!

[Anonymous]

I will say this one more time cause women never seem to realize it. Women body shame other women WAY more than men. Unless you ACTUALLY are fat, I only see women doing it. Plus, where are the men in this? If you think men don't get skinny or fat shamed wake up.

[helloitsmethere]

This is so true... especially when I went to an all girls high school for a while... you have no idea how much that brought down my self confidence and self esteem SO MUCH that everytime someone compliments me I can't seem to either figure out if they are joking or they really mean it :/
Even though I am a girl myself, I am actually waiting on a myTake where they discuss self esteem issues on men also.

[Opinion Owner]

@helloitsmethere no one will because if they do they get so much hate from feminists and Far Leftists

[zombiebabe]

do you even know how being pointed out because of your look put you down? i have issues with how i look because of that

[Opinion Owner]

yes I do...

[Byakuyarko]

It's the morbidly obese people who need to be shamed... It's actually for their own good. Most people can be healthy and fit, even if a couple of kilos on the heavier side. What better way to motivate someone than gently remind them that deep down, everyone is very superficial and judgmental.

[zombiebabe]

yea many people are judgmental >:(

[Oram52]

No I would still go with my preference. Preference is not fat shaming. If I make specific negative comment regarding someone being overweight that'll be fat shaming. Me saying I wouldn't want my girlfriend to go fat, or I wouln't go out with someone who is overweight is not fat shaming, not to me.

No I would not go out with someone curvy or fat, BECAUSE my preference is SLIM. Sure I can go out with someone who is curvier. I can't and don't find anyone attractive who is overweight. If my dick doesn't get hard NOTHING I can do about it.

I am not shaming any woman. I am just stating my preference.

[popsickle]

No one is saying you did. She is referring to those who do...

[Oram52]

@popsickle I skimmed through her MyTake and the feeling I got was she is talking in general. So that's how I commented.

[popsickle]

Nah, shaming is more like going on rants that clearly are meant to make people feel bad. A harmless preference is just that, harmless.

[Oram52]

@popsickle Thanks for clarification. Yeah I would never make anyone deliberetly feel bad about their body or weight.

[zombiebabe]

great

[Anonymous]

Outward appearance can be deceiving. A person may have a short build and so may give the appearance of fatness, but when you check out the fat percentage, it's within normal range. So, I wouldn't put too much emphasis on outward appearances. The emphasis should be on maintaining a healthy body, and a healthy body is a beautiful and strong body.

[zombiebabe]

true

[Anonymous]

Amen to that! I recently lost 60 pounds and before that I was called fat by my relatives. I was 189 and now I weigh 129 and now everyone says that I am too skinny. Can't anyone be happy with me in whichever form I am? What should matter is how I feel on the inside, skinny or fat, if I feel good about myself that's all that should matter. So, whatever you've got, flaunt it!

[zombiebabe]

preach! i was skinny af with no "assets" and i wanted to put on some weight and some people say they prefer how i looked before >:( that's weird

[Opinion Owner]

People are so shallow and stupid!!! I am sure you look great just the way you are. Don't let people rain on your parade, flaunt what you've got and they can all go to hell. They're just jealous that you look more feminine and beautiful than they ever will!!!

[ManOnFire]

I think curvy women are fine and beautiful, and what I prefer. I don't even know why skinny women would be complaining about being shamed, it makes no sense to me. It's like a rich person crying about how hard it is to be rich. I personally would like to see more "plus size" women advertised and featured on TV and far less of the unrealistic thin women we all have forced down our throats.

[FallOutBoy2001]

I complain because it hurts to be asked "are you anorexic" "here, eat" "hey, skinny, eat a cheeseburger" because it indicates people have a problem with my body and find it ugly

[ManOnFire]

@FallOutBoy2001 It's unfortunate, but you have a lot of thicker girls being joked about being fat or that they break their beds and shake the ground when they walk.

[FallOutBoy2001]

Then we both have a problem.

[helloitsmethere]

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[helloitsmethere]

If you have to ever take a step into my shoes and live my life from seven years old to present... then you would know what we skinny women are talking about.

[FallOutBoy2001]

@helloitsmethere I literally pinned a chick to the wall that used the old "real men want curves, only dogs go for bones" and promptly told her if she ever refered to me boyfriend as a dog again, she could expect my fist in her face

[helloitsmethere]

@FallOutBoy2001 I absolutely HATE that saying. Different men have their different preferences and calling a man a 'dog' just because he likes a different body type is just downright rude and disrespectful...
Also, skinny shaming is JUST AS HARMFUL as fat shaming and people need to realize that. My self esteem was once so low and I was so insecure about my body that I actually used to overdose on iron pills every night to try and make myself gain weight...

[Nothanks700]

I think what you aren't considering is you are not the skinny girl. Just like many people simply have slow metabolisms, and have to be very mindful of what they eat, really skinny people just have very fast metabolisms. But for some reason, to be skinny is considered bad now. When people make negative comments about your body, even if most of society would find it attractive, that's not what you are thinkin. You are thinking: this person finds my body disgusting. That would hurt anyone's feelings. New rule: just don't comment on people's bodies period - it's just not your place, or any of your business.

[XOXOME16]

Unrealistic? People actually look like that. And a skinny girl can be curvy so clearly you misused that word. Also I don't know about you but people calling you a skinny bitch or anorexic or too skinny telling you to eat and when they see you eat they say things like "oh bet she'll puke that up later", is preeetty offensive but seen as ok. But OF COURSE if an overweight girl is called fat ass and told to lose weight, she's "perfect". You're such an ignorant guy. Idek why im wasting my time you

[Grungenoreos]

@ManOnFire believe it or not but I often get commented on how thin I am. People always think I diet a lot and often comment on how I am a twig with no ass who needs to gain weight because guys dont like sticks. But thing is curvy is a shape. It isn't a size. Plus I am healthy. I particpate in sports at my school and am an avid workout person... Whatever you want to call it. My 5'2 self also follows a dietary plan to consume 2,000 calories a day along with whatever I burn. Yet I am not curvy. So what the heck. I am so jealous of curvy but not fat women because they get all the guys. Here am I. A very healthy twig who hardly ever gets sick and eats a lot, yet I dont have what it takes to please someone with my hideous stick self

[ManOnFire]

People, people, people. Stop. As I said, it's unfortunate for skinny girls to get a bad rap, but at the end of the day it still doesn't come close to the unkind comments and abuse that "thicker" women have to deal with. And the skinny girls still get more glorified and advertised on TV and magazines. So I'm not saying your case is moot, but you really do not have as much to complain about or deal with. End of.

[Grungenoreos]

Actually I do. No guy ever finds my body type attractive. And actually curvy is starting to become a trend now. Many people are criticizing the modeling industry and now we have models of all different body types. Songs are being made to rejoice about thick women. Any romance novel I have read has a guy that loves his "curvy lover."

[Grungenoreos]

Yes the modeling industry and media praise skinny. But in the real world most people dont. In fact most people are trying to spread the word that curvy is sexy. Many men have said that yes skinny women are beautfiul but the curvy women are the ones that actually portray sex appeal.

[Grungenoreos]

Im the type of girl that guys reject for a hot piece of ass and big breasts. In fact in my school curvy is in. Actually it is trendy everywhere I have been too. I see all types of magazine articles about getting a bigger and better butt and trying to make your breasts bigger and etc

[ManOnFire]

@Grungenoreos Loving plus size has never been trendy and is nothing new. A lot of guys like "thicker" women, the difference is that it's news to our media to talk about. If you look around you'll notice that a lot of guys have "plus size" gfs and wives. It's pretty normal.

[GracefulCharm]

No there are multiple reasons for men liking women with big butts.

www.cosmopolitan.com/.../
elitedaily.com/.../

It's been like this for ages. Men have always preferred women with fine shaped round plump butts.

[Grungenoreos]

Thats what I was saying. It isn't news. But its news for the media. And im not blind. A bunch of guys date girls who aren't healthy. Id rather be healthy. I am not athlete. But exercise is good for the body and you can actually get a bigger butt with exercise. Lots of women do it. Id rather be thin and curvy then thick. Less chance of heart problems. My grandma was an hourglass since she was 14 and she is thin. She is 70 and still kicking it. She can do things most 70 year olds can't do and she passes for someone thats 55. No one would believe she was 70 unless she told them

[Nothanks700]

@GracefulCharm that's personal preference. Not all men like one thing. I'm not into "curvy" women, sorry just not. Plenty of guys are, so great, everybody has somebody that likes their body type.

[GracefulCharm]

@Nothanks700
Of course not all men are, but the majority are. My use of the term men was to generalize the majority.

[XOXOME16]

But you're literally wrong. Whats the difference between shaming a skinny girl and plus sized girl? You're literally saying calling someone fat is worse than saying someone has a eating disorder. You're ignorant. You're complaining that skinny girls are forced down your throats when you're shoving down our throats the "fact" that we don't have real problems. In general skinny girls are just audition more for things and more skinny girls become models than plus sized girls. Thats the main reason they're showed more. Maybe you should stop trying to bring down skinny girls just bc we eat right and work out and instead start encouraging plus sized girls to be more confident and out into the world since you like them so much

[Grungenoreos]

Lol i may be skinny but I hVe no shame in saying mg body type is far from ideal and lacks sexual appeal. And though it use news to the media that curvy is sexy, curvy as been ideal in lots of places for ages. Curvy isn't about being small or big, just having the right proportions, with a big butt and hips and boobs for your frame and height

[Lindajackie]

I agree with you

[BuchitaBuchys]

Of course you'd say shit like this. I hate how people say women divide each other, but it's mainly men who do it.

[dogbert444]

@FallOutBoy2001 There's absolutely nothing wrong with being skinny. The problem occurs from the psychological aspect of anyone BEING anorexic, not their resultant skinny size. You sound perfect to me size-wise!

[FallOutBoy2001]

@dogbert444 I might be, but what you said isn't completely true. It still hurts a lot to be called names and told to eat more, when I cannot control my weight. I've tried gaining weight (didn't work) so I'm kinda stuck where I am now

[dogbert444]

@FallOutBoy2001 You're fine! I know what people say can be very hurtful. I've been at the other end of the scale, literally! It's taken me nearly 2 years to get down to the weight I should be. Slowly, slowly, 1 pound a week, 2 at the very most. The big thing is that it is sustainable. I eat far less than I used to because I just don't need it.

I really don't know how it can be made to work the other way. I was told only weigh yourself once a week. Rubbish! I weighed myself every day first, thing in the morning. All you need is 1/2 ounce a day. Not much to put on, but it's nearly a 1/4lb a week. 1lb a month!

However, as long as you're healthy and happy in youself, that's all that matters. NOT what others think!

[FallOutBoy2001]

@dogbert444 thanks :) hope you keeps the weight off, I've heard it's hard to keep it off

[dogbert444]

@FallOutBoy2001 No, it's easy. That's why fad diets, and in fact, any diet regime does not work long term. You can't keep them up forever. That's why I stuck with small changes that I really didn't notice. You CAN keep that up forever. For example, "Lighter Than Light" mayo is about one tenth of the cals of ordinary mayo. No difference in taste, but a lot less cals. No noticeable change in eating, except a lot less cals!

[FallOutBoy2001]

@dogbert444 cool! I'll pass Thatb device along to my dad and my aunt. Both are trying to lose weight and keep the weight off.

[dogbert444]

@FallOutBoy2001 I just checked for someone else. Ordinary "Hellmans" mayo is 700 cals per 100 grams. "Lighter" mayo is 265 cals per 100 grams, and "Lighter-than-Light" is 70 cals per 100 grams.

Have a look at my opinion on:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2018914-i-am-obese-i-want-to-change-i-need-help-on-making-my-body-stronger

[DocHolliday904]

you have never seen the memes "bones are for dogs, real men like meat" or some other such nonsense?

[FallOutBoy2001]

@DocHolliday904 dude yeah of course I have

[helloitsmethere]

@FallOutBoy2001 No he is talking about the Opinion Owner

[FallOutBoy2001]

@helloitsmethere ooooooh