Positivity Post For All You Plus-Size Beauties: Tips and Advice

[Anonymous]

So I know that a lot of plus size people get a lot of hate, and deal with a lot of things. I'm here to give you some tips, and hopefully make you feel better about yourselves because you all are beautiful!

To all you plus sized beauties:

One:

Coconut oil is great for boob sweat; essential oils/deodorant for thigh chafing (be sure the oils at skin safe, don't forget to dilute them).

Two:

Crop tops? WEAR THAT.

Three:

Wanna ride your partners face? Do it. You won't hurt them or smother them I promise.

Four:

Afraid to have sex with the lights on? Darling, they knew what they signed up for, flaunt them stretch marks an tummy rolls!!! I guarantee you that your confidence will turn them on even more.

Five:

Double chin troubles? Search for contouring videos on YouTube.

Six:

Trouble with confidence? Walk with your shoulders back and your head high, I promise you it works

Seven:

Want a bikini bod? You can get one. All you need to do is get a bikini, and put it on your body! BAM!! bikini body! You're summer ready!

Eight:

Scared to eat in fear of judgement? Please eat, they're probably not paying you any attention and if they are? They need to mind their own fucking business. You're human and need to eat to function.

Nine:

Worried about if you could get away with wearing that? Well I'm telling you that you CAN!

And last but not least important, ALWAYS remember: YOU ARE SO LOVELY AND DESERVING OF LOVE from yourself and others!!!

[ManOnFire]

I love "plus size" women. Meat on the bones is sexy. I don't even get all the hate cuz most women are not skinny Hollywood idols, nor is it even healthy.

I have a plus size community I created on Google+ that flaunts their beauty. In fact two of the pictures you used in this Take are in that community, lol.

[Grungenoreos]

What about the girls that eat healthy and have junk food and are at a healthy weight but aren't very curvy? Like you have C breasts but ur ass... Is well not much to look at. And you get called too skinny because your hips are pretty narrow (again not completely square shaped but not curvy but somewhere in the middle). What is your opinion on them?

[Grungenoreos]

I am asking because you seem like a guy that knows his stuff

[ManOnFire]

@Grungenoreos Then they're just not curvy. There is still a difference. A woman can be plus size but still not be very curvy.

[Grungenoreos]

Even with C cup breasts and a perky but small butt?

[Grungenoreos]

Just say yes or no and ill leave it at that... I just rlly want to know so I can determine what exercises I can do pr any other life change to change this. So having medium breasts and a perky butt doesn't actually make u curvy? And what can i do to change that?

[ManOnFire]

@Grungenoreos My answer is to stop worry about it and just accept what you are.

[Grungenoreos]

So just accept that fact that no guy would find me sexually attractive? I can do that

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@Grungenoreos A guy will find you sexually attractive, don't worry about it. I'm not plus size, but I have DD boobs and a small ass, kind of like what you're describing. I'm more on the "apple" shaped side, but still a little bit of an hourglass, if that makes any sense. I'm not what society seems to think is great right now, but I get plenty of male attention. Bodies are different and so are people and what they like. I don't like some of the things other girls like in a guy, and vice versa. Besides, a guy worth loving will love you for more than just your body. Just enjoy your body and accept that you are beautiful just like every other girl.

[Gommers]

Fat is not meat, it's fat

[orphan]

fat isn't meat.

just saying.

[Grungenoreos]

@aWes0MeNeSs Thanks for that

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@Grungenoreos No problem!

[KittieCat]

Awesome take! I wish the uber thin modelish type wasn't the standard. There's so many different bodies and only a slim amount of women are like that naturally. I'm not trying to encourage an unhealthy lifestyle but there should be more variety in media

[RationalMale]

Do you have any body positive points for "plus size beauties" when they can't make it up a flight of stairs without gasping for breath? When they get passed by for physically fit, healthy weight women? When they are suffering joint problems, when they have respiratory problems related to weight? When their doctor warns them they are at drastically higher risk of diabetes and cancer and cardiovascular disease?

[AleDeEurope]

So much trouble when they could just lose weight and save themselves a struggle... and a stroke xD

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Honestly, as someone who used to carry a little bit of excess weight (although I can't say I was plus sized, just a little on the chunky side), I agree with this. It feels so much better to be back to my ideal weight than it did trying to camouflage my excess weight. I feel a lot more confident and better about myself, and I feel great physically. I developed a much healthier lifestyle as well and I've never felt better.
That isn't to say that girls can't feel good about themselves being plus sized, but for me personally, I am so glad I went ahead and lost the excess weight. I feel great now.

[Shorty1991]

You can't always associate strokes and heart attacks with being overweight. I knew a 22 year old guy who had a heart attack and died. He was slim.

[AleDeEurope]

@Shorty1991 I know, but being fat increases the chances of getting a stroke, that was my point.

[Anonymous]

Just because a girl is plus sized doesn't mean they are unhealthy. Thats just the way they are built. They are so many skinny people that are unhealthy and they are skinny. Just because you're skinny doesn't make you "healthy" or "fit". I'm a little overweight and I've gone to 3 doctors that actually went to medical school and earned their degree. They didn't use google, you tube, or society for their judgement. They have ALL told me I am healthy. No diseases, no health problems and no complications. Sure I could lose weight but they told me it's really not needed.

[LittleMissCuriousity]

I wish I could meet doctors like that! At my smallest I was 165 lbs, and showing signs of being underweight. But my doctors insisted that I needed to lose another forty pounds (according to my BMI).

[Bobba_Fett]

I have a confession to make.
I didn't read the take before I posted this. I just wanted to see the photos of hot women.

;) I call them 'Proper sized' women. Cause the only plus about them is they usually have the best personalities, the keenest senses of humor, and most loyalty.

Sorry if that was already covered in the post. I'ma go read it now.

[Fearless_banana]

Instead of going to these great lengths to disguise your embarrassing health issues why not spend that time in effort in the gym and lose the weight?

[Afrochick]

you probably use roids ahahha :*

[myTake Owner]

Lol I'm not overweight that's why I said "all you"

[Fearless_banana]

@Afrochick I'm pretty open about my use. I'm trying to get my procard.. you gatta do what you gotta do. Doesn't dismiss my hard work by any means though. Steroids just raise the ceiling of your genetic potential. I train two hours a day and eat about 5k calories a day of clean food + cardio lol. Either way my point still stands

[Afrochick]

I WAS RIGHT AHAH

[Fearless_banana]

@Afrochick Lmao well shit it's pretty obvious at this point. Uploaded new physique pics on my question yesterday. 230 lbs lean at 6"1 isn't usually natty ahaha

[Afrochick]

*creeps*

[Fearless_banana]

ayyyy

[bbch25]

I can see what you're saying but:
1. I am currently overweight and trying to lose it, but it's not overnight like your gain is not overnight, am I supposed to hate myself and stay indoors for the next 12-24 months until I am at a slim weight? No. I am allowed to love myself WHILE I lose it. And that's what she's going at. Nobody ever advocates to not try and be healthy (and if they do I disagree), just that, people who are bigger, are allowed to "exist" without people laughing at them on the street etc. (Which has happened to me, it's not nice).

Secondly, just because I am bigger doesn't mean I have health issues. Yes, I amictly healthy, it just has fat that I want to lose. But yeah, just thought I'd say that.

I don't disagree about people who imply being fat is healthy, but just that while people are on their journeys (you don't know if that person just lost 100kg), we don't hate on them, and they're allowed to feel beautiful at all ways of their journey (to themselves).

[bbch25]

Yes I am fat, but I am perfectly healthy*

[progboy]

@bbch25 That's absolutely spot on. Beautifully put.

[HoneyButterCup525]

Most people are saying fat is unhealthy, yes thats true but i like to say that we dont have the right to say they are fat or laugh at them, unfortanley fat people are mentally deperessed and eat when they dont want too.

Im not fat buy the way im really skinny.

[Oram52]

Don't wear crop tops if you're overweight (ie plus size). Its literally designed for slimmer girls, fits them perfectly. Fair enough you're being positive and all but why not encourage being healthy? Try to lose that weight, look in the mirror and be positive and happy.

Encouraging to remain overweight is not healthy or anything positive.

[carpe_natem]

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look at this plus sized girl in this crop top and tell me she ain't fine af and looking healthy

[Oram52]

@carpe_natem Believe me having seen plus sized wear crop tops in real life they don't look like this. Does she look good in pic ok, fine af no. Crop tops have specific function or look, and it only suits slimmer girls.

[Allie18]

Just because someone is plus size, doesn't mean they're overweight.

[Oram52]

@Allie18 That's the very definition of being overweight, clue is in "plus" sized.

[SupFunny]

🖕🖕🖕🖕

[Puppylove94]

@Allie18 lol they're the exact same thing

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

When I start seeing fat, male swimwear models, I'll start giving a fuck.

[Touchmehxx]

Oh hello again. With you and your sexist opinions. It's hardly the models fault that there's not as many fat male models

[myTake Owner]

@Touchmehxx ikr

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

What the fuck have my sexist opinions got to do with this? Loon.

[Cccgala]

Thank you for posting this. I could have not said it any better.

[Wade888]

I think you are right. I don't need a Hollywood Model.
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I need Chinese one!

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[somebodysaycheese]

Whats up with these men and their hate for fat women. And we act like fat girls makeup the hatred they get on a day to day basis.

[phil2]

I have stretch marks and tummy rolls and I am not too fat, every one has insecurities.

[Anonymous]

Your part of the problem if your encouraging women to be fat because it's already an obesity epidemic as it is. We should be shaming them not praising because its the only way it will motivate them to lose weight. It's unhealthy and unttractive to be fat full stop.

[myTake Owner]

I'm not encouraging people to be fat. I'm giving advice for those struggling with their weight. I'm spreading positivity. And It's not okay to shame people. You stop.

[Anonymous]

Does it make me a bad person that I lose my appetite when I see a fat person? I can't eat if I look at them. I'm not trying to be mean or funny and I'd never go and tell them anything negative. I do think many are beautiful but especially if there stomach is showing I get grossed out. I will not tell them to cover up, I'll just look away.

[SupFunny]

Yes It does

[aWes0MeNeSs]

No it doesn't. You can't help what grosses you out. The fact that you don't say anything to them and just look away shows that you're not a bad person. A bad person would taunt them about it.
When I was about 12, I was really grossed out by the sight of acne. I couldn't eat around someone with a lot of acne on their face. Now it doesn't bother me, but it really did back then. It's natural to be grossed out by things, and who knows? You may outgrow it like I did. Even if you don't, everyone has something like that they don't like and it's normal.

[LittleMissCuriousity]

Thank you! I feel like these are things I'm constantly reminding myself (and other plus size beauties), and it's nice to hear them from someone else!

[vonasaurus]

i love this~ not just for plus-sized women, but for all body types.

yes, some people are fat because they eat too much junk and don't work out. but the assumption that the above is true for all bigger women is incredibly ignorant.

[anonman32]

they should better do a mytake about confidence and penis sizes.

[myTake Owner]

I'm thinking I might do a take about confidence and penis sizes... Just for your sake & other men ofc

[anonman32]

well its not that i man not confident with my size, its just that there is this pressure on us that tells us that we are not manly if we dont have a large penis and that makes me feel inadequate sometimes.

[myTake Owner]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a29391-stop-dick-shaming

[anonman32]

did you write that right now?

[myTake Owner]

Yes. Lol.

[anonman32]

thats cool.

[Anonymous]

3: If you're overweight there's a chance you will. Physics don't care about feel-good nonsense.

4: One of my exes put on a lot of weight. We'd often have sex with the light off. One day we did it in the day time, and I saw everything. I couldn't keep it up, and we ended not long after that.

5: A better way of fixing a double chin is to lose weight through good diet and exercise.

8: Maybe eat something healthy and people will judge you less.

[SuitAndTie]

I love plus size women. I prefer girls with meat rather than skinny/slim bodies.

[BelleGirl21]

😥 cest la vie. But at least you're genuine about it.

[EllieLexis513]

This Take actually applies to all women, not just plus-sized ones, except maybe the double chin one. But I see what you mean.