Looks matter a lot more than women are willing to admit (Page 3)

[litty]

There are victims of burns, muscular disorders, and any other condition affecting the physical appearance. They found love. So why can't anyone without those handicaps also find it?

We live in a society of instant gratification. People can be picky all they want, but they shouldn't complain when their checklist is very high. They want people to look and act a certain way, and that can be a recipe for disaster because people don't change unless they want to change.

[TonightYouu]

Just be confident bro

Hey beautiful

SEXUAL HARASSMENT!

[myTake Owner]

Looks are subjective they say 😂

[TonightYouu]

Nobody loves to virtue signal more than women they say certain things because it makes them seem nice or a good person

[Mermaidess]

It is really personal preference, as a girl I want a guy I find good looking. Yes personality matters too. Similarly, if a guy rejects me because he doesn't like the way I look, it's his choice.

[michael00007]

Be yourself everything will follow.

[myTake Owner]

Looks are the first 50 you have to pass. The last 50 is personality

[PetiteBabe64]

People don’t Change - Therefor The honesty you Spoke won’t change the dishonesty people have in them and people don’t change so they won’t change just because you Spent your Valuable time to Write a genuine Post.

[myTake Owner]

Im not in what i say. But yeah people are still going to deny it even most people by their actions choose looks first

[PetiteBabe64]

But I would Agree Looks matter and is what Drives Sexual Attractiveness personality Plays in part too
But an ugly person with a Great personality Won’t Drive me to sleep with them. Has to be Attractive Physically for the personality to matter at all in terms of Relationship. If your Attractive but I don’t like your personality it won’t work.

[myTake Owner]

I understand that. But the main is that before anything else to work the person has to pass the looks barrier first. And most women aren't going to give an unattractive guy a chance. But god forbid you write this or say it then you get called an incel

[PetiteBabe64]

I don’t Think Your an Incel I Think Females are Rude to not Give you a chance everybody deserves a chance at a relationship. And nobody wants to be attracted to someone that doesn’t want them. Makes a Person feel pretty Crappy about themselves when you feel an attraction towards someone and when You express that Attraction you get told that that person doesn’t feel the same way. Best of Luck to you Mate and I Hope you Find someone you can call Your girlfriend and your Best friend.

[myTake Owner]

I given up on that a long time ago. But doesn't mean i can write a take about humsn behavior. But thanks anyway

[crossdressingrihno]

Physical attraction serves a very important purpose. It filters out the bad genetic so that the next generation is healthier and happier than the last. Doesn’t make much sense to cry about it in the end because we all chose to play the same game.

[myTake Owner]

I never said men should cry or complain about it. This take was written more so for calling out women on how much they lie about it

[crossdressingrihno]

Didn’t say you said that I was just voicing my opinion

[serious]

Of course looks matters. Surely. However, different people give various levels of importance to it.

Some people give more or extreme importance to it and for some it does not really matter.

[LazerBean]

Of course looks matter. I want someone I can wake up to and not have a jump scare. And I want someone who won't likely pass on ugly or fat genes to my kids.

[Messiking]

So now I know why my girlfriend don't want doing sex with me XD

[MzAsh]

Yes looks matter. You can be rich, masculine, and hit gym daily but if a woman isn’t physically attracted to you, it’s not going to happen.

[myTake Owner]

Exactly. Your looks are the first thing that have to pass

[Anonymous]

It best to hit on every girl you see, and are attracted to. If your less attractive you have to hit on more.. Man up, who cares about rejection, once you find that dream girl who loves you as a dream guy, you will glad you hit on every girl until you did...

[Opinion Owner]

Also, if thats your photo you need a sharp well groomed haircut, wear a dress shirt. You would attract females like a magnate. Appear like your going some where big in life, and find a girl in a group, event. Church, travel. On meetup, that shares the same vision..

[Anonymous]

For getting dates, looks is the only thing that matters. But if your personality can't match then it will not stay for long. But a good looking guy can get countless women to compensate that. I have always seen good looking but terrible kind of guys with women , they all know that those guys are bad. But even average to ugly girls don't wanna date shy reserved , nerdy type guys who aren't that good looking.

[normalice]

Women happily admit looks matter. They simply reject the idea that looks are all that matters.

[Haha456]

because reality is that looks ARE all that matters to men. when was the last time a man dated an older woman because she had a good personality?

[myTake Owner]

You're right Haha. You're right and everyone else is wrong

[normalice]

"Everyone else" doesn't disagree with me, lol. Don't try to imagine the whole world has your back when the best you can muster is a handful of internet trolls and a youtuber 😅

[myTake Owner]

Just go with it man. She's right

[normalice]

I eas basically agreeing with her, lol.

[myTake Owner]

People didn't read my take apparently

[wittymilf]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you may think is ugly I may think is attractive AF

[myTake Owner]

Generalities> exceptions mam. If i want to be successful i should base off generalities because it will raise the chances of success. I can't be a fat guy with a neckbeard and say "well hey looks are subjective and i can be fat and a girl will be attracted to me". You will fail 99% of the time with this belief

[Anonymous]

Oh looks totally matter more then women say. For sure! The dude on the left could flirt with a woman no issues. If the guy on the right was to use the exact same verb-age, technique, what have you. He would be viewed as a “creep”.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

exactly!

always say that if personality really matter to women more than looks then Robin Williams, Charlie Chaplin and The Three Stooges would be sex symbols instead of Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise and George Clooney

[Amarasimmons7]

Depends on the guy. If the guy isn't very physically attractive but has a nice personality and is nice, many women will fall in love with the guy. But yeah, it just depends.

[myTake Owner]

Without physically attraction first, most women ain't giving him a chance. That's most important part at first

[Amarasimmons7]

Well, that's human nature.

[myTake Owner]

I know. And there's nothing wrong with it but a lot of women lie though and say that a guys personality is the reason no women like them. It just seems disingenuous

[Amarasimmons7]

I mean, I'm a girl and I don't think that I've ever done that, but yeah I wouldn't doubt that that happens.

[vapido]

You had me until you wrote "nice personality and is nice". If you ask any guy who isn't attractive but has a "nice personality and is nice" how many women have fallen in love with them, I'm willing to bet the number is not something you could legitimately describe as "many".

[KlinkyCoder]

It's not helping that people interact less face-to-face in general.

I don't see it as a matter of men and women being shallow or wanting to be about looks as much as a double standard of what is socially acceptable to publicly say.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Does it matter? men care about looks far more than women but will accept what ever they can get.

[Jdjfjcjj]

In the end, all that really matters is character. I'll take a below average woman with great character traits versus the hottest woman who is damaged (for marriage to be specific. Not dating :) )

[TroyDT2]

There are women who really do not care much as long as you are neat and clean. Sloppy and especially a negative attitude are not attractive.

[myTake Owner]

Yeah but they're in the minority. Most women do care

[TroyDT2]

Perhaps, but if a guy sees 100 women in a day, even if only 5 do not really care, that is 5 potential mates rather than the zero that many average or below average looking guys will meet sitting at home depressed about not looking like a male model.

[myTake Owner]

I doubt hed get one interested

[strateguy632]

despite they are only attracted to looks they should use mind to be less shallow.

[Anonymous]

looks do matter to me. im not keeping that a secret, but he doesn't have to be 6 ft with abs either.. and i dont treat someone differently merely because im not attracted to them.

[myTake Owner]

There's always an exception to everything

[Opinion Owner]

gotta be honest I don't know what you're referring to

[myTake Owner]

That women in general are attracted to men in shape with abs and muscles