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Looks matter a lot more than women are willing to admit (Page 3)
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Just be confident bro
Hey beautiful
SEXUAL HARASSMENT!
Looks are subjective they say 😂
Nobody loves to virtue signal more than women they say certain things because it makes them seem nice or a good person
It is really personal preference, as a girl I want a guy I find good looking. Yes personality matters too. Similarly, if a guy rejects me because he doesn't like the way I look, it's his choice.
Be yourself everything will follow.
Looks are the first 50 you have to pass. The last 50 is personality
People don’t Change - Therefor The honesty you Spoke won’t change the dishonesty people have in them and people don’t change so they won’t change just because you Spent your Valuable time to Write a genuine Post.
Im not in what i say. But yeah people are still going to deny it even most people by their actions choose looks first
But I would Agree Looks matter and is what Drives Sexual Attractiveness personality Plays in part too
But an ugly person with a Great personality Won’t Drive me to sleep with them. Has to be Attractive Physically for the personality to matter at all in terms of Relationship. If your Attractive but I don’t like your personality it won’t work.
I understand that. But the main is that before anything else to work the person has to pass the looks barrier first. And most women aren't going to give an unattractive guy a chance. But god forbid you write this or say it then you get called an incel
I don’t Think Your an Incel I Think Females are Rude to not Give you a chance everybody deserves a chance at a relationship. And nobody wants to be attracted to someone that doesn’t want them. Makes a Person feel pretty Crappy about themselves when you feel an attraction towards someone and when You express that Attraction you get told that that person doesn’t feel the same way. Best of Luck to you Mate and I Hope you Find someone you can call Your girlfriend and your Best friend.
I given up on that a long time ago. But doesn't mean i can write a take about humsn behavior. But thanks anyway
Physical attraction serves a very important purpose. It filters out the bad genetic so that the next generation is healthier and happier than the last. Doesn’t make much sense to cry about it in the end because we all chose to play the same game.
I never said men should cry or complain about it. This take was written more so for calling out women on how much they lie about it
Didn’t say you said that I was just voicing my opinion
Of course looks matters. Surely. However, different people give various levels of importance to it.
Some people give more or extreme importance to it and for some it does not really matter.
Of course looks matter. I want someone I can wake up to and not have a jump scare. And I want someone who won't likely pass on ugly or fat genes to my kids.
So now I know why my girlfriend don't want doing sex with me XD
Yes looks matter. You can be rich, masculine, and hit gym daily but if a woman isn’t physically attracted to you, it’s not going to happen.
Exactly. Your looks are the first thing that have to pass
Looks matter wayy more to men than to women. so if you're complaining that women care too much about looks, men care even more about womens looks. why do you think so many women go on crazy diets, plastic surgery, makeup, fashion?
I think if a guy or a man just puts on some good cologne, works out, has a good BMI, a hair cut that suits him, dresses what suits him, has confidence, can be chill/easy going, can control his ego, takes school/and or work seriously. Many women will be attracted to that, even if the dude is 5/10 in the looks department. A guy can be 5/10 in looks but 10/10 for his heart and I think a young woman and women in general will gravitate towards that. I do agree, guys and men care more about looks more. I don't want a girl getting breast implants or tons of surgery to make herself sexier for others.
@pass_the_celery98
Women tend to be less shallow than men. Women are more flexible with what they find attractive. An ugly man can still get women if he is funny and has an attractive personality. An ugly woman won't be able to get a guy regardless of how funny she is. Generally if you can give women a good time or be able to make her laugh, you can still get a woman regardless of how you look or how much money you make.
Women care more about how a man makes her feel. Men care more about how good she makes his dick feel
@haha456 If that's completely true, then why do a lot of men say differently?
Looks matter wayy more to men than women? That's definitely not true
@KlinkyCoder
many of these guys here know men value looks more than women. they're just too cowardly to admit it.
@mytakeowner
its common knowledge.
That's something we're going to have to disagree on
men are more visually stimulated. go do some research on google
They're more visual but not in the way most women think
Men are significantly more visual than women
Yes but again not in the way women think
haha riighhhhhht. until you take a look at how vast majority of men want a woman 10-30 years younger than them.
Men will say that shit but a lot of men will fuck older women. I can explain what "men are visual" actually means
men on here won't even date a woman over 30.
Men will say shit out of spite they don't mean. Stop being insecure
how do you know that? apparently GAG has been touting around that women expire at 30 for years.
It's just dudes that are hurt saying that. But in practice, a lot of men will get with a 30 year old woman. Especially younger men
men prefer younger women, men never prefer older women. thats a fact.
Eh until you actually put a 30 year old woman in front of them thats decent looking and submissive
put a 30 yr old woman who looks 40, nobody would want to date her.
you can't help but agree with me which was why you stayed silent
Are you sure about that? You really don't know the kind of power women have over men even at 40 lol
maybe if you can show some proof most men date older women, then you would have some legitimacy
I said a lot, i didn't say most men. The easiest proof is go on Twitter and put i would date an older woman in the search bar and watch the results
@mytakeowner
Guys on here just say things whenever it suits them. One moment they're talking shit about older women. Then later on they are complaining about how women are so shallow. Then guys say they always wanted to date older women but they're just talking shit cuz they're bitter about getting rejected.
its time to quit the lies. you're more shallow than women.
If it helps you sleep better at night believing your own lies, sure
I'm pretty sure you know what the facts are. Don't complain how girls are soooo shallow if you're even more shallow than them.
Women are pickier about men's looks and everything else. But im not gonna bitch and complain that waaaah women are shallow 😭. It is what it is. That's life
@mytakeowner
go say that on a website where men only date women in their 20s.
Goodbye maam
Because women want to be attractive the most attractive prospect, aka the 10% of men. A woman would never bother herself to look decent for men of lower average physical build. They see average men as beneath them.
You can't expect me to believe you would go out of your way to try to look your best for a man you aren't attracted to.
It best to hit on every girl you see, and are attracted to. If your less attractive you have to hit on more.. Man up, who cares about rejection, once you find that dream girl who loves you as a dream guy, you will glad you hit on every girl until you did...
Also, if thats your photo you need a sharp well groomed haircut, wear a dress shirt. You would attract females like a magnate. Appear like your going some where big in life, and find a girl in a group, event. Church, travel. On meetup, that shares the same vision..
For getting dates, looks is the only thing that matters. But if your personality can't match then it will not stay for long. But a good looking guy can get countless women to compensate that. I have always seen good looking but terrible kind of guys with women , they all know that those guys are bad. But even average to ugly girls don't wanna date shy reserved , nerdy type guys who aren't that good looking.
Women happily admit looks matter. They simply reject the idea that looks are all that matters.
because reality is that looks ARE all that matters to men. when was the last time a man dated an older woman because she had a good personality?
You're right Haha. You're right and everyone else is wrong
"Everyone else" doesn't disagree with me, lol. Don't try to imagine the whole world has your back when the best you can muster is a handful of internet trolls and a youtuber 😅
Just go with it man. She's right
I eas basically agreeing with her, lol.
People didn't read my take apparently
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you may think is ugly I may think is attractive AF
Generalities> exceptions mam. If i want to be successful i should base off generalities because it will raise the chances of success. I can't be a fat guy with a neckbeard and say "well hey looks are subjective and i can be fat and a girl will be attracted to me". You will fail 99% of the time with this belief
Oh looks totally matter more then women say. For sure! The dude on the left could flirt with a woman no issues. If the guy on the right was to use the exact same verb-age, technique, what have you. He would be viewed as a “creep”.
exactly!
always say that if personality really matter to women more than looks then Robin Williams, Charlie Chaplin and The Three Stooges would be sex symbols instead of Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise and George Clooney
Depends on the guy. If the guy isn't very physically attractive but has a nice personality and is nice, many women will fall in love with the guy. But yeah, it just depends.
Without physically attraction first, most women ain't giving him a chance. That's most important part at first
Well, that's human nature.
I know. And there's nothing wrong with it but a lot of women lie though and say that a guys personality is the reason no women like them. It just seems disingenuous
I mean, I'm a girl and I don't think that I've ever done that, but yeah I wouldn't doubt that that happens.
You had me until you wrote "nice personality and is nice". If you ask any guy who isn't attractive but has a "nice personality and is nice" how many women have fallen in love with them, I'm willing to bet the number is not something you could legitimately describe as "many".
It's not helping that people interact less face-to-face in general.
I don't see it as a matter of men and women being shallow or wanting to be about looks as much as a double standard of what is socially acceptable to publicly say.
Does it matter? men care about looks far more than women but will accept what ever they can get.
In the end, all that really matters is character. I'll take a below average woman with great character traits versus the hottest woman who is damaged (for marriage to be specific. Not dating :) )
There are women who really do not care much as long as you are neat and clean. Sloppy and especially a negative attitude are not attractive.
Yeah but they're in the minority. Most women do care
Perhaps, but if a guy sees 100 women in a day, even if only 5 do not really care, that is 5 potential mates rather than the zero that many average or below average looking guys will meet sitting at home depressed about not looking like a male model.
I doubt hed get one interested
despite they are only attracted to looks they should use mind to be less shallow.
looks do matter to me. im not keeping that a secret, but he doesn't have to be 6 ft with abs either.. and i dont treat someone differently merely because im not attracted to them.
There's always an exception to everything
gotta be honest I don't know what you're referring to
That women in general are attracted to men in shape with abs and muscles