Now keep in mind i never said that women say looks don't matter at all because women will say they do matter. But a lot of men feel like they matter more than women are willing to say and personal experiences tell these men otherwise. For most women without physical attractiveness and good looks, most women (Not including the exceptions) aren't going to want to get to know you if you dont pass the basis of the physical attraction barrier first. So all the other traits aren't going to matter and at this point are obsolete. And i already know people are going to call me an incel and other typovsl names but come on, most humans intrinsically do this. Hell even men do this. But when someone actually says it out loud, now all of a sudden looks don't matter as much or aren't very important.
Let's be real looks are very important. That's the first thing you see and your attraction until you sit down to talk to the other person is solely based on physical attractiveness. And that's fine and completely normal. It's human nature and humans shouldn't be judged for doing this. But the dishonesty and being politically incorrect about it and always mentioning personality is a little annoying. If personality attracts women as many claim, then well men shouldn't have to work out or get in shape because in the end personality will attract them right? And this is going to raise eyebrows, but a group of people that i do agree with when it comes to this topic are incels.
Now HEAR ME OUT! just because i agree with them on the importance of looks doesn't mean I'm anti women nor do i condone homicidal behavior by certain individuals that label themselves as incels and then go and do something horrific shit to innocent people. I also dont agree with everything they talk about and believe in and would challenge some of those views. I just think critically about things that are said and then apply to real life and see if it has any validity. And on the topic of looks incels do have a point.
Looks are very important not only to society but human nature. And obviously I'm not saying personality matters because it does but only after you broke the barrier in the looks & physical attraction part. But if you pass that then congrats my friend because now all your other qualities (Personality, confidence, social skill etc) can shine and it will make you an even more attractive person after succeeding in the first step.
This is how most relationships starts and you shouldn't complain or cry "Women are shallow š" "Women only want good looking guys" Stop that nonsense. You can't blame people for something that's ingrained in human beings and has literally been a part of humanity for thousands and thousands of years. But i needed to write this because there's too much dishonesty about the importance of looks. That's all there is to read. ā
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