There's been numerous studies to prove that men like to look at women who would be good suitors to carry their offspring, it's one of the strongest bases when it comes to physical attraction. He doesn't even completely understand why he has a sexual attraction to women of this age, it's just in his nature. Men are just built that way.
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Why? I couldn't say. What I can say is that its very normal for a guy of any age to enjoy looking at pictures of young girls. Blame it on physiology, culture, society, or whatever you want, but I don't think it will go away any time soon.
It is not normal to let your wife catch you...he should work on that...
Omg, I just realized that I phrased my original answer in a very creepy way. Let me elaborate: by "young girls" I mean girls between 18 and 25...wow...I apologize.
If he's anything like me it's because he's wishing he could go back in time and have more varied sexual experiences with young girls, because, let's face it, there's a freshness there that's irreplaceable. He probably loves sex with you, but guys are greedy and we wish that everyone in the world we're sexually attracted to could be our bedroom plaything.
Accept the fact that healthy, sexually active men are designed by natural selection to be sexually excited by females whom they identify as healthy, sexually mature and receptive.
To expect a man not to avail himself of a ready source of sexual excitement, particularly one that doesn't involve undesireable physical or emotional involvement, is like expecting a tiger not to hunt or a fish not to swim.
They're at their most fertile- actually, a woman is most fertile at approximately 16-22, most easily able to become pregnant. A man is able to impregnate a woman best at that age. That's really what they're looking for- fertility. A woman, on the other hand, is often looking for a provider. Therefore they look for someone strong enough to survive to older age- thus why there are more older men/younger women relationships than vice versa. It's biological.
neverland sysndrom. we wish we wish apond a star that we were sometimes singal and stupid once again. if that doesn't explain it I don't think anything will. if you don't get it we guys men what ever you want to call us by now "do not grow up!" we are still the 18 year olds many years ago with older run down bodies and smart brains.
wow that's f***ed up. I'd say midlife crisis. On the other hand, you have to understand that the term cougar is around for a reason too. Both genders do the same things...not sure why. Maybe they wish they could have gotten it in a little bit more than they did before they got married? lol
That's just the way most men are when they get older like 50's 60's some start liking girls who are pretty young like in their 20's
My sister is going out with this guys who is so ugly and so old. Its f***ing nasty she's 23 and his f***ing like 57 ! And he stayed after her and he divorced his wife for her. And now they are planing on geting married in april/2010
Is this a serious question? Why does a man like to look at young beautiful women and imagine hvaing sex with them? I think the answer is self-evident. It has nothing at all to do with his feelings for you. The idea that people are only supposed to be attracted to their mates is some sort of religio-societal myth that is just flat-out wrong.
So you are saying when you are in your 50's and have children and your wife is on the web looking at boys your son's age and constantly doing it, that it would not destroy your man-hood? Wouldn't you feel like you could not satify your wife completely in bed if she is constantly looking at young men 30 years younger than you? Come on guys... thing about this. Would you not wonder why she desires the young men compared to your weezly member?
Wouldn't bother me at all. They certainly look better than me and if she wants to fantacize about them, why should it bother me? Are you confusing love with sex?
Because sadly, there is nothing like a ferm fresh young female body. You may be pretty at your age but its a common thing for an older man to lust for these this. That's what he wants. It makes him horny. Weather he has the heart or the guts to leave you for one of those? you would know better than me. Join him it might really turn him on...
Because even a plain 18 year old is better than an beautiful 50 year old. I was at the store once and saw some old dude buying a porno mag with a bunch of college girls in it and it freaked me out to think this guy was lusting after the women I hook up with. Then I realized if I were in his position I'd probably want the same thing, it must suck to get old. Poor dude, fap on sir. Fap on! I salute you!
You're an idiot. Cristy Brinkley is in her 50's and is gorgeous!. Halle Berry is in her early 40's and is smoking. You've got Courtney Cox, Angelina Jolie, and tons of women just like her that are older and still rockin it. Its just dumb to say that young and plain is better than older and attractive.
It's not dumb at all, just a difference of opinion--oh but wait, other people aren't entitled to those in YOUR universe eh? If you like older women then by all means enjoy them, but don't expect everyone else in the world to automatically agree with you.
Don't forget Salma Hayek! Wow she's beautiful... and she's like in her mid 40's and is probably one of the most gorgeous women I've ever seen... even at that age compared to women much younger!
Older ladies just have to ask, there are tons of guys more than happy to hook up with them. That dude is screwed though....I've never heard of a 'DILF' lol
It's funny because it's true, but hey if I hurt your feelings feel free to down vote Does not change the fact that I am right. YEAH BRING ON THE FLAMERS!
u need to stop him, that's perverted, show him ur grossed out sis, no woman would want to see her man like that, I mean make sure what he sees turns him on indeed and he's not just looking innocently, if you have kids he should be ashamed at himself, it has nothing to do with you sis, its just him, try to show him that's wrong or get someone to tell him that, don't be too late that he gets used to it
That wasn't a "No." It's Ok. There isn't a "closet" for Mormons; though I think Christians wished there were. You don't have to feel s self-conscious about that. Many Mormons seem a little off centered when it comes to social norms and discussions. You guys just take some getting used to...like toy dogs; you grow on a person. >snickersnicker<
Guy, sorry for breaking it for you, but I'm not a mormon, I just thought you said "u love being a moron" and replied fast, my bad. so anyways, I don't need to be a religious freak to get annoyed hearing a father of children or more is watching porn at that age, shame on him.
The reason he's looking is simple, no matter how hot of a wife you hav,e no matter how smart etc. There will always be some random boob from the internet hanging around I'm sorry, but that's the way off life, new things are more interesting than old, but you always go back to the old things
Hey I'm 17 and I got year answer sort of say right here... Hez a guy lady! :D every guy is a boy even if hez 90 he would continue to chase his temptation for the young chicks... Because that is what guys do... all guys... even my dad too :) no kidding
I actually discussed this with a girlfriend of mine once. Young guys are into older women usually because they like to feel young at the core of it. Older guys are into younger women because they want to feel young again.
Seriously? Wow. Um, it's because girls that are young and fertile are supremely attractive and gets his blood pumping. It's that simple. Just because a guy gets older doesn't mean attractive women stop being attractive.
This is just stuff that guys do. I'm sure he isn't planning to have an affair or run off with someome else, and I'm sure he dsnt look at it because he liks the look of them beta then u. Most men do ths, some however dnt.
Priciple still stands. Everything sags, skin loses it sheen and picks up crow's feet, stress and other health damagers all build up by the age of 25.
Some girls are far far more unlucky. Some look haggered by 21 on my course, even though you know they are still young. Others get lucky till their 30s.
Look, males are visual creatures. If the girl makes him hard, then it's good to go. And those girls tend to be 16-25. PS He isn't looking at anything illegal or extremely fetishy (I presume).
There aren't many sites that have photos of 50+ year old women, that's one reason. Men are visual. We like looking at pretty women, plain and simple. It has nothing to do with you.
Even the most faithful man (I am) appreciates a beautiful women as art. He is probably thinking: "How lovely she is", translated: "Yummy!" but that does not mean he is fantasizing bedding her.
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There's been numerous studies to prove that men like to look at women who would be good suitors to carry their offspring, it's one of the strongest bases when it comes to physical attraction. He doesn't even completely understand why he has a sexual attraction to women of this age, it's just in his nature. Men are just built that way.
Why? I couldn't say. What I can say is that its very normal for a guy of any age to enjoy looking at pictures of young girls. Blame it on physiology, culture, society, or whatever you want, but I don't think it will go away any time soon.
It is not normal to let your wife catch you...he should work on that...
Lmao
Omg, I just realized that I phrased my original answer in a very creepy way. Let me elaborate: by "young girls" I mean girls between 18 and 25...wow...I apologize.
If he's anything like me it's because he's wishing he could go back in time and have more varied sexual experiences with young girls, because, let's face it, there's a freshness there that's irreplaceable. He probably loves sex with you, but guys are greedy and we wish that everyone in the world we're sexually attracted to could be our bedroom plaything.
Accept the fact that healthy, sexually active men are designed by natural selection to be sexually excited by females whom they identify as healthy, sexually mature and receptive.
To expect a man not to avail himself of a ready source of sexual excitement, particularly one that doesn't involve undesireable physical or emotional involvement, is like expecting a tiger not to hunt or a fish not to swim.
They're at their most fertile- actually, a woman is most fertile at approximately 16-22, most easily able to become pregnant. A man is able to impregnate a woman best at that age. That's really what they're looking for- fertility. A woman, on the other hand, is often looking for a provider. Therefore they look for someone strong enough to survive to older age- thus why there are more older men/younger women relationships than vice versa. It's biological.
neverland sysndrom. we wish we wish apond a star that we were sometimes singal and stupid once again. if that doesn't explain it I don't think anything will. if you don't get it we guys men what ever you want to call us by now "do not grow up!" we are still the 18 year olds many years ago with older run down bodies and smart brains.
wow that's f***ed up. I'd say midlife crisis. On the other hand, you have to understand that the term cougar is around for a reason too. Both genders do the same things...not sure why. Maybe they wish they could have gotten it in a little bit more than they did before they got married? lol
Ya I like dis dudes answer
That's just the way most men are when they get older like 50's 60's some start liking girls who are pretty young like in their 20's
My sister is going out with this guys who is so ugly and so old. Its f***ing nasty she's 23 and his f***ing like 57 ! And he stayed after her and he divorced his wife for her. And now they are planing on geting married in april/2010
:( how sad.
Whao!!! She's 23!?! and He's 57?!!!! That dude is the MAN!!!!! LMFAO!!!!
Thanks for sharing this story, I totally love it and I'm 24.
No prob, why you love it so much? lol
She is your sister you re not supposed to Bash her.
if you think its wrong then talk to her about it, maybe she is just seeking wealth! let her be
Is this a serious question? Why does a man like to look at young beautiful women and imagine hvaing sex with them? I think the answer is self-evident. It has nothing at all to do with his feelings for you. The idea that people are only supposed to be attracted to their mates is some sort of religio-societal myth that is just flat-out wrong.
So you are saying when you are in your 50's and have children and your wife is on the web looking at boys your son's age and constantly doing it, that it would not destroy your man-hood? Wouldn't you feel like you could not satify your wife completely in bed if she is constantly looking at young men 30 years younger than you? Come on guys... thing about this. Would you not wonder why she desires the young men compared to your weezly member?
Wouldn't bother me at all. They certainly look better than me and if she wants to fantacize about them, why should it bother me? Are you confusing love with sex?
same reason we wives look at young hot hung men and imagine sex with them! and sometimes when we are with you :)
Because sadly, there is nothing like a ferm fresh young female body. You may be pretty at your age but its a common thing for an older man to lust for these this. That's what he wants. It makes him horny. Weather he has the heart or the guts to leave you for one of those? you would know better than me. Join him it might really turn him on...
Because even a plain 18 year old is better than an beautiful 50 year old. I was at the store once and saw some old dude buying a porno mag with a bunch of college girls in it and it freaked me out to think this guy was lusting after the women I hook up with. Then I realized if I were in his position I'd probably want the same thing, it must suck to get old. Poor dude, fap on sir. Fap on! I salute you!
You're an idiot. Cristy Brinkley is in her 50's and is gorgeous!. Halle Berry is in her early 40's and is smoking. You've got Courtney Cox, Angelina Jolie, and tons of women just like her that are older and still rockin it. Its just dumb to say that young and plain is better than older and attractive.
It's not dumb at all, just a difference of opinion--oh but wait, other people aren't entitled to those in YOUR universe eh? If you like older women then by all means enjoy them, but don't expect everyone else in the world to automatically agree with you.
Don't forget Salma Hayek! Wow she's beautiful... and she's like in her mid 40's and is probably one of the most gorgeous women I've ever seen... even at that age compared to women much younger!
I just googled Salma Hayek. Beautiful indeed and better than a 18 year old. Courtney Cox and Cristy Brinkley too. So are many others.
Poor ladies too, it's not like an older woman wouldn't want a sexy younger man. Rock on Demi Moore.
Excuse me, what the HELL is Fap On?
Older ladies just have to ask, there are tons of guys more than happy to hook up with them. That dude is screwed though....I've never heard of a 'DILF' lol
You're right, there isn't a such thing as a "DILF" hahaha, that's a great point! Hilarious :)
It's funny because it's true, but hey if I hurt your feelings feel free to down vote Does not change the fact that I am right. YEAH BRING ON THE FLAMERS!
u need to stop him, that's perverted, show him ur grossed out sis, no woman would want to see her man like that, I mean make sure what he sees turns him on indeed and he's not just looking innocently, if you have kids he should be ashamed at himself, it has nothing to do with you sis, its just him, try to show him that's wrong or get someone to tell him that, don't be too late that he gets used to it
You LIKE being a Mormon don't you?
I have a strong feeling that you watch pr0n with your own kids, don't know why.
That wasn't a "No." It's Ok. There isn't a "closet" for Mormons; though I think Christians wished there were. You don't have to feel s self-conscious about that. Many Mormons seem a little off centered when it comes to social norms and discussions. You guys just take some getting used to...like toy dogs; you grow on a person. >snickersnicker<
Guy, sorry for breaking it for you, but I'm not a mormon, I just thought you said "u love being a moron" and replied fast, my bad. so anyways, I don't need to be a religious freak to get annoyed hearing a father of children or more is watching porn at that age, shame on him.
The reason he's looking is simple, no matter how hot of a wife you hav,e no matter how smart etc. There will always be some random boob from the internet hanging around I'm sorry, but that's the way off life, new things are more interesting than old, but you always go back to the old things
Hey I'm 17 and I got year answer sort of say right here... Hez a guy lady! :D every guy is a boy even if hez 90 he would continue to chase his temptation for the young chicks... Because that is what guys do... all guys... even my dad too :) no kidding
I actually discussed this with a girlfriend of mine once. Young guys are into older women usually because they like to feel young at the core of it. Older guys are into younger women because they want to feel young again.
Seriously? Wow. Um, it's because girls that are young and fertile are supremely attractive and gets his blood pumping. It's that simple. Just because a guy gets older doesn't mean attractive women stop being attractive.
and a women get older she wants a young hot stallion!
This is just stuff that guys do. I'm sure he isn't planning to have an affair or run off with someome else, and I'm sure he dsnt look at it because he liks the look of them beta then u. Most men do ths, some however dnt.
He's being male. Women are in their sexual prime at 16-25, so it's natural that we find them most attractive at that age. Don't be offended.
Actually, women reach their sexual prime in their 30's.
That's feminist propaganda.
It makes zero sense for a woman to be in her 'prime' when her fertility starts to fail (at some point between 24-30)
It's sexual prime not childbirthing prime.
Priciple still stands. Everything sags, skin loses it sheen and picks up crow's feet, stress and other health damagers all build up by the age of 25.
Some girls are far far more unlucky. Some look haggered by 21 on my course, even though you know they are still young. Others get lucky till their 30s.
Look, males are visual creatures. If the girl makes him hard, then it's good to go. And those girls tend to be 16-25. PS He isn't looking at anything illegal or extremely fetishy (I presume).
I seem to remember that the factor that peaks in the 30s is a woman's sexual _drive_.
It can be higher, but that's to do with the incoming shutdown of their biological clock. Plus they are more experienced and comfortable with sex.
Men will still prefer young women (on the whole)
In thier 30's, Not 16-25!!!
There aren't many sites that have photos of 50+ year old women, that's one reason. Men are visual. We like looking at pretty women, plain and simple. It has nothing to do with you.
Even the most faithful man (I am) appreciates a beautiful women as art. He is probably thinking: "How lovely she is", translated: "Yummy!" but that does not mean he is fantasizing bedding her.