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Be your unique self! Don't try to keep all that hair shaved! Listen don, unfortunately you happen to be living at a time when shaving everything is in in American culture and there will be some shallow women who say unkind things about your hairy body. Forget them. You want the woman who is going to see your hair as masculine and sexy and a contrast to her femininity. Have confidence. Don't ever be apologetic for your hair. Own it! Smell good, be romantic, and tell her you're her strong hairy bear that's going to protect her. Keep your eyes on her. Brush your hand against her hand or arm. Learn how to be a good kisser. Make a connection and let her mind warm up to how hairy you are. If you're younger, like 20s, you can't just bare your body to her all at once and too soon. if not before, by 30s you will find a woman who finds you incredibly sexy. Until then, work on being romantic or rough, loving and sensual, whatever is your thing but own it and be confident but not arrogant. Good luck! And if you haven't figured it out already, I think you're very sexy and masculine with the hair.
Don, thanks for the mho. I haven't seen you around. Thought you left. Are you letting your hair grow back? That's going to be itchy miserable. I'd like to know how long it takes. :)
This is just my preference, but I dislike hairy men. in case you have my noticed already, there is a trend on in the reply section. Younger women tend to dislike hairy men and older women tend to either tolerate it or like it. So, depending on how old you are and what woman you're trying to attract.. you can either keep shaving, or stop shaving. There are MANY alternative methods to shaving.
Try "sugaring". There are MANY videos on YouTube about it. It is relatively painless, does not leave razor bumps, your hair grows back slower and less coarse and your skin comes out soft. I don't shave because of all the reasons you listed in your question, lol.
My husband is hairy and I don't mind at all.
maybe it was James Bond or just my dad, but I like seeing men with thick chest hair, facial I don't mind if its tasteful. I am not a fan of back or a lot of facial hair. but I could deal with the rest. I think its all about what you like most on yourself, and learning the best way to care for it and or remove it if that is your wish.
Ouch ouch ouch, aaahhh painful to even look at. I don't care about hair a person should be liked for who they are and that is you. if you feel hairy perhaps just get some shavers and shave it down but not off.
I agree with the person who suggest the laser treatment. I don't know about cost, but it would be easier in the long run. Actually, I think you can buy a laser, but I don't know how good the home kind work. You could check into it.
You much prefer hairfree male body including the legs thighs and arms?
It's better if the man has hairfree legs as yours are?
Some hair on the legs is OK, but they don't have to look like girls legs.
Men should be hairy. I like hairy men on the chest, legs, face, arms. but when it creeps onto the shoulders that needs to go.. A hairy back is horrible to me
But in the usual places it's sexy as on a man x
It depends on the woman, but personally I like hair that is well maintained it doesn't have to be clean shaven, but there is a point where there it's too much chest hair, facial hair, etc.
The picture above is TOO much HAIRY man?
Just be you. Who cares. Hair isn't bad and if the girl doesn't like you how you are then they aren't the one for you. Be happy and confident in yourself or you will never find anyone.
Aww that's so sweet of you to be so cool about male body hair. Seriously, I didn't expect a beautiful woman to be absolutely ok with male body hair that's in huge amount as well.
Philosophical thought apart, as a young woman, are you personally absolutely ok with a man who is all natural hairy everywhere despite being overly hairy as I was before removing the hair?
Personally I don't care. If I like the guy then I really do not care what he looks like in the long run.
Objectively speaking... please.. answer.
Seeing a man with shaved whole body... even though it's prickly stubbly like those legs... is better than those Natural hairy mans bodies?
No it is not.
Both have no appeal to you?
You need emotional connection to find anything appealing? Ok
But what's more aesthetically pleasing?
No what I was saying was that I do not find the hairless one any more appealing than then none hairless one. Because I don't because I don't care.
Maybe you should try laser. It wouldn't damage your skin.
And there's nothing wrong with having some hair.
Take those negative thoughts off your mind.
Two extremes. I think the razor bumps aren't cute at all - if men are that hairy, please consider waxing or laser hair removal.
Some hair is good though, but that hairy isn't my cup of tea.
I guess If you think you're disgusting by your hair you should use the trimmer. Its not really manly to shave it all but you can trim to look clean and nice.
Don't shave. It will ruin your skin... if u really have to do it then get it waxed or just trim it with a trimmer.
Waxing chest is almost impossible. The principal of waxing plus the itchy ingrowns is hell
I prefer hair, I'm devastated that you've shaved your lovely chest hair off!!! I could easily get lost in that
I prefer the shaved more but if a boyfriend wouldn't want to keep shaving it, I'd respect it.
Maybe you can try to wax the hair, it should get smoother. Also some cream could maybe help too.
Sorry for the razor bumps. Rub some cream on that. But yea hairless looks better
If you are uncomfortable with your body hair, just trim it, but don't shave.
Ummm, why you say not to shave whole body?
Because it damage your skin causing you discomfort, and to trim is enough.
i prefer shaved... u better try laser... u won't get those issues on your skin
Thanks madam
Honestly a bit of trim would be fine. Use a hair shaver to cut a bit of the hair off. I think it will look much betterm
Even the shaved chest and stomach isn't looking nice?
I dont particularly like the shaved look.
Would you rather have a man who shaved and epilate everywhere including legs arms or a man who is hairy everywhere including Chest stomach?
Either, if I meet someone and I like him I'm not very fussy over hair levels
Maybe you would just try and accept him the way he is because you don't wanna hurt him by mentioning it to him that he is over the top hairy and he needs to maintain and remove it all off?
No seriously I m not fussy about body hair.
I don't mind a little but boy that leg hair is a lot.
I know that's a lot of leg hair. It's much much much more better shaved even Stubble is ok than that hairy?
You don't have to go completely shaven, just settle.
Just settle?
Yeah like just shave a little.. if you can.. it's up to you
Too much hair is too much.
Shaved is better?
My boyfriend has hair on his legs and chest and face. I find it rather sexy.
Absolutely. I like my SO with hair only on his head.
i think both are fine. i like the chest shaven better but i like the hairier legs. but as long as you're happy, that's all that matters.
Those much hairy legs / thighs are Also better to you than epilate ones?
i think so because your legs look like they dislike the hair removal. i'm fine with some body hair on a man, and it's common to have hairy legs, so it wasn't bad looking.
Ya since I epilate the leg and thigh and since the hairs were coarse it got bit itchy regrowth.
I guess that's acceptable, Actually more acceptable and ok in general than that heavy amount of leg hair?
My legs were overly hairy as well. It's uncommon hairy
both look fine. and different people have different amount of hair. it's all ok (:
I doubt most girls would accept that much hairy legs.
You would prefer those hairy over that shaven?
personally yeah. i may be bias though. i'm greek and everybody there is hairy so i guess i'm pretty used to it haha.
Have you seen such hairy legs on men around you? Don't the women around you dislike and make comments about hairy men?
Would you rather have a man who shaved and epilate everywhere including legs arms or a man who is hairy everywhere including Chest stomach?
women don't really make comments about it. if anything they'll comment if a man is hairless. and i would rather have a hairier man as stated before.
but both look fine
Are you assuming it that women might in general make comments about a man being hairless either naturally or by waxing and shaving?
i'm not assuming. i know it happens. i've heard comments calling hairless men rats, little boys, and albinos. it's pretty rude, but i've heard them.
You mean the young teen girls calling this things among themselves to a teen boy who was hairless? Happened Just once rarely?
They made loud comments to poke fun at him or just Whispers amongst themselves?
I mean how much hairless was this man? Hairless leg?
it was both teens and grown women. i've heard from both. i've heard it a few times from both age groups. it seems like they were talking to each other and making fun of him amongst themselves. the men were usually hairless or sparsely haired on the legs.
Ahan, it's basically the lack of hair on the legs and thighs that invited poky comments from women. Maybe they are envious/ jealous of his Smooth skinned legs? Otherwise what's not to like in hairless man's legs and arms of the very same women love hairless chests and stomach?
it's general knowledge that men are usually hairy on their legs. seeing a guy without hair is not common and people are going to notice. i don't think anybody would be jealous. if anything, they may feel sorry for the guy because they think he can't grow hair. hairless chests and stomachs are very common whereas hairless legs are not.
General knowledge. Haha OK.
I guess it's also a general knowledge that almost every woman has some or more lower legs hair. Isn't it very common thing in women as well? Then why soes everyone including the other women expect another woman to have baby Smooth soft skinned legs as if it can't grow any hair at all and even slight fuzz is unacceptable?
" if anything, they may feel sorry for the guy because they think he can't grow hair. "... are you damn serious Ma'am? Most girls might dislike hairless male legs to this extent that they might feel sorry for his smooth Legs and thighs?
Am curious, aesthetically and sexually... what's more appealing to a woman's senses, smooth skinned hairless male legs thighs arms or Natural even VERY hairy ones?
it is general knowledge that women have hair. we choose to shave because most women are expected to not have hair, and personally i find it comfier. and yes that is true from what i've seen. they could think he has a condition where he cannot grow hair. and i find hairy more appealing. it's pretty tiring hearing you ask the same questions over and over. you know my opinion, and obviously don't accept it. sorry but that's not gonna change mine.
Actually I am surprised that women Would make fun of a man who is smooth hairless skin everywhere... and would love even a very hairy man over him...
i think making fun of someone is extreme, but i understand the point on someone not being attracted to certain look. just because i love hairy men doesn't mean someone else hates the look.
You love hairy chest stomach shoulders etc etc?
i don't love it in those areas, but im not against it either. if i had to choose a hairless man or an all over hairy one, i would choose the latter.
But is it safe to say that you" love" hairy even very hairy arms legs thighs on men?
yes. i would much prefer that.
Don't be mad, but how come you like very hairy legs thighs and arms but hate hairy chest stomach shoulders?
And how come you expect a man who has very hairy legs arms to have hairless chest stomach?
well i never said hate, so don't put words in my mouth. i just like a bare chest look because it shows off a guy's muscles. i like leg hair because it looks manly and does not resemble a prepubescent boy. and it's pretty common to have hairy legs and even arms, but have minimal hair on the chest. my brother has extremely hairy legs, similar to yours, but a hairless chest and stomach. my boyfriend is the same way. my dad has a hairy chest, but mostly hairless legs. the body grows hair in different ways, and hairy legs/hairless chest is pretty common.
Wow. You actually are dating a man with such extremely hairy legs thighs and arms.
Even your own brother has Such hairy Legs thighs arms.. great...
Has either your brother or boyfriend ever Shaved or trimmed the hair on legs and arms?
boyfriend shaves groiin area?
they shave their face but that's it. no other hair removal. and no my boyfriend does not shave his groin area.
are they both absolutely comfortable wearing shorts in public and being naked around you esp when your legs and arms are hairless like a baby , which would make their legs more HAIRY compared to yours?
boyfriend doesn't even bother to shave groiin area, that's rude. You still have BJ with him?
Dad has very hairy chest?
they are both completely comfortable with wearing shorts. my boyfriend is comfortable being nude. my dad is fine being shirtless and has a hairy chest but with fine hair. my brother wants to lose weight so he isn't comfortable with being shirtless, but he's perfectly comfortable with the hair aspect. my boyfriend doesn't want to shave because there are sensitive spots down there that would kill if he were to cut himself, and he knows i prefer unshaven. it's not rude at all, quite the opposite actually. i still will gladly give him bjs. stop assuming it's always negative if a male has body hair. it's quite annoying that you're surprised by me liking body hair. you don't have to like it, but i will continue to enjoy hairy males regardless of how you view it.
I know am annoying you but am very sorry for that. I apologise.
How old are you, because according to me young teen girls dislike LOTS of male body hair and even hairy Groin area hairs...
Does your boyfriend keep it all natural hairy bush as it is down there... or it's trimmed up from time to time?
Again once again, is even very hairy arms.. I mean very hairy... ok while wearing half sleeves Shirt and t shirt, shorts with even very hairy thighs like that in pics?
i'm 17. my boyfriend keeps it all natural. and as i stated, that amount of body hair is fine.
Ever talked about hairy male groiin area with other women esp girls your age... ad they like shaven or Natural hairy?
Would you be absolutely comfortable going out with your man in shorts that expose his HAIRY legs , ESP when there are a lot of women around?
Which part of the world are you from?
most girls like shaven, but i don't. and i'm completely comfortable with him wearing shorts. as i said, i'm greek but i like in the US. why are you so interested in everyone's opinion? do what you want and don't look for approval.
Yes it's better and the prickliness is norma, however, you leg seems irritated a bit, I'd try to use a different shaver for it
I actually used epilator for the Legs.
Maybe you can try a razor or something else then if you still want to continue shaving your legs
You prefer shaved hairfreee over that HAIRY?
Honestly, the hairy wasn't too bad but I'm just saying if that's the route you wanna go then maybe you can try shaving with a razor so you don't get those tiny red bumps from irrtiation
irritation*
Philosophical thought apart, as a young woman, are you personally absolutely ok with a man who is all natural hairy everywhere despite being overly hairy as I was before removing the hair?
In some areas yes I'm okay with it and in other areas, sometimes the hair is off for the best and I think it makes some men comfortable as well in that hairless condition, for example some areas I prefer to be shaved are: The back, the back of the neck, the stomach, chest, and if you look better without a beard/mustache or it's prickly
Honestly though the legs aren't such a bad thing to be hairy it's whatever you're comfortable with
another area to shave would be the fingers, sometimes if there's too many hair only, a bit above the knuckles, thanks for taking my opinion as a youngin by the way
I am curious, why do MOST young women hate hairy chest stomach pits ad arms but are absolutely indifferent about hairy legs and thighs, and infact are open to accept / prefer a naturally very hairy legs and thighs over a shaved or probably waxed one?
Well for me, it'd just be uncomfortable for me and more clean if I was to set my hand on the stomach or chest, it's just more attractive and groomed I guess. Pits are not such a big deal to me whether they're hairy or not. The reason the bottom is more different I think is because it is more natural to have hair there, it doesn't bother me as much
Is having hair on the chest and stomach " unatural".
Lol.
Anyway, jokes apart, are you even absolutely ok and prefer that much amount of legs and thighs hair as shown in the picture above?
No but it's just like with girls, boys are different with preference, depending on which guy it is of course, whether or not they'd like a girl with hair on her stomach, chest, back, etc. I don't necessarily prefer it but it just doesn't bother me
if a guy had leg hair as long as it's not too hairy! It becomes itchy and rubs against the girl the wrong way, poking into them
Even if there' baby hairs on the chest it's not a big deal but if the chest is too hairy then it's not attractive, clean looking. It makes me picture a gorilla in my head or something
Also, if laser doesn't cost you much, lots of people do it, it's said to kill the root of your hair and works for people who mostly have dark-haired roots
That looks painful but honestly I prefer shaved or minimal hair
Don't shave your legs, just trim. Don't shave your chest, wax it. it lasts longer and looks better
Ma'am waxing or epilating chest and abdomen is not my cup of tea. Am sorry. It's hell painful, believe me. Plus it really gets itchy ingrowns. Not good experience with that.
Does stubly prickly regrowth after shaving bothersome?
Hairless is so much better and shows off the body more
I'm a big fan of hairy men. I think it's manly and it's a little bit of a turn on for me
That's so cool. RARE woman. I must say.
How about LOT and lots of chest stomach and very hairy legs thighs arms and hairy shoulders upper arms back?
That's good, keep shaving
Those prickly stubbly regrowth itchiness redness is still better than those hairiness?
Yes, next time shave in the direction your hair grows
Since I have coarse hairs shaving it in the direction of hairs doesn't give me Smooth shave. It's stybbly. Is it ok that way?
Yes it's fine
I like just a little bit of hair. That is a sign of manliness but not too much hair either.
Waxing shaving everything whole body is better and sexier than keeping all natural very much hairy?😑
In your case yes cuz ur too hairy but on others who aren't much hairy dont need to wax or shave
Men should have hair, but not too much hair. Mainly keep up on your hygiene, thats most important.
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