Would getting a boob job change your views on a girl?

I'm happy with my body in general but I'd be lying if I said I don't have a problem with my boobs or lack thereof. I'm basically flat chested (32 A/30B) and it bothers me. I've been told not to get a boob job by several people because it 'sends the wrong message' about my personality, even though I'm not shallow at all. I'm majoring in engineering, I have friends and a little sister I look after, I'm not sitting on my ass all day putting on makeup and posting selfies on Instagram. Which is why I think they're wrong, but I want to hear it from strangers.
  • Yes, I'd think she's shallow/obsessed about her appearance
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  • No, I'd just think she was upset with something and decided to change it
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  • One of the most profoundly sexy and non-sexual attractive qualities a woman can ever have is being comfortable in her own skin; being who she is and being in synch with herself. When I meet someone who's had their appearance rearranged because they couldn't live with the way they look, I see insecurity. I'm not talking here about gross disfigurement, but common garden variety cosmetic surgery. I love a girl who knows that everyone looks different, and pulls it off by the way they relate to themselves and the people around them. People like that make me want to be around them, because they help me be more in synch with myself and my unique gifts. They understand what joy is, and where it comes from. I'd invest more energy in developing your personal values and your strength of personality (which will sharpen, not erode with age), and less on stuffing your boobies with synthetic goo. Just me, though.

    by the way, don't know if the pics are you or another example, but the unenhanced girl looks wonderful to me.

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    • You can't always tell when someone's had plastic surgery. Yeah sometimes it's obvious, especially if the girl has basically two basketballs on her chest, but the best doctors make it look natural. I got my boobs done a few years ago (went up two cup sizes) and people couldn't tell. My last few boyfriends didn't know until I told them. People get plastic surgery for many reasons and it's not fair to just assume a person had work done because they were insecure. Just stop with the stereotyping.

    • @misstalia_95 Sorry; I didn't mean to put anybody down. I should have been more careful about that. It's just that I really personally prefer someone who goes a different way. Should have kept my answer more clearly about my own personal preferences. To each his own.

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  • Ok but there's is nothing wrong with sitting on your ass all day putting on makeup and posting selfies on Instagram. That's the shit I hate! If you wanna get your boobs done go get them but there's no need to address no one else lifestyle to say yours is better. You're just doing exactly what you don't want other people to do to you.

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    • I didn't say there was anything wrong with it, just that I'm not making a living out of my appearance or that I put that much value into it.

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    • It's call an attention wore. She posts a million pictures because she likes the attention. And completely changing your self with layers of make up.. She can do it all she wants, still doesn't make it right. Not very productive.

    • Thanks for sharing. But I'm not interested in your opinion and I'm not down for debates either. Have a nice day.

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What Guys Said 47

  • Do women really care that much about tits? Sure they are nice but most guys don't put much thought into them.
    The guys I know pretty much agree that if a woman has so little self worth that she needs big tits to make her happy? then that is not a woman you want to get involved with.

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  • i have to admit i have a negative association with breast implants a major reason being that i just don't like enhanced breasts compared to natural. the feel and shape are just different and not as attractive in my opinion

    i don't necessarily have a negative impression of the person as i know everyone has their reasons. i just prefer natural breasts

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  • As a man of rather have the flat chest than the fake tits. I've been with a couple of chicks with fake ones, they don't look or feel natural or sexy and then there's the scar tissue.

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  • I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that she's shallow as shit but it'd change my view on her. I'd think she has some issues with her body that she needs to work out. For my own personal preference I don't like boob jobs. They look weird and they feel different. Even a smaller size is way better.

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  • You have sexy nice breasts'. They are going to remain perky and firm into your 40's and 50's.

    I you have kids they will mature into B and C cups.

    If your breasts' feel aroused and sexy, your nipples hard, erect and need to be sucked on during intimacy,, why compromise the natural feeling,, flaunt them when you are wearing an even gown or when you are naked and with your man.

    Stimulates my mind thinking about how sexy your breasts really are.

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  • I think she wasn't happy with her natural ones. That said if you do it. Don't go massive THAT sends the wrong message. Go for a more natural look. And also do it for yourself and not for us guys. If you don't do it, be happy either way as well because lots of girls look great with small breasts.

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  • Consider the medical implications:

    A: With heavier breasts, your spine will have more stress on it. Especially with larger boobs, women tend to have more back problems later on in life. Also, running becomes more of a hassle.

    B: Breast implants are linked to higher risk for breast cancer, as well as a specific kind of breast cancer that only affects women with implants that is much more aggressive.

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  • If your self esteem and confidence is low because of your insufficient boob size , please go ahead an get the needful boob job done. There is nothing wrong in doing so. Sometimes you don't get a good sized body naturally , and medical intervention can help you to achieve what you lack. Don't listen to a few people who try to bring you down. Their nature will not help you. So you should help yourself.

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  • A
    but also they don't feel the same, as good to either party
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    smaller = more stylish clothes, cleavage w/o being x-rated and allowed to be more flirty and cock teaser w/o so many consequences from others

    You'll get more men of your type by staying natural and more open to their advances... that you flirt out of them

    Later on realize men keep one giving good sex/Bjs longer than big boobies

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  • I find it ugly, i rather have a girl with small boobs then with fake boobs. Natural is beauty everything else is generally non proportional. But then again i seem to be attracted to smaller fitting boobs then huge ones.

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  • Boob jobs just look bad and look fake and they will make you look fake. You are majoring in engineering; how do you have time to think about this boob nonsense anyways?

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  • For me, my initial thought would be that the woman cares too much about her appearance.

    I mean, it's one thing to lose / gain weight, tan, build muscle, change hair styles / lengths, dye hair, wax, etc. to help your self-esteem, but it's a whole other league to surgically implant visible foreign objects into your body for that same end. Just my two cents.

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  • It's going to be your choice in the end... it's your body and you have your reasons. I could say that there is no wrong reason, but I would be lying. But my opinion on it is that I have known several girls who have had theirs done for various reasons and I never thought of them as shallow...

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  • i think if she is willing to go through surgery to make hersrlf more noticed and to get more attention then its just wrong you should be getting attention because you are who you are. if she is doing because its what she truly wants and she doesn't care about being noticed then i guess its fair

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  • I regard every one who undertakes a 'beatification' surgery of any kind to be a person who is, for one reason or another, unsatisfied with their body. So, no I don't think getting a boob job automatically makes you shallow.

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  • I'm against boob job, but I think you need to do things in life that make you happy.

    If getting it will make you happy in the long term than do it.

    Just remember how you present yourself is who you'll attract.

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  • Just do what ever makes you happy. If it makes you feel more confident and better about yourself than do it. If you look at some of the polls on here you will see that many men don't care too much about breast size, and in fact many prefer smaller breasts. The one thing I would not recommend is making a huge jump up in size. For me at least, a large turn off is huge unnatural looking boobs.

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  • Yes, but I wouldn't think she's shallow. I would think about how she must've been a insecure person and if that would be shocking to me or not.

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  • Yes, and not only for the mentioned personality reasons. It's also a downgrade in my opinion, I rather have my girlfriend have small natural boobs than big fake ones. Big boobs are nice, but that doesn't mean that any kind of big boobs are nice.

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  • Yes, but not for the same reasons you think. Any kind of plastic surgery is honestly very visually unappealing for me.
    To be even more specific, I can't masturbate do enchanced boobs or lips. Huge visual turn off.

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What Girls Said 13

  • i wouldn't assume that she was shallow

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  • Honestly, you get a skilled surgeon and go for a natural size and no one will even be able to tell that you've had a boob job. The guys who say that all boob jobs are terrible - they probably came face to face with someone with a breast aug at some point in their life and didn't even know it.
    You have other things going on in your life which shows you aren't preoccupied with your appearance. If you want to, go for it. I wouldn't think any less of the person under those conditions.

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  • And I'm here wishing to have smaller boobs just cause I don't wanna wear a bra during the heat LOL! But anyways, you can get a boob job just be careful though. I know someone who gotten a boob job then had a bad allergic reaction to them and had to remove them. Some girls look a little odd with bigger boobs, but if you feel that insecure about your boobs being small.. I guess you could get them done. If that's what you wanted.

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  • It doesn't change my view point on them as a person. But I will say that unless there's no medical reason for it to be done then they're decision is extremely shallow and vain. But that doesn't make them a bad person. Just proves they're not confident about something. Everyone is self conscious about SOMETHING.

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  • Her breasts were not small to begin with so why lose all that sensitivity in breasts and nipples from surgery? Also, there's probably implications for breast-feeding if she ever wants children and to breast-feed them.

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  • honestly the stigma around plastic surgery is so dumb lol. i'm getting my ass done in a couple weeks because i want to. who cares? it's your body your life and it it makes you insecure then fix it.

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  • I don't know about guys, but if it makes you feel better you should do it, we don't judge people that grt braces even tho they're teeth are fine, but look crooked. ❤️❤️

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  • Not if she was my friend-I'd wish she was more confident in her natural body but would I look down on her-no way.

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  • You should do it, but make sure it looks natural. So basically get a boob job to look like you were born with bigger breasts, not look like you went and got a boob job.

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  • Girl, it's your body and you can do whatever you want with it. It's great that you're working and doing something with your life but you do not EVER need to justify a boob job. Nowadays people hear "boob job" and they just envision huge tits that look like two basketballs. It's ridiculous. I got my boobs done when I was 19 (went up two cup sizes to a DD) and literally hardly anyone could tell. And those friends I did tell, were just like "well good for you, you look amazing". The best advice I can give you on this is 1) make sure you find a very good BOARD CERTIFIED doctor 2) do it for YOU and you only, surgery is serious and not something you want to do to impress someone 3) don't give a flying f*** what people say.

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  • No, I'd just think she was upset with something and decided to change it

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  • I think if it'll make you happy then do it you do you live your life how you want to live it

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  • When i wear my padded bras guys like it

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