I’m a DDD, I go braless a lot during the summer because bras make me sweat too much lol. My boobs are not saggy at all. I think I get more judgement because my nipples are pierced lol. Anyways what I notice most is that people usually wonder if my boobs are fake which I admit they do look fake at times 🤷🏾♀️. Since I live in Florida it’s hot so I don’t really worry about hard nipples. I think if you look good and feel comfortable, do you.
I never really wear one anymore. I'll put a tank top under whatever I'm wearing but that's it. I'm not gonna put strain, stress& underwire on my boobs for the comfort of other people's immaturity. Granted I'm a perky B cup and can get away with it, but who cares. Your boobs your rules, don't like it than dont look.
Personally, I never understood the problem with guys about women and bras. I've never had a friend who made fun of a woman because of or lack of a bra. guys like nipples, so we'll look at them, but never heard a guy friend say anything beyond "nice tits".
That said, other women tear each other apart over such things. I think they notice a lot more then the straightest men do. Women can be mean.
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hmm that is very true. I think that women may be more critical outwardly. Although men may seem to say they are ok with it sometimes I think they are inwardly judgmental in the same way that women are.
We... Are appreciative? We're not strictly against it, but we do wonder a few things. Or, at least personally. Like, does a shirt chafe more or less than a bra? Or, do you find being turned on while braless to be embarrassing or just what happens happens?
The fact that so many men on here think that going bra-less means a girl is seeking attention, is really disappointing. If their dicks were the equivalent of a 38DDD and they had to strap it tightly against them for hours and hours and hours they’d maybe consider wearing some large sweatpants and letting it just fly sometimes. I’m not concerned with what they think if I wear a big sweatshirt and no bra when I go to a movie or to grab a few groceries. They shouldn’t be looking anyway. And in my case, my boobs look better when I am wearing a bra... I’m definitely not trying to get attention by not wearing one. When I’m not wearing one I feel incognito.
Another thing. There are cultures in which wearing a bra would be considered slutty so it’s absurd that these guys are calling bra-less girls sluts. I’m seriously so disappointed in men right now. Some of them get it but some are disgusting. Worry about yourselves and stop looking at women’s chests ya pervs.
To be completely honest, it makes me start objectifiying them sexually. It makes me stare and become aroused because I can see their nipples through their shirt and that’s incredibly hot.
Pretty sure this isn’t what women want to hear, but it’s the truth. I love it because it turns me on, much like I love seeing women in swim-suits. What can I say?
I can restrain myself after I realize I’m staring, but I’ll usually look first and then realize I looked afterwards. It’s like a reflex or instinct for guys to check women out. We just can’t help ourselves.
But, I’d probably also admire your sexual freedom and comfort with yourself because that’s something I’m trying to work on. So this respect would balance out, or outweigh any prior objectification.
Well what i think of this is that i think it's fine to me. Because there are many women out there who would just go for it & feel comfortable without having to wear their bras in certain times. And if they want to do it just to feel good then they can do it only if they choose to wear a bra or not. Some women out there love it & some of the other women hate it. Overall what i truly think of women going out braless is that i think it's really hot mostly but i don't talk about this in front of the ladies because of 2 things: 1.) Because of my nervousness. 2.) I don't want them accusing me of sexual harassments just because of me giving them some compliments about their looks & so on.
After looking it up, turns out that there is evidence that bras don't counter sagging. So I would encourage anyone to go braless, if they don't mind it.
I personally couldn't give a shit about it, just know that if you are planning on running for the train, maybe you should pack a sports bra, because that might be beneficial for you.
That's about the extent I care about bras. Do whatever you want, just don't be surprised if people are staring at you if your nipples stick out. Let's be honest here, you look at guy's biceps and ass too, if they put on a tight short and tight jeans, and have meat on them. So let's not play games - I will probably check you out. If that annoys you, wear a bra. Again, I don't care either way.
And just to clarify - me accepting it doesn't mean I will defend YOUR choice if you get called a slut for it. People need to take responsibility for their decisions, and stop demanding the silencing of opinions because it is "uncomfortable". Face it, there will always be some people who will call women sluts for whatever reason, just like there will be women who shame men for various reasons.
YOU have to decide whose opinion matters to you, and how much exactly. I don't think anyone should be denied a job application for going braless, but I am not the authority there. If the employer thinks it's not cool - don't do it.
So yeah. It's an interesting thing, thinking about moral issues, and how to address them without stepping on someone's toe.
I have wore a bra around 10 times only for the past 2 years. It has been really freeing me, cause I die in whatever kind of them, even sports one. I was pretty concerned at the beginning, because of what people would think - truth is I've only heard bad words from women. It just really confused me, as they are supposed to be the ones that know the struggles from having a bra. I even had a woman prevent me from doing my work, because I went like that to work. But it was over in 2 days. I don't think guys care about it.
she looks like a douchebag I dislike seeing girls without bras on for many reasons 1 i hate seeing their nipples when they are cold 2 i hate to feel their saggy tits when they hug me 3 i also hate to think about how 4-6 years from now their tits will droop more
I love woman like sexually so i like tits too i just don't like tits at certain times like when im trying to not be horny in public
You know that a bra makes your boobs sag more? Because of the support the boobs relax and so sag more. So go braless once in a while (when you are sleeping)
@LuWe22 i sleep naked. And no they actually don't i have my mom to figure that out. She went braless her entire life and her tits sag like fuck and have for a long time
Honestly. If a woman doesn't have a bra on in public, I really don't much care. I might think her body lines are more natural and smooth, just as I sometimes think a bra, makes a woman's body lines less smooth. I might think she likes things more natural, in general. As fare as personality, I might think she cares more about comfort than formality, and is a little more of a free spirit. Maybe. I don't think she is less moral, or is out to get guys to look at her boobs
I prefer without I like mutality were boys your girls I feel if we don't wear bras then why should you? It looks better (and is there anything wrong with that tbh? Isn't that what makes us human in the same way girls stare at a bulge or even our boobs apparently girls like boobs too) but at the same time if you can't go without a bra then because of pain then I don't mind. In summary if you can or want to go without a bra then great it's also healthier but at the same time don't feel you have to.
Bras are not natural. Clothing isn’t even natural but I’m not going that far. As long as someone wears a shirt to cover the bare skin, Why should anyone be forced to wear something that just reshapes a body part that exists whether you’re wearing the bra or not?
Being bra-less is fine in most situations as long as you’re not wearing something super tight and basically trying to show off. But If you’re wearing a sweatshirt and no one can tell anyway, then why not be comfy?
It's all good for some girls, but I wouldn't reccomend it for everyone. It's not something I'd reccomend if you're going to be in a work invironment, family outing or a first date, but if you're on your time, you do you. For some people it's better to keep things in place instead of flying free like if you're going to go exercise a sports bra is really a good idea. If you're on a date, presentation should be considered. When it boils down though, you should be able to look in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Your healthy confidence is the best answer.
Some girls are lucky and you can hardly notice but in reality the average girl just looks like she got two socks with tennis balls at the bottom of them attached to her chest. So in public no it's not a good look in my opinion but if it's what makes another girl feel comfortable and she doesn't feel self conscious go for it, it not hurting anyone
As a man and only speaking for myself, I can say, you have a big YES. However, there is a consideration for this, if the woman has breasts that sag to the stomach, NO, and if there's not much there then also a No and if the woman is merely seeking attention as is typically the case, this is also a NO.
Some women look great braless, some look terrible. But most are somewhere in between. And the ones that look terrible probably look pretty bad even with a bra. I think that most women look pretty good without. Movement under the shirt/dress is more normal looking than stiff with a bra. And nipples being obvious is also natural.
If they are braless outside and all the time than it's not good, we'll for me if you go braless for long period of time than your boobs get saggy don't you think and they will look like your grandma's really fast. I think Bra keeps their shape and beauty up which keeps the men more interested on a women
It really depends how it looks. If I can see your nipples popping out it might be a bit much but if you have clothes that cover or nipple caps I dont see how it would be a problem. It really would depend mostly on your comfort, I mean the bras mostly for support
The smaller the breasts, the better it is for her to go braless. That's when the woman should play up her boobs a little more, and show off what she has. Plus smaller-breasted women can get away with it--even going topless under a smart jacket.
I believe it should be up to the woman whether or not she wants to wear a bra or not. I honestly really have no problem with it. However, most men can't keep their damn eyes from gawking. I honestly believe if it weren't for this, there would be a lot more women going without a bra, because I've heard from a lot of them, just how uncomfortable they can be.
I think it's very sexy, the imagination is the largest sex outlet, braless shows a wonderful tease that makes normal guys go Hmmm and wonder, if I was blessed w/ breasts I'd rarely wear a bra, but I'm a guy, not a perv, personally it's insanely beautiful, anyone disagrees they're just not very well off in their noggin, please tease me I'll appreciate your nipples but do so to myself, bless nipples everywhere,. Kevin
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Some men will either think that the woman who doesn’t wear a bra is A. Doing so to seduce him specifically, B. Is loose/easy/slutty, C. Is *gasp* a dreaded feminist, or D. Is a hippie, or at least a hipster. However, if your girls don’t need the added support from a bra to prevent back pain, then by all means make the choice for yourself if you want to wear a bra or not. Who cares about what others think?
every woman has right to dress how they want however you must think how not wearing a bra portrays yourself to some guys. some guys might think you are easy even if you aren't. I understand though bras don't look very comfortable. If you do ot wearing a white shirt you know what you are doing and maybe teasing guys is your thing. to each is own
I go braless if the outfit requires it, like a backless dress or something. Also when I go to the grocery store on the weekend, basically wearing pjs, I just can’t be bothered to wear a bra.
I have a friend who does that. Not a good friend, but she's over at the house sometimes. She's got gigantic, pendulous boobs that are braless like 90% of the time. I always think "swing low, sweet chariot..." and the damn things are distracting.
altho im female, i gotta deffend my girls *looks down at chest* lol i can't go braless due to size of em' but i do prefer 'no wire' bras. underwire bras are annoying as shit! LOL nor will i pay 50 bucks from Victoria Secretes for a bra.
Depends. If she has small boobs, then, I'd say she's just being comfortable. Of course, the same can be said if she has big boobs but the nagging suspicion would be that she's attention seeking.
I certainly don't think any less of them. I think women should feel free to either wear or not wear a bra as they choose. It doesn't have anything to do with their character or what they're all about as a person.
I don't know about men, but myself, I feel very awkward around people who don't wear underwear. You can totally tell. It is as if the other is naked. Except for some dresses or tops of particular style or those with a lining inside.
Well, they could do it for whatever reason but I still think it's inappropriate. That's my personal point of view. There was this one time when a girl from my class was wearing a crop top without a bra and she bent over and everyone could literally see her boobs.
I forgot to mention: there are some clothes that you can wear without a bra and still look decent... but I believe it looks inappropriate when you're wearing like a really tight top and no bra.
The whole crop-top-no-bra-everyone-seeing-her-boobs situation I understand, that's pretty intense hahaha. I'm not trying to start a fight or anything, I just want to understand your opinion better :) Would you mind elaborating on why you think it's inappropriate?
No problem, I'm not looking for a fight either haha. I think it is inappropriate because the boobs are a sexual part of a female's body and flaunting them like that will definitely get unecessary attention... I go out without a bra sometimes but it usually happens if I wear something that my nipples won't show trough... but I'm small chested anyway. And honestly most girls I've seen not wearing a bra looked like they were trying really hard to draw attention to that... making comments to guys like "you wanna hug me now?" lol I'm a girl and I get that bras are uncomfortable and you feel like not wearing one from time to time but I believe you should wear them to places like school, work etc.
I see, that does make sense. I would argue that breasts are not inherently sexual as they are not a sexual organ, and there are cultures in the world where women go topless and it is not any different to seeing their arms or legs. However, I do believe that our society certainly has sexualised the hell out of breasts, so baring them could draw sexual attention, whether if that was the intention or not. My position would be education children about bodies and encourage the media to not hypersexualise everything so much so that we can try and change our society's opinion about breasts and not wearing a bra, which I view simply as a comfort decision. Either way, I respect your opinion that it could be inappropriate in certain settings or with certain intentions :)
@JennyDarling I agree that they are not sexual organs. Everyone has them and it's just society that has declared hem sexual. At topless beaches no one stares at them and guys don't get hard seeing them. It's normal if everyone shows them.
Look I'm torn on this, I get the comfort and stuff of that nature, but there are times I've seen girls doing this and their nipples reaaaally protruding out. Same goes for overweight guys. It's hard not to notice.
Doesn't bother me. In fact I'm surprised more women don't go braless given my sisters don't half bang on about how uncomforable or painful they can be!!
Honestly? That she is very confident. Usually slightly more appealing as far as physical attraction goes. And that she will probably be easier to get/ havelower standards. No offense. That's what I'd think.
Of course men like it ! Lol as a women I do not think it is appropriate for outside especially if your size is big. I am not planning to get male attention with my boobs so no for me. Only at home.
It's their choice. I personally prefer one because that's just me. I do occasionally let the girls hang free? I don't see men being judged for thing shirtless or withit an undershirt.
I don’t like it personally because I find it uncomfortable and I think there are certain circumstances where you certainly should be wearing a bra, but otherwise I don’t care
I’m a small C and I love not wearing a bra. I normally just use nipple pads because I don’t want men to look at my nips more than they do at my face. They deserve to be free, you know.
50/50 1: I'm a boobs man so breasts turn me on in general but even more so knowing the breasts are more vulnerable and free to move from the bralessness. Those are feelings I've just learned to live with.
2: Happy for the women for the comfort and unrestricted news they experience.
Side note: I asked a female friend for a hug once and she was all too happy to oblige but added, "I'm not wearing a bra though" and I thought in my head, "so?" It didn't matter to me in the least.
I hope people won't care, but I won't lie and say I don't feel uneasy when it a large group with no bra on, especially because I'm in the south, not California or something.
Modesty always sends a better image than sexy, so if you are doing this to show off your breasts it's going to reflect that kind of value on you. Though my girlfriend has very small breasts so sometimes she doesn't wear a bra but it's not to show off. Tldr; if you can tell you aren't wearing a bra, then you should wear a bra.
I mean... that depends on her reasoning. If it's for comfort, she is comfort-seeking. If it's for attention, she's attention-seeking. There's really nothing else to say.
@BOUNTYGUY9 The bottom half I think about differently because I don't want fecal matter running around in my clothes, but I can understand wanting your balls to be free
not a guy but I honestly think girls with small boobs don't have to wear bras because they don't need the extra support. The only thing they really need to cover are the nips
Hehe nice with white t-shirts when it is raining... No serious I dont mind. Otherwise I would have to giva some man a bra aswell...(and they even are allowed to walk topless ( even if I admit their bravety to ignore the others in such situations))
I don't know my girl does it sometimes just for comfort but then she has these nipple covers under her shirt that she sort of tapes on lol. Not a big deal.
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